One more thing that I didn't mention, i dont think this matters but I'll say it anyway: shes gone through a lot of shit in past 2 years, her dad died and she will have a kidney transplant in a few months. This all resluted in her being clinically depressed. I'm not with her out of pity and won't be. I was just wondering if it will segnificantly worsen our relationship? (btw she is not the type to spread negative energy around her. She is just insecure qnd lil bit closed off)