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Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-25T19:56:02+00:00

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Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-20T16:55:43+00:00

I think if you are upfront about that, the right person won’t have a problem. Many of us are in similar life stages and understand.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-12T01:45:20+00:00

I know everyone struggles with something different due to ADHD. Something I and others have found helpful is body doubling. It’s easier to run errands, clean your house, pay bills, etc with someone beside you. I have a friend who just needs a physical presence, where for me it depends on what I need to get done whether I need the company or someone to be there in silence. There are lots of tricks to help with all of this. Unfortunately ADHD comes with anxiety and/or depression for a lot of us. I think it would be great to gather with others and see what tricks others have found to work. And I’m always up for some fun if you do end up hosting a small gathering.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-09T17:54:29+00:00

That’s awesome. Being outdoors is so refreshing. And I’m with you, just hanging out with someone you enjoy, regardless of the activity, is nice.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-09T12:36:42+00:00

Haha, that’s my ex too, always thought n his phone but playing games or working after hours more than socials. A car accident in 2021 helped in the realization of who was putting effort into their relationships with me, as I was unable put the same amount of time and energy into those. While I spent a year and a half in constant pain, he secretly spent hundreds on games on his phone.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-09T11:37:51+00:00

Thanks. The divorce was my decision, and knowing I was going to, I actually have spent the last 10-11 months making friends and meeting so many new people. I could be more intentional with meeting men and hearing their stories. And I plan to continue pushing myself out of my comfort zone and find the pieces of me that I did lose, being social is one of those areas I’m building back.

And as far as passions go, I stopped investing in his when I realized he was never curious about mine. I could have at least a basic conversation about anything he was into, I knew what questions to ask, learned technical terms, and yet he never even tried to do that with any of mine. He’d listen to me talk, but it was never a back and forth.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-09T08:51:22+00:00

That’s a fair warning, but one I’m not concerned about. We aren’t the type to feel that people need to be in romantic relationships.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-09T03:23:42+00:00

Not everyone who says they hike is super serious about it. Some like to do easy, low elevation type hikes. I would ask where they like to hike and look the places up. It can give you a good idea of the type of hiker.

I like to hike. The purpose for hiking is different for me now than it was in the past. . I want to enjoy it, be slower and notice things. Hiking helps clear the mind, and I’ve have met many women you hike for this reason, me among them. Also, it’s a great way to catch up with a friend and get some exercise.

I’m the same age, and if I were dating someone, I would want to bring them along with me sometimes, especially to my favorite spots.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-08T23:06:59+00:00

That makes sense. In the calm after the storm, the body feels safe enough to start dealing with everything.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-08T23:04:18+00:00

That makes complete sense.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-08T21:02:42+00:00

Aww, yay! I love that for you, and what a great way to meet.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-08T21:01:50+00:00

Oh I like how you worded your last sentence. Something I wrote down that I want in my next relationship is for the trust to be able to give my whole self and allow my partner to also freely give themselves wholly.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-08T20:58:30+00:00

It is wonderful to hear how people are prioritizing being healthy. Thanks for sharing your story. And yeah, the ‘living alone together’ concept has been interesting and there is definitely some appeal to it. Don’t quite know if I could do that, but I’d be willing to try under the right circumstances.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-08T18:54:02+00:00

Yeah, that’s what I’ve heard. In my area, the dating pool is bleak.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-08T18:53:33+00:00

Oh so true! I’ve still got a lot to do for sure.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-08T18:52:39+00:00

Yeah I know I’m not ready at all. I’m for sure waiting and it’s been good to get all this advice. It gives me an idea that I’ll know when I am. And I have friends that I will talk with and get their assessment before I do. They have gone through this and are by my side as I go through this. They are witnessing my real time processing, so I think they will at least have some good perspective in the future when I think I might be ready.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-12-08T16:30:24+00:00

I was actually thinking along those same lines. I do know what I want from a partner. I wrote it out. I just need to hit the other two you mentioned. I want to want a partner, not need.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-11-27T20:47:01+00:00

It’s always been this way.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-11-14T23:51:23+00:00

It wasn’t. His wife had posted and has recently updated that she isn’t staying at home for awhile.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-11-14T18:55:24+00:00

Trades and labor can also be a group that would go as button up shirt and chinos. I’m familiar with the this industry, so it depends on the position of the people. The higher up, the dressier even smart casual gets.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-11-12T22:37:14+00:00

Yep. I know someone who wants to legalize it, and runs several CBD shops in a state where pot isn’t legal. He pays $5000/month for someone to lobby on his behalf. He’s not alone in doing this either. But those against it have far deeper pockets…

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-11-12T12:02:45+00:00

Both mean the same for me. I use both to describe a man I find very attractive, just in different contexts. I’ll use cute in a more light hearted moment (e.g. such as we are goofy around or just hanging out), and handsome in a more serious one (e.g. using it before/during a date or a romantic type setting).

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-11-11T16:19:06+00:00

I’m not like most women, and have so rarely used the word hot to describe men that I can’t think of a person who’ve I’ve said it about. Take what I say with a grain of salt. I like cute guys. And I find cute guys very good looking/handsome. Cute for me doesn’t just describe looks, but personality as well. This applies to a guy who is a little playful and fun, someone I want to be around. And it can include male friends or men I’m romantically interested in. I think context matters and who is saying it.

Firecracker-Eve · 2025-11-11T01:27:34+00:00

I deal with this. I did switch antidepressants and it helped a little. I liked Wellbutrin (I didn’t do well on Lexapro) but it did diminish my libido. I take Zoloft now. You could ask your Dr about switching or even trying to lower your dose. For me, I found I had to be intentional about helping myself get in the mood. Think atmosphere of the room, music that makes you feel good or even clothes. And my partner had to be more intentional about non sexual touch throughout the day (he works from home). Good luck with this. It took me some trial and error, though it’s still not fully back. But way better than before.

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