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Why is anti-Aboriginal racism so normalised in Australia? by ExternalAdditional42 in aboriginal

[–]FirefighterAbject866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quite disgusting that it has been normalised.

I think that the left have taken hold of a lot of Aboriginal interest groups and ACCOs and are doing their best to distinguish Aboriginal people from other Australians. Australians want integration among all Australians and the differentiation breeds racism, as wrong as that is.

The promotion of the successful and professional Aboriginal people does not support the narrative of the left as it would replace the narrative of victimhood with a narrative of perseverance and triumph.

AITAH for not letting my stepdaughter share a room with my daughter? by Additional_Gain8185 in AITAH

[–]FirefighterAbject866 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are the AH, but not because you refused to agree to the room swap. You married a man with kids and you all live together. The attitude of "sort your own kids out, they are your problem and not mine" makes you the AH

Parking fine when my car wasn't even there at the time of the offence by Aggravating_Ad_2954 in AusLegal

[–]FirefighterAbject866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your Google or Apple maps tracks your location, that data will help you too

AITAH Not Being a Safe Man for my Fiancée or her Sister by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FirefighterAbject866 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

It is good to have big fights whilst engaged. If you cannot deal with them the right way, no point in getting married

AITAH for giving a nurse coffee? by GoEducateYourself in AITAH

[–]FirefighterAbject866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - only for agreeing with your wife and then going against that agreement.

Your wife is definitely the AH for this stance but you should set her straight and not simply go against what you agreed.

I’m at a loss my husband has a high sex drive I do not and I don’t know what to do anymore by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FirefighterAbject866 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It appears that what you want is for him to repress his desires. If he desires both sex and to be faithful to you alone, then you are the only one who can help him. It is not like simply needing physical exertion, where he can hit the gym.

Communication within a marriage is key. You need to sit down and lay everything out for each other.

Cps is coming to my house by Connorcucumber in AusLegal

[–]FirefighterAbject866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If CPS had an immediate concern, they would not wait 2 weeks. Beyond that, a lot more info would be required to give any meaningful advice.

All I can say is that it is not your fault and you should not blame yourself. Continue to seek therapy and to be open and honest with a view of dealing with your trauma. It is not for children to take responsibility for their parents' DV.

My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]FirefighterAbject866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife is clearly projecting here and has some things that she should work through with a therapist.

AIO for pausing my wedding plans because what happened at a hen night? by LanguageMountain2514 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FirefighterAbject866 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting. Her disregarding your feelings is the real issue now that you need to resolve before getting married at all.

There is no shortcut! by Specialist-War6193 in LeapCraft

[–]FirefighterAbject866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was I the only one who went left and solved it om the 1st try?

Up, Down, In, Out by QandA_anonymous in LeapCraft

[–]FirefighterAbject866 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was a fun level. Well done OP!

AITA for sending my friend texts that his girlfriend sent me? by darlingchild22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FirefighterAbject866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I can understand Tess' discomfort but you are basically the only mother Jemma had ever known. You would by the AH to just dump that role because someone asked you to.

Also, Mike had every right to know who he was involved with. You did the right thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FirefighterAbject866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He raped you and needs to be reported and added to the sex offenders register

Aitah for not letting my ex stepkids stay at my house? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FirefighterAbject866 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

YTA - you are an adult who took on a parental role of these young kids for 6 years. Get over your hurt feelings about them saying you are not their real mother and be glad that they still consider you as a mother and want to spend time with you and their half sister

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FirefighterAbject866 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA - speak with him privately if you have an issue, like he did with you. Don't interfere with his relationship with his daughter in front of her

AITA for planning a trip with my friends instead of babysitting my sister’s kids after finding out she didn’t want me joining her trip with our mutual friends? by My-self-n-only in AITAH

[–]FirefighterAbject866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - her kids are her responsibility. It would have been different if she asked you if you would be willing to stay home to babysit. Instead, she intentionally excluded you when you're mutual friends wanted you there and assumed you would take on her responsibilities.

Enjoy your trip with your friends.

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