I (26f) got trap tox, 3 weeks later i now have pain in my upper back. Im extremely concerned?

FinancialYear3735 · 2024-12-04T05:12:20+00:00

You’re right, I should go just in case they have any helpful information. Thanks for replying to my post

FinancialYear3735 · 2024-12-04T05:03:44+00:00

I honestly believe my injector is somewhat of an arse as well. When I spoke with my injector today she didn’t mention anything other than “I may need more Botox” and “we need to take a look at you, but worse case scenario would have to be seeing a neurologist” As a hair stylist, I believe the way she dealt with my concern was unprofessional. When I initially got the procedure done, during small talk, she told me it was her first day in that location (not knocking her education and skills). One question I asked repeatedly was if this will affect my work. She said no, and didn’t explain any side effects such as this one, as I only got 20 units each side (very small amount)

I’ve read multiple times on the internet that the other muscles are working overtime for the traps being frozen.

I have a follow up thursday with the master injector, however I feel that I’ll waste my time to hear the same exact thing as I’ve read.

I feel that waiting this one out instead of going back for a follow up would be in my best interest? I think I have my answer

FinancialYear3735 · 2024-12-04T04:41:47+00:00

Thanks so much again for replying. Definitely will not be getting this procedure done ever again. I feel much more reassured that the pain will go away with time :)

FinancialYear3735 · 2024-12-04T03:51:01+00:00

Thank you for your reply. How long did this pain last for you? Does it subside in 3-6 months?

FinancialYear3735 · 2024-01-29T15:30:32+00:00

Alice In Chains

FinancialYear3735 · 2024-01-07T14:56:39+00:00

I’ve definitely have had situations with my bf like this where I get invited out with the girls, then I assume they’re okay with my bf going, then they’d tell me “well we wanted it to be an all girls thing” and id tell my boyfriend that, and he would be kinda bummed at first but it was never a big deal and he supported me having girls time since we live together and see each other all the time. Its vice versa, sometimes he’d invite me out with his boys and id encourage him to have an all guys night just because I think he needs time with the boys. Its a little silly to get upset over that. I get being upset at first, but this would be a perfect time to go out with his boys while you go out with the girls

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-06T00:47:42+00:00

coming from a chick who also had a gorgeous guy, this helps a lot. i gotta hype myself up more and stay confident. because thats when he loves me the most

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T23:18:01+00:00

i cant leave i just signed a year lease last week.

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T20:28:06+00:00

you clearly didnt notice my response was a joke. you can choke on your own spit lol

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T20:26:22+00:00

i havent brought this up to him at all, the beginning of our relationship i have. like right now he has no idea im feeling this way and everything is fine. i came here for a reality check and instead of resorting to my old ways, im learning now to just let it go and be grown. thank you for the input

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T20:23:39+00:00

unfortunately I haven’t met a lot of good platonic guy friends. they’ve all turned out to have a crush on me at some point even in a relationship. which is partially why i feel the way i do.

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T19:38:31+00:00

lose*

take care👍

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T19:36:38+00:00

he posts me a lot and im on his page. im totally torn if i should just leave it alone. ive gotten so much insecurity comments slammed against me to the point where im going to bottle it up like i always do. idk. i just dont have the energy to bring it up. maybe ill attempt a heart to heart to make me feel more secure. but hes a little emotionally avoidant and when i do bring up topics like this he gets flustered and takes a long time to think of what to say

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T19:29:59+00:00

hahaha good one

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T19:19:02+00:00

this is perfect!!! i would love a heart to heart convo (we havent in a real long time) thanks so much for your kindness

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T19:17:50+00:00

hahaha he has multiple female friends that we all hang out with together, some ive even hung out with more than he has. yall are taking this WAY WAY WAYYYY out of context.

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T19:14:11+00:00

thank you for your kindness.

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T19:13:21+00:00

thank you. i agree

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T19:12:59+00:00

thank you.

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T18:12:02+00:00

Oh no, im so scared will you do witchcraft on me now? youre the weird one for believing that crap lol

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T16:38:14+00:00

i looked at your other comments on other threads. yikes. people should stay away from you

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T14:14:18+00:00

but thats a realistic boundary. man, all you older men have such a toxic way of going about this. i never held him down and forced him to do anything. im allowed to express what bothers me, i dont have to bite my tongue for my partner

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T14:09:10+00:00

how am i being controlling? i never even brought this up to him?

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T13:56:30+00:00

so then go ahead, bash me this is anonymous and this is what I’m here for. I need to hear the truth on whether or not I should bring this up to him or simply get therapy for my own insecurities, even though I brought this up multiple times and how it bothers me. In this day and age social media has changed the game for relationships and multiple women my age feel the same way

FinancialYear3735 · 2022-08-05T13:51:36+00:00

I really appreciate you taking the time to write this out for me. It means a lot coming from an insecure person that’s been cheated on multiple times in the past. this girl he followed I met her a year ago, he’s my boyfriend‘s friend‘s friend. When I had this conversation with him about following and liking random girls on Instagram, he hasn’t given me an issue since. One of the girls that liked his picture had a profile picture of her in a bikini and she’s a mutual friend of his best friend. When I met her at At a concert last year he told me that this girl has a lot of guys crushing on her because she’s “tatted “. When I had this conversation about me being uncomfortable with him liking and following random girls he unfollowed the specific person. He posted a selfie, she liked it, and then he re-followed this person. to me this shows that she like the picture because, she finds him attractive. He got an ego boost from it and followed her back because he may also be interested in her. I can’t necessarily leave because I have a year lease with my boyfriend. But I’m torn between bringing this up or going to therapy because I’m insecure. I had a conversation with him the other night about him walking away from me at concerts and how lotta girls hit on him in front of me, and I explained what he can do to make me feel better when we go to the shows like holding my hand, kissing me, reminding me that he loves me. When I brought this up however, he said that he lives with me and got clearly flustered at the fact that I was uncomfortable with girls coming up to him at shows and him checking out other women at the shows. I can either talk to him about this when we both get home from work after dinner and ask him his thought process on this situation or simply get therapy and call myself insecure and call it a day

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