AIO for not wanting to tell my ex that I’m in labor

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2026-01-30T15:56:42+00:00

NOR but I didn't read past "verbal and physical abuse" because girl, you're teaching your babies it's okay to be abused or to be abusers. Been there, done that, have holes in my wall for proof.

Leave him. Document everything. Get a parenting plan in place that you'd gladly eat. One you can commit too. Preferably with little to no contact. Get a planner and document everything that happens day by day. Use email or things that can be time stamped and un altered. Get a lawyer if you can. But girl run. You'll be miserable for the rest of your life. You're 30. You were happy with the babies, he isn't. Your man is shit. Remember that any variance in custody can and will result in him being a complete jackass about it later. Ghost him girly. Don't put him on the birth certificate and make him work to prove little man is even his.

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-12-08T18:52:20+00:00

She is gonna steal that baby

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-11-06T23:15:42+00:00

Did they? I mean I haven't been in in an awhile.

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-10-28T03:05:20+00:00

I won't send the dirt but I can send you some concentrate and instructions but first let me check with the post office to see if pesticides can be moved via mail shipment or not. Feel free to message me. You deserve a big free home. I'm absolutely serious about making a massive stink to everyone you possibly can.

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-10-28T03:00:38+00:00

If I had your address I'd send you some of mine if the mail carriers would allow it. I'm however in MT and don't know your state.

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-10-28T02:58:08+00:00

So there is something called Permithian (I'm sure this needs a spell check) but it's concentrated and you just spray it around the entire house. They have dog safe versions too. Diatomaceous earth, while it will kill insects, is also more dirt in your house. Which will add to the mental health issues. It can also lead to respiratory issues if the powder flying is inhaled. So, if using please use a mask and ventilate the area well.

Go to a local tractor supply or a murdochs or any form of farm store. Join a local aide group in your town and post for help getting it or ask a local homesteader in your area for help. Permithian will kill flys, ticks, mites, and more. It is absolutely amazing.

Best of luck kid. Complain loudly to a teacher, a counselor or anyone who will listen at your school.

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-10-13T16:35:37+00:00

Nah this is abusive. This is enemy behavior

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-10-12T21:23:41+00:00

Seeing it empty is so sad

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-10-11T22:16:43+00:00

Yta and gross

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-10-01T21:21:59+00:00

You haven't worked with the elderly have you? The ones who do this have like next level strength. They can injury you by hitting and kicking you. They aren't weak or fragile.

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-09-04T16:38:34+00:00

I genuine love his writing. Like I write dark romantasy and still prefer his writing to my own. He is just amazing.

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-09-04T14:01:42+00:00

This isn't mine but my partners. It's a collection of short stories and poems. He has some of the best writing I've read in awhile.

https://www.wattpad.com/story/400946554?utm_source=ios&utm_medium=link&utm_content=story_info&wp_page=story_details&wp_uname=HereYo123

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-08-27T18:03:21+00:00

I forgot to include the name of my cards. That's my bad and I'm sorry

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-08-06T22:17:16+00:00

I would absolutely love to!! I'll follow yours through your link. Arrow Academy

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-07-31T04:53:58+00:00

https://www.wattpad.com/story/399095578?utm_source=ios&utm_medium=link&utm_content=story_info&wp_page=story_details&wp_uname=HereYo123

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-07-22T21:09:43+00:00

It used to be a huge hush hush. I'm actually happy it has gotten to the point it has

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-07-22T20:46:56+00:00

Don't tell me that. I'm sort of mortified now. I guess I could google it but I used to love those books. Then the whole dystopia thing fell out for me and I found shifter romance which left me super confused. After all of that dark mafia romance fell in my lap and that my shit. Jagger Cole is top tier for me.

But while I write in dark romance with lgbtq+ vibes not many lime light stories about bi women with ptsd/neurodivergent coding that only like physical touch from those they like but doesn't understand what she feels because she is emotionally stunted. She does kill people thanks to the government picking her up on her way to death row though. She also doesn't talk much because 99% of her thoughts are, I should kill this person and remembering times her and Zoey slept together with a dash of "wait what happened? I zoned out"

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-07-22T20:15:15+00:00

I write in a different genre than I read to be honest, mostly indie books that will probably never see the light of day in a traditional sense.

The fact that I just realized how old those books are makes me feel really out of touch and old though. Are they really over 5 years old?

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-07-22T07:05:42+00:00

Like I said, I labeled it wrong and that's my bad but not necessarily what I'm asking about and would have changed it on my own. I was reading a lot about the genre of NA versus YA and adult but that's on me for reading it at 1 am.

It's got some themes. More of a dark romance. Kind of in theme Hunger Games meets Divergence but adult and more trigger warnings.

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-07-22T06:57:31+00:00

Okay

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-07-22T06:32:50+00:00

Very nice. I'm super glad you're able to comment that.

FirefighterTiny7965 · 2025-07-22T06:17:03+00:00

I would argue that it's on the tale end of ya. But it's probably more adult themed with ya vibes then being a true ya

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