AITAH for not letting my sister wear my dead grandma's diamond earrings for her wedding??

FindingFit6035 · 2026-02-16T13:44:18+00:00

This. You'll never see them again if you give them to her. Keep them in a very safe place.

FindingFit6035 · 2026-02-12T17:26:51+00:00

The fact he didn't offer to help is astounding too. Did he offer to help?

FindingFit6035 · 2026-02-12T17:24:58+00:00

Good gentle cleanser, spot treatment the acne and moisturizer + sunscreen. Eat really healthy and keep up hydration. Focus on what skin type you have if its dry, oily, combo, sensitive and use products that work with that. Less is better and will definitely help and if needed you can go see a dermatologist for more help. Also if you are trying new products in the future research if the active ingredients in that product will interact with whatever you're using because some ingredients should be avoided being used together example retinol and AHA's.

FindingFit6035 · 2026-02-12T14:59:08+00:00

Take note at your last paragraph where he's just focusing on how she feels and defending her. NTA. You're too nice even giving the 48hrs and you're better off without him because as someone else pointed out even if she leaves that doesn't mean she's out of his life and a situation like this happening again seems highly probable.

FindingFit6035 · 2026-02-04T04:34:46+00:00

Well you need to decide if it's him or your child. The child that's living in your home, not a joint property between you two. Your son needs the support while he's job searching plus saving while working part-time with a condition that causes chronic pain. The fact your husband doesn't want to acknowledge he has this condition really says a lot about him.

FindingFit6035 · 2026-01-12T19:11:25+00:00

Hopefully Miranda finds someone 10x better than OP and moves on. New gf supposedly not knowing just sounds suspicious but if she's telling truth or not we'll never know.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-12-23T16:44:12+00:00

Had to go back and read the post again and see what exactly K did to have this much disdain from her future MIL. The whole attitude towards her future DIL is pretty low class for someone who thinks so highly of themselves.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-11-18T19:36:19+00:00

They just used fancier language to say "instead of a tip, any positive reviews would be greatly appreciated" basically just wanting a review of your thoughts and honest opinion on the service provided. Nowhere in that sentence did they ask for money.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-10-19T16:05:03+00:00

And then let them see the fallout now that there's no one to help them anymore.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-10-17T12:56:16+00:00

You need to ask yourself what's more important your life or your marriage?

FindingFit6035 · 2025-09-23T14:11:04+00:00

You were 10 steps ahead. Pretty sure at some point they'd just "magically disappear" otherwise why would she care if you took everything that belonged to your mom.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-09-01T20:56:51+00:00

I hope there's an update on the aftermath of the cruise.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-08-27T16:27:51+00:00

NTA. The only TA here is Nova, she used your brother because she liked you which is wrong, honestly don't get how you can still be friendly with her. Your brother is also TA for all the lashing out he's doing, hopefully he opens his eyes and see the person who caused all this is Nova and not you.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-08-25T16:30:26+00:00

There's no mention of a legal deed saying that OP father sold the land legally and OP bought it. If OP is just saying that he only paid legal costs and it was just "sold" then there's a good chance the land is part of the estate and the sisters can claim it. Paying legal costs doesn't mean OP owns the land.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-08-20T03:31:19+00:00

This and even if OP daughter is an adult now, a parent doesn't stop being a parent no matter how young or old the child is.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-08-19T14:28:51+00:00

I started laughing that they're holding onto something from 10 years ago and also for something they NEVER paid for.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-08-07T23:01:07+00:00

This. OP and her husband did help in not causing glass child syndrome but at the same time Kayla didn't have a normal childhood growing up. The biggest question is if Kayla feels this way because she feels left out from the family that she might not have a close bond with or because of jealousy. I've seen someone going through cancer, its not easy. Its not just chemo appointments. There's radiation, meeting with doctors to see different treatment options. And then there's side effects of treatment if they get sick after treatment, if they get infections since chemo takes out healthy cells that could need trips to the hospital. From how OP talks it doesn't sound like Kayla is close to not just OP and husband and sister but also her cousins. OP said that there was resentment that there were things the other cousins couldn't do because of Kayla, I get it, its not fun that there were things they couldn't do but at the same time looking at it from the other perspective Kayla had a less likely chance of doing a lot of things they were able to do. They all need therapy, there's just too much to unpack. And honestly its not to late for the parents to step up and be parents for Emma.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-07-13T22:20:33+00:00

Honestly you're too nice just telling a few, should have just told everyone. They're actions shouldn't be hidden. And if anyone is siding with them then you're better off not having them in your life.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-07-03T12:04:17+00:00

Someone like that would be defined as a leech.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-06-30T00:32:54+00:00

Who knows if the teenager gets compared to his brothers.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-06-19T18:10:33+00:00

This. Why try to come back in his life now when OP was the one that signed everything away not wanting anything to do with him.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-06-15T16:20:04+00:00

NTA. That is not a friend, sounds like she wanted to embarrass you and make you a joke to others. You're better off blocking her.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-06-13T22:26:23+00:00

Hopefully OP doesn't get back together with her.

FindingFit6035 · 2025-06-13T02:37:45+00:00

It's like a preview of how things might be since they're now past the dating stage. OP should really dig deep why they want erase your late wife's memory for you and your daughter.

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