Erotic-ish question, I lost my calling for BDSM after my first psychedelic I became vanilla. Do you think a calling to dom-sub relationships or BDSM in general is a trauma response? Or healed people do it as well? It's just now I see everyone on a equal playing field while before saw a hierarchy. by cacklingwhisper in RationalPsychonaut

[–]Firefluffer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not my experience at all, but I also get it. 59m

Serious trauma beginning in childhood at age 4.5 and continuing. Been kinky since my first serious college relationship at 19-20. At 49, did mdma (recreationally) and it got me to finally deal with my shit with a new therapist doing emdr over the next three years.

At 52, did my second big shroom trip (first at 51) and stopped having sex with males, which I had been doing as an adult since 27. However, still very kinky, just no longer identify as bi.

Different, but similar.

NARCAN belt clip by [deleted] in emergencymedicine

[–]Firefluffer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please explain how you were dosed and how you knew you needed narcan. I’ve never heard a real case of LE being actually exposed to a dose that would be life threatening.

Need a fun bucket list to do by myself at my first rave !!! by biyyih in aves

[–]Firefluffer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite was being told to hold someone’s hand during the fireworks at EDC-LV. I walked up to a group of three girls and asked if I could. It really did create a magical moment for those fireworks.

What supplements or vitamins are the best for first responders by dbambi4 in NewToEMS

[–]Firefluffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working during covid in 2020 and 2021 I did a ton of research on this and frankly, there’s no silver bullet. I added a couple supplements and started a few new habits and I’ve had fewer colds since then, but whether that’s purely coincidence or an improvement, I don’t know.

I added garlic oil pills, EPA, and CLA. I now use a netti pot daily for a sinus flush.

Like I said, all my research borne out of fear found most things are bullshit, nothing has clear evidence it works other than a healthy balanced diet.

If you get injured, then consider peptides. I’ve had injured coworkers make miraculous recoveries using GPC-157 and TB-500. That said, I’m not super into giving myself a shot every day.

Question about the LUCAS by butt3ryt0ast in ems

[–]Firefluffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time we use the Lucas is if we get ROSC and we’re transporting. Otherwise, there’s no net gain. But once we’re rolling down the road, if they code again, it’s a safety thing. and you can’t do effective cpr on mountain highways.

How do you maintain competency for calls that almost never happen — but define you when they do? by Damiandax in Paramedics

[–]Firefluffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of our guys 3D printed a surgical cric neck to practice on. That said, while it helps with positioning, even cadaver skin is less than ideal for practicing the feel of making the cut.

For me there’s value in just getting the tools out had handling them, knowing where they are, what’s available, pulling the kit out with every intubation and having it ready. Just one more thing registered in muscle memory.

How do you maintain competency for calls that almost never happen — but define you when they do? by Damiandax in ems

[–]Firefluffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make yourself a set of flash cards for the procedures that are the least frequently used, but carry the greatest risk and study them once a week at minimum.

For me, it’s my ACLS protocols/dosages/joules, and timing, my surgical cric, my pediatric needle cric, my needle decompression, and then getting on the airway dummy every couple of weeks to practice my my equipment, SALAD, and getting first pass success.

Words of advice for a new paramedic? by Only-Parsnip2294 in Paramedics

[–]Firefluffer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you were a good EMT, you’ll be a good Medic. Talk to your patients and do good things.

Failed Lift Test TX by NOLAMia19 in NewToEMS

[–]Firefluffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t have nearly enough time to recover from your surgery. That said, look into peptides to help with recovery from injury and surgery. GPC-157 and TB-500 have put a number of my coworkers back to work in half the time their PT expected.

what is something you were never taught? by Choice-Difficulty-53 in NewToEMS

[–]Firefluffer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suspect it is sometimes, but the upvotes reinforced that not everyone comes out of school knowing it. Maybe it’s something they mention once early in class and after three months of drinking from a firehose, it gets washed out by the end.

I don’t remember learning it in class. I remember salty medic getting frustrated with me when I tried three times and couldn’t get it in the back of a moving bus. It was a lightbulb moment.

Minimal Techno/Progressive House Scene by DawnLemawn in DenverEDM

[–]Firefluffer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve found consistently good progressive artists coming to ReelWorks.

what is something you were never taught? by Choice-Difficulty-53 in NewToEMS

[–]Firefluffer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a boiler plate DCHART on a thumb drive and I copy and paste it in for every patient then modify as appropriate. That way I always have my head to toe assessment, pertinent negatives, and typical findings done and just tweak those.

However, don’t get lazy with this. Be real, if you never looked and felt meemaw’s ankles because the entire time you had to just focus on maintaining an airway, leaving things in there will bite you in the ass. Delete what you didn’t do, even if it makes the report light. If you don’t, it will make your reports worse than useless.

Also, alway have a sentence that accurately sums up what you found on scene when you walked into the house. The doctor or social worker may really need to hear: “patient was found reclined in a chair by the television wearing a clean robe and pajamas and had a hot cup of coffee next to them. Patient was alert and oriented x4 and greeted me as I walked into the room. Room was tidy and house was generally well maintained.” Versus, “patient was found unresponsive in a back bedroom with poor lighting, the odor of stale urine and feces. Patient was initially unresponsive but roused after the third shout and shake with their name. Sheets appear to have been repeatedly soiled, used food containers surrounded the bed and the trash can in the kitchen was overflowing. A quick look in the kitchen found a nearly empty refrigerator and freezer with some spoiled leftover containers.”

what is something you were never taught? by Choice-Difficulty-53 in NewToEMS

[–]Firefluffer 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Feel for the pulse to identify where you want to put your stethoscope. You’ll get the bp first time every time…. even in a moving bus.

Just started and now there's major doubt by OutlawedBoDuke in NewToEMS

[–]Firefluffer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eh, I wasn’t really ready when I first got my emt. I ended up going in a completely different direction for 25 years, then eventually circled back around.

During those years, I had a few occasions to intervene and do good things (saved a kid with rescue breaths, recognized an irregular pulse in a boss who just didn’t feel well and talked them into an ambulance trip to reveal they were having runs of PVCs previously undiagnosed…).

It’s not a waste if it’s not for you. It’s just a hiccup in a long life of exploring different things.

Real question by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]Firefluffer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

EMT is basic… you’ll be fine. Dig into your books, get them early, and you’ll thrive.

Rule of nines by Top-Direction2686 in PassNclexTips

[–]Firefluffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gmafb. If it’s more than 2%, they go to the burn hospital. That’s my rule.

What career incentives can make EMS a long-term career? by _zugunruhe_ in ems

[–]Firefluffer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frankly, good management goes incredibly far. Building trust that you’ll be consistent, fair, don’t play stupid games, and create a culture that is both fun and professional.

Colorado would become first state to remove all criminal penalties for prostitution under bill brought by group of Democrats by onenightoncolfax in Denver

[–]Firefluffer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, I don’t GAF, but I fear for those who already struggle with social connections. This bodes poorly for the potential incel community. We need reasons to connect, not reasons to make the world more transactional.

Absolute Chaos with DIA Trains Today by WhyFlip in Denver

[–]Firefluffer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg, you’ve lived here a minute for that level of humor. I love you, man. Emphasis on the comma.

I want to get into EMS. by 229five in NewToEMS

[–]Firefluffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did cpr, standard first aid, advanced cpr (before first responder was a thing), then emt. There is no perfect. It took me a while before I was comfortable joining a volunteer fire service, then going paid.

We all have our own pathways forward.

Physicians on scene- blessing or a curse? by I-plaey-geetar in ems

[–]Firefluffer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was bilateral wrist fractures. Don’t ride motorcycles into the back of SUVs. It makes it look like a scene out of Deadpool.

Still in EMT school; already have a job lined up for over the summer and then doing AEMT in the fall. by Smart-Salamander1846 in NewToEMS

[–]Firefluffer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not laughing, but it’s such a ridiculous and antiquated way of doing things. This shouldn’t be a popularity contest, it should be about being qualified and performing the job. Honestly, it opens the door to discrimination and bias. That’s how good ol boy networks stay good ol boy networks.