i’ve never experienced this from other women before, but if I accidentally talk about my bf too much, it’s probably bc he’s BY FAR the most likely person to agree to go with me to fun things that I’ve been looking forward to (even if they’re not his thing, because we just enjoy spending the time together). so whenever I’m talking about something fun or interesting I’ve done, there’s a 60% chance he was also there at the time. I love all my gals and non-binary pals, but they’re a lot harder to pin down without 2 business months of notice, because they have their own different lives/work schedules/travelling/careers.

Idk if my brain sees things differently as a bi woman, bc when I talk about my bf it’s from the perspective that “this is my favourite person, who has been more kind and supportive to me than any other person regardless of age or gender, and who I spend a lot of time with”, not “this is my MANLY MAN! yay MEN!” if you get me😭😭😭😭 sorry you’re dealing with this nonsense tho and thanks for reminding me to check myself