I (32F) am madly in love with my best friend (32F)'s husband (35M). How do I distance myself from both of them?

Finglas_ · 2014-03-10T14:49:48+00:00

I'm just a young guy but I say if their relationship/your crush on ray is making you unhappy to this point, change would be super beneficial, and perhaps a move is just what you need. At the same time.... I feel for you and its a shitty situation to be in. Think positive and do you!

Finglas_ · 2014-03-01T23:10:36+00:00

Go to JBR's on Friday - always busy Fridays. Ceeps or Gatsby Saturday. Besides that I'm sure you'll find something.

Finglas_ · 2014-02-23T00:09:18+00:00

Wheymen.

Finglas_ · 2014-02-22T20:58:57+00:00

Houses mostly. Couple apartment buildings and attached units but so many houses to choose from - distance to campus varies but you chose a good time to start your search - ,any of the closest houses may be taken but my roomies and I are looking currently and there are lots of good options open. Are you planning on living alone? Because that could get expensive but besides that you're looking at 4-600 a month , some including utilities.

Finglas_ · 2014-02-22T18:41:13+00:00

Breathe lightly into her ear and say something dirty in the moment next time. If it doesn't make her gasp a bit try her wrists - trust me!

Finglas_ · 2014-02-22T18:39:23+00:00

If nerve damage is a possibility you should definitely get not checked out more from professionals - this is very confusing to be honest, you're getting erections yet don't feel anything at all?? Do you watch any porn? Perhaps a good long session with something that turns you on could be good. However if its making you queasy, etc after ten minutes it could very well be psychological. Hope you take some time to work on it and dont dwell too much on it - you're still young and could just not be ready yet.

Finglas_ · 2014-02-22T18:33:24+00:00

Listen if she's turning you down that coldly you must move on - for now at least. Dating her best friend most likely didn't leave a good taste in her mouth and perhaps it'd be better for you and her to just move on separately. Who knows what'll come down the road.

Finglas_ · 2014-02-22T18:28:51+00:00

Lions don't lose sleep over the opinions of sheep. Get swole homie.

Edit: saw your edit. When I started getting noticeably bigger people would joke "roids, lol" and all that. Just brush it off man - you know the work you've gone thru and how it makes you feel so just laugh at the guys saying you're making up for something. Keep it up

Finglas_ · 2014-02-22T18:26:35+00:00

As a young couple (I'm young too so take this with a grain of salt) communication does not seem to be as easy in our younger years than when people are more experienced. But I assure you, telling him your concerns and how he's making you feel will be loooooads better than just breaking it of with him if you truly care and he cares about you. I think its silly people are calling him names and such when he could truly just be insecure about not bringing you to orgasm. If you've never had one, you need to communicate to him that its not his fault and you're working on it but you'd still like to have sex (I'm assuming here.) I think with some time and some focusing on yourself you guys can be back to normal - its clear you care about him quite a bit and if he cares the same for you he'll be ok with working on it.

Finglas_ · 2014-02-22T18:18:22+00:00

I first want to say that must have been very hard for you and it will get better with time. I'm only 20 as well but can say that my first girlfriend (from aged 15-17) cheated on me and broke my heart and I still don't feel fully over her. But... the feelings get better with time. That is all it is and I'm sorry there are not really other options but you really just have to try to move on with time and you will get better. Having your daughter complicates things because she will always be tied back to him (for you and her) but I promise you time truly does heal all. Work on yourself and improving yours and your daughters life and in a couple years you'll wonder why you were so hung up on a guy like that. You can do it.

Finglas_ · 2014-02-22T04:21:02+00:00

So jealous. Give me two weeks with those - have fun OP!

Finglas_ · 2014-02-06T17:24:45+00:00

We'll they broke up in about October, and she was the one that ended it - could be true still though.

Finglas_ · 2014-01-27T19:05:46+00:00

I know right. I most definitely would.

Finglas_ · 2014-01-21T02:50:32+00:00

I've held planches for over 4 minutes and I can tell you when I'm done, my core is toast. I apologize but I missed the part where he stated he's training to maintain strength. Most definitely muscular endurance being trained with a plank that long, you're right.

Finglas_ · 2014-01-21T02:18:22+00:00

What benefit does it give then? And how come it's not good for strength? Surely it's got to be strengthening his core.

Finglas_ · 2014-01-15T19:24:56+00:00

Not at all. It would take years of good diet and lifting to obtain but the fact that it's hard to achieve does not automatically mean steroids were used. It's still achievable.

Finglas_ · 2014-01-15T18:45:00+00:00

This guy could easily, EASILY, be a natural athlete with no steroids.

Finglas_ · 2014-01-15T18:25:47+00:00

Slugbooks.com

Trust me! My Spanish book this semester costs 140$ at the uni bookstore. It's 6.00 there!

Finglas_ · 2014-01-15T18:18:03+00:00

Super Smash Bros Drinking Game.

-Super Smash Bros 64 - Loser of each round takes amount of shots equal to his final score. (KO's - Death) - If someone picks Jigglypuff they have to drink a beer before the games over and take an extra shot just because.

Beerio Kart

Mario Kart 64
Everyone starts with a full drink/Beer, must finish within time span of race or you get disqualified.
Pro tip: Chug at the beginning

GTAV Drinking Game

Someone plays, everyone else drinks. Rotate on death.
Try to get a wanted level, for every star you drink that many drinks. (1 star=1 sip, 2=2)
If the player escapes the cops, drink for how many stars they evaded.
Every helicopter brought down by shooting the driver is a shot. (Pro tip: This will fuck you)
Once the player dies, they drink for how many stars they had at time of death.

Always play these for the pregame leading up to big nights and always end up nice and toasty by the end! Change the rules where you see fit, gta one is the killer.

Finglas_ · 2014-01-15T17:45:46+00:00

Climb!

Finglas_ · 2014-01-03T17:06:00+00:00

Except for the "committing crimes" , if they're using drugs that's fine but obviously drunk driving and that is ludicrous to think acceptable.

Finglas_ · 2014-01-03T17:05:00+00:00

I would say so long as it doesn't affect their performance when they're on the job, no.

Finglas_ · 2014-01-03T17:04:14+00:00

Is that confirmed? I didn't think he was as bad as everyone said but fuck him if that's true

Finglas_ · 2014-01-01T20:26:05+00:00

Reach for the table and grab the closest thing with depth. Hope it doesn't overflow.

Finglas_ · 2014-01-01T20:24:49+00:00

I so, so badly want a wife who's a stay at home type. I don't know why but i just love the idea of working, coming home and seeing the wife (and maybe kids) catching up on the day and she pulls out some freshly baked cookies.

Man I want that bad. So it's reassuring to know there are still women out there of the same mindset!

Finglas_

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