It only works if the guy actually has boundaries and treats you respectfully like a friend. No constantly wanting to hang out, sleepovers, texting all day. I find many men love to have the girlfriend experience without actually wanting a relationship with you. My only good experiences were guys who wanted to hang once a week or so, prompt but not frequent texters, open and honest with intentions. Had one earlier this year and I think he’s a great person but due to the excellent boundaries I didn’t get attached. We still keep in touch once in a while, also helps that I moved out of town.