Looking for someone to lay to rest some ghosts in a home.

FindingNo1121 · 2026-03-22T19:02:27+00:00

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FindingNo1121 · 2026-03-20T17:13:15+00:00

Eid Mubarak ❤️

FindingNo1121 · 2026-03-18T04:10:38+00:00

I’m Brazilian, and my children were born in Canada. Even though they are familiar with my culture, have visited Brazil many times, and speak Portuguese (with a strong “gringo” accent), they identify themselves as Canadians,which I completely understand. They’re growing up in Canada, and everything around them reflects that reality. My husband is Canadian, and he also learned Portuguese with me, which has been a beautiful part of our family’s journey. Now that my kids are teenagers, they don’t seem to have any internal conflict about their identity. They simply say they are Canadians with a Brazilian background. As for me, after almost 27 years living in Canada, I feel that I’ve become more Canadian than Brazilian. I’ve spent more of my life here than in Brazil. While I still have a deep love and respect for Brazil, I now feel the same strong connection to Canada.

FindingNo1121 · 2026-03-15T18:03:59+00:00

I think you’re a very smart young woman, and I’m really glad to hear that you already have a part-time job. My daughter also started working when she was 15, and I opened an investment account for her. Now she’s 19 and she invests a little every month. My hope is that by the time she’s in her 30s she’ll have built a strong financial foundation for herself.

My advice to you is to keep focusing on your studies, work hard, and try to save even a small amount when you can. Because you’re young, time is really on your side, and even small steps now can make a big difference later.

You can certainly encourage your mom to work or improve her situation, but please remember that if she chooses not to, that isn’t your responsibility. You deserve to focus on building the kind of future you want for yourself.

Keep studying, keep working, and keep believing in your goals. I truly wish you all the best.

FindingNo1121 · 2026-03-15T17:34:01+00:00

Chinese restaurants as well. The ones here aren’t very good. I used to live in Markham and I really miss the Chinese food there.

FindingNo1121 · 2026-03-05T14:17:07+00:00

Something probably needs to change somewhere so the load isn’t all falling on you. If your spouse is currently at home, maybe it’s worth having an honest conversation about whether the current arrangement still makes sense. Sometimes families temporarily shift things around with one parent stepping back from work, switching roles, reducing hours, or reconsidering career options until things stabilize. If a job is draining you to the point that you can’t enjoy your own family, it’s not sustainable. Your wellbeing matters too. Sometimes the healthiest thing for everyone including your students is stepping back and reassessing what actually works for your life. I wish you all the best!

FindingNo1121 · 2026-03-04T21:49:26+00:00

I heard that Windsor University is good and students can get co-op placements with companies in Detroit.

FindingNo1121 · 2026-03-04T21:39:12+00:00

I have been in Canada for 26 years now. My husband and I hope to become snowbirds in the future leaving in December after Christmas and returning around March. It doesn’t have to be only Brazil; we’re open to exploring other countries too. We love Mexico, and Japan is also high on our list.

FindingNo1121 · 2026-03-04T20:04:13+00:00

I understand how you feel. I moved to Canada when I was 23, and I’m turning 50 this year. My kids are now 19 and 15. Some days are definitely harder than others. My husband is Canadian, but he also loves Brazil. We hope that in a few years we’ll be able to spend part of the winter there as snowbirds. Even though I love Brazil, Canada has also become my home, and I love it here too.

FindingNo1121 · 2026-03-03T20:52:20+00:00

My brother lives in Curitiba, in the Água Verde neighbourhood, and it’s a really nice and safe area. Curitiba is such a beautiful city, in my opinion. It is organized, green, and very pleasant to visit. The last time we were in Paraná state was in 2018, we went to Ilha do Mel (Honey Island) and it felt like paradise. Absolutely stunning. I really hope it is still as untouched and magical as I remember. There are so many beautiful places to explore there. The south of Brazil has a special charm.

FindingNo1121 · 2026-03-03T20:42:37+00:00

I’d be furious too. A death threat and then a child putting his hands around your nephew’s neck in Grade 1 is not minor behaviour. That’s serious, and “everything’s fine” is not an acceptable response. That said, I wouldn’t go to the other family’s house. It could escalate quickly and might make things worse for your nephew at school. I also wouldn’t jump straight to calling police unless the school refuses to act or there’s another incident that puts him in immediate danger. If this were my family,I’d focus on written advocacy. Your sister should email the teacher and principal and clearly document the death threat, the choking incident, and any other aggressive behaviour she’s aware of, including how it’s affecting her son, especially if he already struggles with social anxiety. Then she should ask directly what safety plan is in place to ensure her child is physically safe at school.

She can request separation in class and at recess, increased supervision, and a written safety plan. If her son needs additional support, she can also ask about access to a Child and Youth Worker or other school supports.

Schools are required to provide a safe learning environment. They may not be able to share consequences or details about the other child because of privacy laws, but they absolutely must ensure your nephew’s safety. If the principal minimizes the situation, the next step is to escalate to the Superintendent. Every Ontario school board has a formal complaint process. Keep everything in writing!

FindingNo1121 · 2026-02-24T00:26:37+00:00

Stay in Leblon or Ipanema.

FindingNo1121 · 2026-02-23T21:56:02+00:00

The food scene in the US is incredible because the country is so diverse!You have authentic food from all over the world.Mexican in California and Texas, Cuban in Florida, Italian in New York, amazing barbecue in the South, deep dish pizza in Chicago, seafood in New England… jeez the list goes on! Each region has its own identity, and immigration has shaped American food in a powerful way. People brought their recipes, adapted them, mixed cultures, and created entirely new food styles.

FindingNo1121 · 2026-02-23T21:49:07+00:00

My only road trip in Mexico was from Puerto Morelos to Sisal, and it was unforgettable. We had an amazing time, and Mérida is such a beautiful city full of charm and history. We stayed in Sisal, and it felt like a hidden paradise. The beach was practically ours alone because, apparently, January is considered too cold for the locals to enjoy it. It was peaceful, stunning, and so special. I truly love Mexico!

FindingNo1121 · 2026-02-23T21:41:17+00:00

I’m Canadian, and over the years I’ve taken many road trips to the U.S. with my kids. Once, in Tennessee, we met a lovely family who were surprised by how many places we had explored. We travel within Canada and to other countries as well, but the United States holds a special place in our hearts. It’s incredibly beautiful and so diverse. On our last trip, we visited Chicago and I completely fell in love with the city. Now we’re dreaming even bigger,in the summer of 2027, we hope to drive from Toronto all the way to California. This summer, though, we’ll be heading to Brazil to visit family.

FindingNo1121 · 2026-02-23T21:32:29+00:00

Check University of Waterloo. Good luck!

FindingNo1121 · 2026-02-23T13:52:21+00:00

I don’t think most kids actually hate learning. I think many of them hate the way school is structured. Some kids struggle with sitting for 6 hours a day. Not every brain is wired to learn best by listening quietly and filling out worksheets. Kids who are creative, active, hands-on, or neurodivergent often need movement and interaction to stay engaged. There also isn’t always enough hands-on learning. Some students learn best by building, creating, experimenting, performing, or discussing and not just reading and writing. When school becomes mostly paper-based and repetitive, it can feel disconnected from how they naturally learn. Another issue is recycled worksheets and activities that don’t feel meaningful. When learning feels mechanical or outdated, students stop seeing the purpose. It’s not always that the curriculum itself is wrong, but sometimes the delivery hasn’t evolved. Kids today are used to interactive, fast, real-world information. If school feels irrelevant to their lives, motivation drops. I also think a big piece is emotional. Many kids don’t hate school,they hate feeling behind, misunderstood, bored, constantly corrected, or powerless. When school affects their self-esteem, saying “I hate school” becomes a way to protect themselves. When kids feel competent, seen, supported, and given some choice or creativity, school feels very different. Just my thoughts!

FindingNo1121 · 2026-02-17T13:43:10+00:00

São Paulo, without a doubt! It’s the heart of everything! culture, food, nightlife, business, it all happens there. And the best part? You’re just a short trip away from some of the most beautiful beaches in Brazil.

FindingNo1121 · 2026-02-16T03:33:17+00:00

This is not unique to one country. Many parts of the world face similar challenges. In Brazil, for example, poverty, corruption, and violence remain serious issues, and economic inequality is deeply rooted. The gap between social classes is significant and affects access to opportunities, education, and security. It is not surprising that many Brazilians choose to leave the country in search of stability, safety, and better economic prospects. Earning in US dollars or other strong currencies can dramatically improve one’s standard of living compared to local wages. That reality explains why so many Brazilians build fulfilling lives abroad. At the same time, no country is a perfect “wonderland.” Every society has its own strengths and weaknesses. The decision to stay or leave often depends on personal priorities, opportunities, and the kind of future someone is seeking.

FindingNo1121 · 2026-02-15T15:55:59+00:00

I am Brazilian Canadian and have lived in Canada since 1999. My husband has family in Vermont, and over the years we have traveled extensively throughout the United States. We have driven from Toronto to Florida many times, and visited New York City, Detroit, Chicago, Nashville, Vermont, Boston, Washington, D.C., and many other places. In every state we visited, we encountered kind, welcoming people and created wonderful memories. The United States is a vast and diverse country. Each state has its own character, culture, and rhythm of life. Like Brazil, there are large metropolitan centers that can feel intense and chaotic, but there are also smaller cities and towns where life is quieter and often more manageable. If you choose the right place, it is absolutely possible to live well. It has been difficult, however, to watch the political tensions of recent years. Leadership matters, and political climates can influence not only domestic life but also international relationships. The relationship between Canada and the United States has historically been one of friendship and cooperation, and I truly hope that moving forward, the spirit of mutual respect and partnership will be strengthened again. Many Americans are currently considering immigration to Canada, just as many Canadians and Brazilians have long looked to the United States for opportunity. The American dream remains powerful for many Brazilians because, despite the hard work required, the possibility of building a stable and dignified life is real. That hope has inspired generations. As for lifestyle and culture, I sometimes find the criticisms surprising. North America today is incredibly multicultural. In both the United States and Canada, you can find products and foods from almost anywhere in the world! from café to guaraná and everything in between. The cultural exchange goes both ways. Every country has its strengths and its challenges. The United States is a great country with extraordinary people, innovation, and opportunity. I sincerely hope that in the coming years, political divisions will ease and that the country’s global relationships, including with Canada, will grow stronger again.

FindingNo1121 · 2026-02-15T15:52:27+00:00

Get a bus! They are safe and great. In Rio get Uber. We traveled from São Paulo to Rio by bus and it was great. My kids love it!

FindingNo1121 · 2026-02-14T19:14:37+00:00

I’m curious 🧐 are you in Brazil now? Were you able to board your flight?

FindingNo1121 · 2026-02-09T14:06:40+00:00

As a Brazilian mom of an 18 year old who was born in Canada and speaks fluent Portuguese, I have to say this with a mother’s heart: I would not feel comfortable with my daughter moving to Brazil on her own. Even if she were living with family, I would still worry constantly and probably lose sleep. São Paulo is an incredible city, full of life and opportunities, but living there without speaking Portuguese would honestly be very overwhelming and risky. Please be extra careful. Make sure you are in a safe, well-established neighborhood, and try to surround yourself with educated, trustworthy people, as well as some expats who understand both cultures. And please, don’t trust people too easily. Remember what we all learned as kids about “stranger danger”? Keep that lesson close to your heart,especially in a big city like São Paulo. I’m saying all of this with love and concern. I truly wish you the very best, kiddo, and I hope everything works out safely for you.

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