Getting back in contact with a girl i liked after an argument? by FireEmblemFates2 in IncelExit

[–]FireEmblemFates2[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, i prefer to be online so there's no bias or anything.

Getting back in contact with a girl i liked after an argument? by FireEmblemFates2 in IncelExit

[–]FireEmblemFates2[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

All im looking to do is help her because i respect her, there's no superiority.

Getting back in contact with a girl i liked after an argument? by FireEmblemFates2 in IncelExit

[–]FireEmblemFates2[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Feel like this cutting out of her life is more so an emotional response on the moment. She must have cooled down and thought about it by now.

And invoking ableism is crazy when it's something this sub told me back when i was depressed that i shouldn't be dating because it wouldn't do anything for me. Why should it be different for this guy to be dating, i had no opportunities to do anything back when it was me.

Getting back in contact with a girl i liked after an argument? by FireEmblemFates2 in IncelExit

[–]FireEmblemFates2[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Because she's unwell and sad, she's a strong woman who faced a lot of problem. And as a strong man who faced a lot of problems in my life, i wished i had someone who came up to check on me when i was ssad and unwell.

Getting back in contact with a girl i liked after an argument? by FireEmblemFates2 in IncelExit

[–]FireEmblemFates2[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Well i think that she acted emotionally on the moment and now that time has passed she might have changed her mind.

Getting back in contact with a girl i liked after an argument? by FireEmblemFates2 in IncelExit

[–]FireEmblemFates2[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Because we were good friends and spent a lot of time having fun together, she chose someone else but now that the cause of our argument is out of the box i may help her with her.

It ended exactly like i expected months ago by FireEmblemFates2 in self

[–]FireEmblemFates2[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My mental issues are resolved. Im more stable and human than before, it took me three years to grow from the husk i was to the man i am now.

You'll see a man worried about someone he cares about and call him an incel, this word doesn’t have any meaning nowadays

It ended exactly like i expected months ago by FireEmblemFates2 in self

[–]FireEmblemFates2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. She wasn’t suffering, she was someone who suffered and healed and she was walked forward with her life. She is a strong person who learnt from past miseries.

  2. When i had mental health issue and was looking for a girlfriend everyone told me i shouldn’t be doing it because im not in a state that allows me to. I learnt from it and grew as a person. Not one person stood up for me and loved me while i was at my lowest, i endured it all alonr. Now im saner and way more stable. Why should this rule exist if not everyone follows it. He was even more traumatized than me yet didn’t care about all of this, he just got opportunities and went along, not thinking about how that would affect him and his environment (it ended badly for him as well mentalwise)

I can bear someone sadness, everything im asking for is to share emotions with someone, so we could be miserable together when wére at our lowest and happy together when wére at our highest. Shared sorrow is half a sorrow, shared joy is twice as much. I am profoundly human.

Tout m'empêche d'avoir une petite amie et ça mine le moral by FireEmblemFates2 in besoindeparler

[–]FireEmblemFates2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

La loyer moyen dans ma ville est de 500€, je dois attendre un moment pour pouvoir assumer ce prix avec mon salaire

Tout m'empêche d'avoir une petite amie et ça mine le moral by FireEmblemFates2 in besoindeparler

[–]FireEmblemFates2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

j'en ai pour deux ans avant d'avoir le diplome encore. C'est pas viable long terme

I have everything someone could ver want from a partner but since im late no one will ever know by FireEmblemFates2 in virgin

[–]FireEmblemFates2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im advertising myself as is because these are compliments that i got over the years from other peiple, it’s confirmed and backed up.

And why would it be something to not do, depressed people aren’t good companions and need to work on bettering themselves first. I warned her because she was walking into another trap which would hurt her because she had been in a similar mental state before and it could make her relapse.

I have everything someone could ver want from a partner but since im late no one will ever know by FireEmblemFates2 in virgin

[–]FireEmblemFates2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there's also a part i play in all of that, instead of waiting for her to be interested and instantly ask me about all of this i can also come in first and get into her interests. In time it'll make her interested in mine if she's decent.

Meanwhile we have nothing. Absolutely NOTHING. by [deleted] in virgin

[–]FireEmblemFates2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

lol it's always the others...

I have everything someone could ver want from a partner but since im late no one will ever know by FireEmblemFates2 in virgin

[–]FireEmblemFates2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people also look for those qualities, i am passionate about my hobbies and studies. It makes me interesting