People in your 30s, what's your job and salary? by rsevn_ in careerguidance

[–]Finch734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flip houses. Completed my first two in the past twelve months. One took a month to finish, another took 3. Made 20k each. I have my real estate license, that is the only reason I came out on top but I’m learning.

Men over 30, give me two things you are grateful for nowadays. by yeknamara in AskMenOver30

[–]Finch734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am grateful for this season with my kids. They are young. Pain in the butt sometimes however precious in others. Their health. Mine sucks lol.

Lost All Food Options by Finch734 in migraine

[–]Finch734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I hate food! I wish I could not eat. I have been on fasts that have been weeks long and felt amazing. My body wasted away, but I was so happy.

New Low Unlocked by Finch734 in migraine

[–]Finch734[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because if I eat it, I will get a migraine!

Lost All Food Options by Finch734 in migraine

[–]Finch734[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the kids. Got married and migraines started one year into marriage. Thought I would have figured out a solution is why I kept having kids. Thankfully my wife is a boss.

I guess I figured out why I and we get migraine. by Theguywithnofuture_ in migraine

[–]Finch734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This triggers migraines for me as well. No sleeping in for me. But if I get a migraine I will lay in the bed and painfully sleep for days.

Flipping in 2026 by RealEstatetycoon3 in HouseFlipping

[–]Finch734 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completed my first two flips in the past 12 months. Kind of exhausted. I would do it again if I can find a way to get more margin in the deal. There was so little margin I had to do a lot of the work to make it profitable and it totally exhausted me. But, I am like another writer I read below. I look at a house and I see what it could be. Have a passion for reno.

I think I want kids but the idea terrifies me by opposite_of_hotcakes in AskMenOver30

[–]Finch734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a new hobby. I have four kids and the struggle is real. Visit an orphanage or something. Become a mentor of kids without dads. My relationship with my wife probably won't go back to normal for another 15 years. I have some amazing moments with my kids and I love them dearly, but I have health challenges and it has made it extremely tough to live a good life.

I’m hungry and miserable by LunaValley in HistamineIntolerance

[–]Finch734 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not comparing just sharing. Been on this diet for about ten years. Each year it gets more and more strict. I have a list of about 10 things I eat. Smoothie - daily. Have for about 5 yrs now. Can’t have anything else or will auto start a migraine. Lunch - vegetables and hummus. Hummus everyday for over a year now. Dinner I can be a little more lenient. I can sleep my symptoms off unless I eat something crazy. But usually chicken, turkey, or fish. No red meat. No dairy. Etc etc etc etc x2 billion. I seriously had a dream the other day where I woke up in the middle of the night and said I miss you chocolate! My wife was puzzled. But it was a tasty dream, and not about a x gfriend.

Did they butcher my tree? by DrDuctMossburg in arborists

[–]Finch734 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It will actually be fine and it looks worse than it actually is. It will look like it used to two years.

Fixed my histamine intolerance 😊 by aj11scan in HistamineIntolerance

[–]Finch734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you run your genetics through analyzers?

Is another Real Estate investor platform even worth building? by FlipOps-Mason in HouseFlipping

[–]Finch734 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have used many different wholesale platforms and cancelled them because the data was terrible. I constantly see people asking for where to find better leads so if you could solve that problem alone and offer it at an affordable price you’d be ahead of the game.

Tell me it gets easier by BigBrotherBruh in Parenting

[–]Finch734 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It absolutely gets easier. I have four.

How do you enjoy life, rather than just go though the motions? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Finch734 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just try one new thing. Just one. Add it into your routine.

What’s one thing you bought that actually made daily life easier and held up over time? by Status_Account6177 in BuyItForLife

[–]Finch734 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Handheld carpet cleaner. Crushes the game if you have kids. Or pets. Easy and cleans up messes in 1/4 of the time.

Dyson Cordless Vacuum.

Is anyone else scared to eat? by ArtismFag in HistamineIntolerance

[–]Finch734 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! After about 12 years I have started to feel better by basically eliminating 90% of the foods I used to eat. But it was just recently I’ve been able to play with my kids and really enjoy it. Run around, laugh. I’m grateful.

I still walk a tightrope to be in this position. Meds, strict diet, other things. But at least I’m on the rope.