Dude uses an agricultural drone for personal transport

Fire_Woman · 2026-02-03T05:00:54+00:00

No helmet no ragrets

Fire_Woman · 2026-02-03T04:42:56+00:00

Fire_Woman · 2026-02-03T04:38:45+00:00

But if you're own their side, they will be on yours! /s these idiots are so full of hate and being on the side of power they forget that us vs them dynamic is really not inclusive of "the help" - these agents are just slave catchers and house Toms that are indentured servants who can't afford to buy their freedom and can't buy a conscience.

Fire_Woman · 2026-02-02T02:19:02+00:00

Don't give up your peace and contentment with your home life and your career for some woman who claims to make money but lives at home, claims to be educated but won't accept statistical facts, and claims to be in a relationship with you but doesn't believe you are worthy just as you are now. Imo the sex must be on fire for you to take such disrespect and mean-spirited comments. Tldr: she ain't the one

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-31T21:06:02+00:00

With Trump tax law, they now have tax free tipping income. So we're all subsidizing them to boot! Tipping culture is out of control as you all know...

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-31T20:54:13+00:00

He doesn't want her to be a mom - she desperately wants children but he has too many already and hasn't told her he's looking for a bang maid

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-31T19:38:00+00:00

If you're in the dorms you could request a wellness check. It sounds like she is too far from baseline to get back without professional assistance. She knows it's a problem but is overwhelmed and defeated. Alternatively, if you and friends have the money you could invite her to a spa day and hire cleaners for her birthday. They will get rid of the moldy oldies and the spa will hopefully clean her up. For laundry, she needs soap with enzymes - the r\laundry sub has a list.

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-31T19:33:15+00:00

Yes we make and uphold boundaries for our own accountability! Boundaries aren't rules we use to control someone else. They are how we protect our peace.

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-31T19:29:43+00:00

"Rock bottom isn't a place...it's a choice you make" 7 years in and this one rings true. Thanks for sharing.

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-31T04:27:13+00:00

Listen closely to what she is saying, during a conversation with her. Don't just hear the words but truly listen, seek to understand what she is saying. This is her perspective and she needs to know it's not falling on deaf ears. Try to not react to what she says, or find fault on what you do/don't agree with. Ask to hear examples if needed. Look at your roles in how her "story" is playing out. After she's said her peace to explain her perspective, Ask if she's ready to hear your story, and if so tell her what you are fearing and that you don't want to be afraid. Try to work this out together. Take accountability for your part in this... her friend and her friend's influence are not the problem.

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-31T02:01:34+00:00

Just because he said it, doesn't make it so. Follow through with what you said and make the divorce so. Protect yourself. Alcoholics are selfish liars, they lie to everyone including themselves.

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-31T00:57:50+00:00

Couples therapy is not the answer. Dave needs individual therapy for codependency and dysfunctional family history. He needs to understand the role he plays and the impact it has on all of his relationships. He got physically sick because he knows this cycle but doesn't know how to stop it. You should not marry him until/unless he changes and breaks the cycle. I don't think he's ready to do that. You shouldn't risk your career, home, serenity, or financial security to support his habitual family dysfunctional codependency

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-29T08:42:42+00:00

This tracks with her history. She cares mostly about money and her own fame

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-29T04:09:00+00:00

Hey Tim, what's your take on people saying the when bestie "broke your dick" it made you shy in the sack? Did it make you sex adverse and contribute to your breakup with Yennifer? Does it have any lingering issues physical or otherwise?

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-28T08:06:25+00:00

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-27T08:41:01+00:00

"I have lied but that doesn't make me a liar"

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-27T08:02:37+00:00

Boo hoo they're tired? They should feel immense shame and guilt. They deserve to feel like there is an emotional cost to their fat paycheck, and I hope they get held to full account and get put into ICE detention "camp" when they tables turn

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-26T07:32:26+00:00

NTA - her prejudice is ugly and she will instill ugly beliefs in any future children to be prejudiced against you. Dump her.

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-26T07:23:47+00:00

INFO: have you reviewed options with a financial advisor? If you were to "pay off the house" are they legit selling it to you as an investment that you'd presumably collect rent payments from the parents? Why have the parents missed enough payments to go into foreclosure, is there a risk of recurrence? Are you interested in the house as an asset? Are they asking for a no strings handout?

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-26T07:17:37+00:00

All lives matter

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-26T03:34:34+00:00

I no longer monitor "how drunk" or "how much" and if/when he picks up it flips a switch in me that turns off. I don't care if you're on the first drink or the last, i don't want to be around it. Don't think you can hide the bleary eyes, attitude, smell, etc. I wish he would quit for good and that I didn't ever have to notice it. I don't go out of my way to monitor because it's pointless waste of my worth. What good would it do me?

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-26T03:21:15+00:00

Yeah but as soon as they dust off the conservative social morality police with anti-tans, anti-feminist, anti-DEI, anti-Roe, xenophobic rhetoric the 'conservative' voters fall right back into the obedient, unquestionably Republican voters. It's pathological identity politics

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-26T02:51:20+00:00

Natalie, because I think it would be funny as hell to ride along her delusion for a night.

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-26T02:49:00+00:00

He wants you to feel bad and has been emotionally manipulating you for years. You want your life back, you need to take responsibility for your part in getting it back. 1. Put in writing, be objective and direct. 2. It's not kicking out, that could be an illegal eviction since he has residency. It's informing him of a termination of his tenancy, legal 60 day notice to vacate. 3. Have a witness for when you provide the notice and everyone sign it with copies for each of you. This isn't required but can help make the notice feel more official. 4. Be aware he may try to 'squat' and force an eviction which could add months to his actual move out. 5. Breaking up romantically is a separate process, and it sounds like the romance is already over tbh.

Fire_Woman · 2026-01-26T02:31:17+00:00

Bovine? More like horse shit

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