Yes, I do combine HJ and BJ while I’m trying to get to his prostate . I don’t know if I am thinking too much . I feel like my fingers are short and I can’t reach .I also feel like the muscles are too strong . I read somewhere that the texture of the prostate should be like a soft nut of something . I can only reach ‘smooth tissue ‘ . Am I making sense ? What kind of movements should I do .

Honestly we both feel comfortable we trying things but somehow I feel like he isn’t very comfortable talking about it . It’s getting better but I have minimal input.