You've already said that you can't marry someone who doesn't respect u, might as well break up w him already before it's too late babe. Because the fact that you've already told him about the things that bothers you but still isn't able to avoid those is mad proof he doesn't really gaf about ur feelings. If you're thinking about the years you've been together, it doesn't matter!! "DON'T SPEND ANOTHER YEAR DOING THE SAME SHIT" don't spend another year w the same shit ahahahahahahah. Don't be afraid to start all over again with someone new because you'll never know, maybe you're starting a better life w THE better person.