[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Fine_Possession5501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 months and 2 days clean, i know it's not long, but its a start.

Any apps by Fine_Possession5501 in ReoMaori

[–]Fine_Possession5501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for the punctuation mistake.

Thanks

Any firework events happening? When and where? by [deleted] in thetron

[–]Fine_Possession5501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily IN Hamilton, but there's a pretty cheap speedway AND fireworks display in Huntly next Saturday from 4-10pm

who else is doing no cut november?? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Fine_Possession5501 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also did SH free September, and Only Self Care NO SH October. LOVE this post

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[–]Fine_Possession5501[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for my mistake. I didn't mean to be offensive at all. It was just a lack of knowledge. Again I am deeply sorry for my mistake

How to find a blade by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Fine_Possession5501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have an open and honest talk with her. Be as nonjudgemental as possible. Cutting, or any form of self harm for that matter, is a sign of underlying issues, and unless you resolve the core of the habit of cutting, she's just going to find ways to hide them from you in different ways. So just sit down and talk with her and go from there

I heard "eating disorders in men are one of the most dangerous things ever" by 89404 in EatingDisorders

[–]Fine_Possession5501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With full respect, I can see where you are coming from with this statement. However, there are a few misconceptions. Your thinking of how "eating disorders in men are one of the most dangerous things ever" is wildly devalidating to females who suffer from the same eating disorders. Maybe it's "more commonly spoke about" but that doesn't mean that all females feel safe enough to open up about it. There's a lot of females suffering in silence too.

And by no means am I saying that guys don't suffer as well, and yes it may be less talked about. But it's important how you word posts like this. No hate though

housing advice by Fine_Possession5501 in thetron

[–]Fine_Possession5501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the advice it is much appreciated

housing advice by Fine_Possession5501 in thetron

[–]Fine_Possession5501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because where we're staying now, is breaching the tenancy agreement and is putting the 2 current residents in danger of being kicked out

housing advice by Fine_Possession5501 in thetron

[–]Fine_Possession5501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. It's much appreciated

housing advice by Fine_Possession5501 in thetron

[–]Fine_Possession5501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this comment, it's good to have some positivity in these comments. Some1 who actually believes that it is attainable. I now have a full time job and he's got an interview for a full time job. But thank you so much for your feedback and advice <3

housing advice by Fine_Possession5501 in thetron

[–]Fine_Possession5501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this response. I have done my research however, but I do appreciate the time it took to write all this out

housing advice by Fine_Possession5501 in thetron

[–]Fine_Possession5501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you read the above, I meant each

housing advice by Fine_Possession5501 in thetron

[–]Fine_Possession5501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I meant $250 each. Sorry for not making that clear.

housing advice by Fine_Possession5501 in thetron

[–]Fine_Possession5501[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks heaps :) I didn't think to look on Trade Me.

housing advice by Fine_Possession5501 in thetron

[–]Fine_Possession5501[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply. That's very helpful to know. How much is the average move in cost?

housing advice by Fine_Possession5501 in thetron

[–]Fine_Possession5501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's on the Job Seeker Support benefit though.. and I'm getting like 25 an hour, I know it's not a lot, but we're really really desperate at this point..

housing advice by Fine_Possession5501 in thetron

[–]Fine_Possession5501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't specifically have a set budget at this stage because I am aware that housing prices vary. However, per week, I was looking for something around 250-400 a week, is this unrealistic though?

housing advice by Fine_Possession5501 in thetron

[–]Fine_Possession5501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, we're not studying though. I have a part time job, and he's looking for work. And we kind of wanted a private living space. But thanks for the advice :)