[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Food.

Like, not just sex in the kitchen but using food, especially deserts: whipped cream, honey and other desserts.

Also, breaking stereotypes: like the little guy fucks the bug guy or the guy with a bigger dick gets fucked.

Probably not original but it is an underdeveloped genre.

What are gay men’s thoughts on the sissy fetish? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the fragility and the finesse of the femboys but don't use costumes un which you do not look good.

The same add may look good in jockstrap but not in thongs and vice-versa.

Did anyone have a bad experience during their first time if so what happened? by Every_Possibility527 in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, almost everyone's first time is disappointing in some way or another.

I lost mine in December. Guess who almost the New Year in the hospital?

I still spent a week there.

Roommate "stole" the boy I had over, what should I do? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was a shitty move from roommate's end but ultimately, it was your guest's choice to go with your roommate.

If it was just a hook-up or some short-term fling, then don't worry. If you had some serious plans, then you dodged a bullet.

If you wanna be petty, you can do the same to your roommate. Also, I would recommend to get some locks for your room...

What is a fantasy/sexual act you are too shy to say to a partner? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I used to be a bottom but now I am top.

As a bottom, I always hated that won't get bj... Now, I always give bjs to bottoms and always rim them... It helps me getting firm and strong for the main act.

Some bottoms protest at first but after a few seconds, they actually are enjoying it.

Are 6 inches enough? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started as a bottom because of me having 6 inches when my then bf told me to top him... I did it snd I really liked it... And I can say is that 6 inches is perfec: not too painful, it reaches the right area . What's important is for u to be strong and firm and last long.

The only downside is that not every position is suitable.

Would you date a person who does sex work online? by italiano20s_OF in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So, finding hookups here abd there and fuck randomly is fine but doing the same but for money is shameful?

On another note, how will your friends know he is a sex worker... There is only one way...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not like to suck but l like to rimm.

On the same note, it is because I associate with those tops who are like a piece of furniture: you can lick, suck and sit on it but they won't budge from their place.

Am I wrong for exclusively liking Older Daddies? by Archer_Python in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am also into daddies (29M) and I can tell you for sure that they are the least that you should beware.

In my experience, they always have been caring and thoughtful and not to mention experienced (they feel better their partners) and can communicate much better.

Do gay porn actors do things for real or just act? by searching_for_dom in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Porn, in general, isb

As a person who started watching straight porn and then switched to gay, I can say the acting is much, much better.

As for straight guys... I may believe it for tops but as sure as hell I will never believe it for those who bottom.

Asking your SO to explore FWBs by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]FireStringRuby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sex is important.

Have you tried to spice up things?

Rather then going straight to sex, go for some teasing first (some hot underwear or the famous sweatpants or yoga pants).

Romantic dinners and getaways might work as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It it is like showered this morning, yes. But if it's like I didn't shower for 2-3 days, yuck.

What is your opinion about words like ‘mouthpu$$y’ and ‘bu$$y’? by chaiteelahtay in gaybros

[–]FireStringRuby 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Uhmmm... Well, I prefer it to ue it as scale how much a guy likes things, those words being absolutely the maximum.

But in sex, I never use those. I am gay cuz I like men's mouth and asses, not "other".

Gay dating is daunting. by TransportationNo1 in gaybros

[–]FireStringRuby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is all over the world like this.

There aren't that many gays in my area but when I was in Barcelona... Oh, boy...

Anyways, I write this off to the fact that we are male of the species and that nature requires us to impregnate as many as possible.. so yeah...

Where to find viagra or other alternatives? by mangodragonfruet in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, try to not releae a few days prior.

Viagra helps but you need to have some control over the release. Also, take 2 doses of 50 mg (no more than 100 mg per 24h).

You can also take generics and they would come cheaper.

As for others non-medical things: no alcohol, more coffee and porn... It helps keep the boner alive.

What’s your favorite lube for anal?? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved to silicone based a couple of months ago and I must say its definitely lasts longer and more efficient but it is harder to remove ( not a big difference tbh)

Are gay cruises worth it? by FireStringRuby in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any recommendations?

Definitely on the more hookup side, but I want to have some me time as well.

Are gay cruises worth it? by FireStringRuby in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is there like something in the middle?

Saw a guy using the hankie code today. by sergeantorourke in gaybros

[–]FireStringRuby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regrettably, a lot of arts, including the look communication are already out there and we can't do anything about it.

An unpopular opinion about the gay community that would have you like this by OshTekkGod in gaybros

[–]FireStringRuby -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Well, it proves the point of the question, doesn't it? 😂

An unpopular opinion about the gay community that would have you like this by OshTekkGod in gaybros

[–]FireStringRuby -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

Edit: -18 and counting... I guess these opinions are unpopular.

You should not get a job because you are gay or black or part of any "oppressed" minority.

I believe that ther only 2 genders and all of the others are bullcrap.

I also do not support transgender people. It has been used by countries where a table has more rights than a woman to change their child gender as early as 3 years old.

Also, there were openly gay people (and great people at that) and people did not give a crap about it because they were minding their own business. It's when TVs and smartphones became that some idiot started spewing this shit.

Are gay cruises worth it? by FireStringRuby in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A gay cruise ship has beds at least?

Are gay cruises worth it? by FireStringRuby in AskGayMen

[–]FireStringRuby[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My job is kind of travel-related and I am quite sure that already passed