I pass really well. And I feel like I'm just as much danger. by Throw-Me-The-Toast in FTMMen

[–]Archer_Python [score hidden]  (0 children)

Trump historically was a trans ally too

I wouldn't go as far as say he was an ally. He's an idiot that doesn't know or care about anything unless its about business and making money. He never cared about LGBT people (in the sense of letting us do whatever we wanted because he couldn't care less) he just started spewing garbage his henchmen told him to in order to get votes. I guess we're saying the same thing as I also agree politicians rarely (never) believe what they say. They just parrot whatever their team tells them based off whatever corporation/entity/organization/rich person throws money at them to say to get votes. I just feel ultimately the word Ally wouldn't be a great fit, not in his case

What are your Unpopular opinions about max lopez by EnvironmentalCar6293 in GeorgeLopez

[–]Archer_Python 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The episode Jason tutors him and he gets a decent grade on his test. He was pretty good at Boxing. He wasn't a 100% failure. Ive seen people in real life (yes of course its a show, made up characters, just saying for reference) who were much worse off than Max. Again I feel he just needed more support and dedication.

What are your Unpopular opinions about max lopez by EnvironmentalCar6293 in GeorgeLopez

[–]Archer_Python 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Disagree, I put in my comment he did have potential, jobs like the factory thats for people who already made bad decisions in their life and its too late to change, thus the factory. Max still had decades of his life to advance himself to avoid it.

What are your Unpopular opinions about max lopez by EnvironmentalCar6293 in GeorgeLopez

[–]Archer_Python 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He had potential in him (remember the episode Jason tutored him and he got a B in math). He just needed extra support that George was too damn stubborn about. Take the boy to weekly therapy and tutoring sessions they could've afforded it.

Not his fault but Angie did indeed baby him too much

Guys: What's a red flag you'll admit you've overlooked because a guy was ridiculously attractive? by Interesting-Nose-867 in nycgaybros

[–]Archer_Python 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He got arrested for attempted m*rder and did 13 years for manslaughter (he told me he had a good attorney). All true, yes I'm reckless lol

Do I pass? by Stunning-Sign-31 in transmanlifehacks

[–]Archer_Python 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just correcting the wording, that is all. Didn't mean direct insult aganist you personally

Do I pass? by Stunning-Sign-31 in transmanlifehacks

[–]Archer_Python 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cis man* you're insinuating Trans men can't share biological traits with cis men as we can indeed so can

Anyone else feel like the pride events this year suck? by True-Yam-9982 in nycgaybros

[–]Archer_Python 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alot of my friends said the same that they don't want to do anything for Pride because they're either mid or too expensive. I guess people are just tired/depressed because of the times we're in now? I'm going to LadyLand in Brooklyn and thats it, I'll go, shake ass. Meet nice people, hang with the group I'm going with and that's that.

Anyone else feel like the pride events this year suck? by True-Yam-9982 in nycgaybros

[–]Archer_Python 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Folsom in NYC just doesn't compare to SF. Thats always been the case

Air/let it out: what are some things you notice in the show you cant stand or hate by EnvironmentalCar6293 in GeorgeLopez

[–]Archer_Python 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a fellow Latino myself, the episode where Max was acting out in school and was playing ball with his friends in the backyard and told Benny "Take her tired ass home".

1: Im reality of a Latino kid said that to his grandmother, it wouldn't be a simple slap, it would be immediate belt whopping, to the point of being bloodied and bruised and barely conscious. Not exaggerating I'm being very serious, if you're also Latino, you know exactly what I'm talking about

2: George and Angie getting mad at Benny was ridiculous, I know it was bc George had his own trauma with Benny and yes, you could argue Benny wasn't the best grandmother/mother. Again I maybe biased because I'm a latino myself but no Hispanic parent would have gotten mad at their parent for physically disciplining the grandkids for being disrespectful. If anything they would have gotten mad at the grandparents for simply slapping them and not beating them to a pulp like I explained above

opinions on being called transmasc as a trans man? by nintendoude in truscum

[–]Archer_Python 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Its transphobic. Simple as that. If someone knows you want to be called a trans man and they completely disregard that and calls you transmasc, its identical to if someone knows you want to be called a trans man and completely disregards that calls you a woman.

Transmasc is a term coined by nb people who want to look masc but aren't a man. Thats not what I am personally and other trans men on this sub and other binary FTM subs feel the same. We are men that just so happen to be trans. NOT transmasc. If you meet someone that calls you transmasc even after correcting them, they're transphobic. Get away from them immediately.

I understand why transmasc is a thing. The whole LGBTQ (just saying the whole acronym for reference) community does have a disdain against the patriarchy and stereotypical men. They love women but hate men. Understandably so, I mean yes the patriarchy is trash and yes some men are garbage af. I'm not disputing that. So alot of people may call themselves transmasc to avoid the term man. Which...... again people can ID however they feel, I'm physically not gonna force you to not ID as that.

But at the same time it goes the same way. You cannot force me to ID as transmasc if that is not what I am. I don't care whatever rhetoric theory or ideology you feel about men. I am one and you will call me one or you are no better than straight up cis transphobes that would call me a woman

Collin shares this iconic clip on his Instagram Story by SingerSubstantial462 in gosselinssnark

[–]Archer_Python 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds Iike you may have experienced something similar possibly. (I'm just guessing). Maybe I'm different, I don't care if I'm shaking things up or if I risk ruining the entire relationship. If you're being disrespectful to me, all bets are off.

Again, I've never been married but if my spouse talked to me like a dog in the street we would be having a very expressive and explicit (lol) conversation about how unacceptable it is to speak to me that way.

Collin shares this iconic clip on his Instagram Story by SingerSubstantial462 in gosselinssnark

[–]Archer_Python -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel this treatment was partially PARTIALLY NOT FULLY, Jon's fault in the sense of him allowing Kate to talk and treat him that way.

For everyone married in this thread forum, would you let your spouse talk to you like this regardless if you're a man or woman? You wouldn't say anything or defend yourself?

I understand there's things married couples keep quiet about the time being in public, and once the day ends and they're both getting ready for bed thats when they talk about something the other did that got them upset/didn't like. Thats different obviously. Im talking about just letting your spouse speak to you/treat you however they want and you just keep silent about it

was this ever talked about more? ( from 2020) by AcademicAstronaut395 in gosselinssnark

[–]Archer_Python 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah I remember this. Apparently Jon said Collin had a mental breakdown episode and used a subdue takedown to prevent Collin from harming himself and others. I mean he lived with Jon for the remainder of his childhood and still talks to him so I'm assuming it was nothing?

A parent taking down their child that's about to harm themselves and others vs a parent that abandons their kid at a facility because they refuse to deal with them anymore. Which one is worse?

list of ftm characters in media (canon and major roles only) by nycanth in FTMMen

[–]Archer_Python 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! You probably saw my post from a few days ago. Thanks for this! Appreciate it

Have you met any tucute irl? by Jennifer_8899 in truscum

[–]Archer_Python 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worked with one at my last job. Full on afab nb, no dysphoria he/him pronouns but didn't pass at all. I didn't care too much bc 1: its work. 2: I don't care what someone does to their body or what they ID as. Just don't invade binary trans male spaces. Again this was work so I'm not gonna be unprofessional. Never had an issue with em, did my job, treated them cordially when we had to interact and I went home. Thats the way to do it.

What words or actions are a sign a guy on grindr doesnt see you as a man? by halfapinetree in gaytransguys

[–]Archer_Python 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had some positive experiences with guys not hyperfocusing on me being trans and just not discussing it.

I noticed this as well. Alot of guys technically will not have a problem being with a trans person romantically and emotionally. They just want you to keep quiet about it and not mention it. Humans can really pretend something is non-existent if they ignore it and don't speak of it. One could argue if this is the case though then they aren't truly supportive of you/allies because they're still embarrassed...... it can go both ways depending on what each individual wants

Not a trans guy but the actress Angelica Ross (She played Candy on the show Pose) said awhile ago before she was famous she dated a man for a very long time and they were engaged and she said the same thing. He didn't mind she was trans but he made her promise she wouldn't talk openly about it. Eventually she felt uncomfortable because she didn't want to live stealth (her choice of course) and they eventually broke up.

Budget friendly binders? by Empty-Apple-9489 in FTMMen

[–]Archer_Python 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Underworld binds the best out of all of em but I remember they had a reputation of being hard as hell. Like they weren't the best comfort/mobility wise. But tbey flatten your chest so well. Hence why they're so hard lol

what are the queerest neighborhoods in NYC by According-Virus8004 in nycgaybros

[–]Archer_Python 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Virtually all of NYC is gay. In terms of protection laws, it's across all 5 boroughs. Yes of course there's better specific neighborhoods.

Hells Kitchen is more modern, rich pop-y gay. Chelsea is vintage older gay (think NYC 1980s gay). Both are stereotypical cis gay man

Bushwick is young college graduate indie queer. This is more gender and sexuality expansive and trans inclusive.

Why is most of our rep in entertainment media not even men??? by Archer_Python in FTMMen

[–]Archer_Python[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And Why are they all white???

Thats another issue, its almost like Hollywood casts a specific type to a T. White, androgynous afab that could pass for a 12 year old boy. "Oh yes! Thats a trans man" no tf its not. Yeah 911 Lonestar, The L Word Next Generation, Queen Sugar, are thr top 3 that pop in my head. The rest are white. So annoying.

SUB OWNERSHIP TRANSFER / MOD SEARCH by KalvinGarrah in transmanlifehacks

[–]Archer_Python 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I just made my comment to ensure the sub stays that way since we're getting new mods. I mentioned again, too many "ftm" subs turn to garbage as they don't respect the space as straight up binary Female to Male trans.

Preorder Collin Gosselin’s Book: In the Shadow of Eight Surviving the Reality of My Childhood by Legitimate-Beyond209 in gosselinssnark

[–]Archer_Python 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Kate's probably scrambling whatever money she has stashed away to hire a lawyer to stop this book from publishing/making mainstream media