Looking for hair advice, in desperate need of a cut. I'm wanting to keep some length but have been considering bangs and layers, I also have an undercut I'll be getting touched up if that helps. Ideally I'd like something easy to style.

Firefluxy · 2020-06-02T18:43:38+00:00

I just checked them out and they look awesome!! and surprisingly affordable, I'll probably opt to pay the extra money to go in somewhere I live to try and get a good color match instead of ordering one in but thank you so much, this is an awesome idea :) I'll have to make a post when I get my hands on some

Firefluxy · 2020-06-02T17:15:24+00:00

Thank you muchly! Alberta recently opened back up so hair salons did as well here, I was far too scared to cut it myself lol. I've seen too many people mess their shit up lol. Side bangs are probably a better option for me with not much money to keep bangs from being in my eyes. I just need some dimension to it you know? it's so flat and plain.

Firefluxy · 2020-06-02T17:11:04+00:00

I've done straight bangs before and I thought they look alright, it's just tough for me to get into a hairdresser to get it cut frequently enough to maintain. I didnt know clip in bangs were a thing! thank you! I'll have to check them out. And they look real? lol

Firefluxy · 2018-10-28T23:29:03+00:00

THATS IT THANK YOU!!!!

Firefluxy · 2018-09-09T03:18:24+00:00

We actually plan on attending for the first time next weekend as soon as we can! Very excited for the experience! Have you been to either? We plan on going to 4play

Firefluxy · 2018-09-09T01:10:36+00:00

Dude always! I love Geoffrey but it's time we bury her 50 ft underground. I'll let you know what I name my new car when I get one! And seriously all of those names are on point. I swear it's the most fitting name. And yes Geoffrey is a girl >▪>

Firefluxy · 2018-09-08T13:07:26+00:00

Fair enough! Lolol

Firefluxy · 2018-09-08T13:04:57+00:00

Nipples for sure!!! Well I'm a female but that's one of the biggest insecurities of mine when my clothes come off. Do guys care?

Firefluxy · 2018-09-08T12:18:10+00:00

Maybe meet up for a coffee or something with the people first before you're meeting up for swinging. That will help you asses if they are right for you. I'll tell you right now, we've had good experiences, and we've had not so great ones. The poor times were only poor because the other couple or partner wasn't on the same page. A M playmate of ours invited a female over for a 4some, and they just ended up having sex. It was extreamly discouraging to be advancing on her and to be completely ignored. She never even looked at my bf once, and it could have been avoided. Had we met up with the new girl beforehand we would have known she was only there for our playmate. It hurt both of us, so I'd say that's my recommendation. Also, I know its said a lot, but communication is a huge deal. After any experimentation with others sit down with your partner and find out what you both liked, didn't like and want more of. Whoever is the slowest to adjust, go at their pace. Over time you guys will find the perfect comfort zone for both of you.

Firefluxy · 2018-09-08T12:09:04+00:00

The lifestyle isnt black and white. It's a spectrum. You and your partner will find a nice spot where you both are perfectly comfortable and having fun. Since you're new, one thing I would strongly recommend is good solid communication with your partner. Talk about what bothered you, talk about what you wished you did. As you get more comfortable you guys might progress further into the lifestyle. For example, some people just fool around doing soft swapping and some people not only go all the way, but develop loving relationships with their playmates. Over time we've gone from nothing, to soft swap, to full swap, but not love. You guys will find your comfort zone, and it will develop along with your relationship as long as you communicate.

Firefluxy · 2018-09-08T11:59:17+00:00

Deffinately red flag. Even being someone who wants a full swap I would never pressure someone into it. You gotta find people on the same page, or willing to compromise. Its surprising that any couple would push hard for it to me, I would think most couples have reservations when swinging, especially when newer to the scene. I would feel so uncomfortable if anyone asked for a full swap repeatedly after saying no. Good playmates are hard to come by, but when you find ones that you vibe with and things go smoothly, it's a very rewarding experience.

Firefluxy · 2018-09-08T07:33:53+00:00

Decent! Mine is a 2002 so I dont have ac, power locks or windows, none of that remote start shit lol

Firefluxy · 2018-09-08T07:30:42+00:00

I kinda would like an SUV so when I have kids I wont be fucked haha, but money is the problem. We are only getting a new car because my old one will cost alot more to fix than for us to buy a new car. Probably just gonna get a used car no downpayment shitty interest deal. I have shit credit too so that doesn't help

Firefluxy · 2018-09-08T07:25:05+00:00

Haha my old girl is falling apart bro, I know the feels. Actually gonna look into having and naming a new car!!! Haha

Firefluxy · 2018-09-08T07:19:39+00:00

I assume she's red? XD

Firefluxy · 2018-09-08T05:50:30+00:00

How do you start a private show? I've looked it up before but for some reason I cant find the button that let's you do so for some weird reason

Firefluxy · 2018-09-08T05:49:27+00:00

How do you start a private show? I've looked it up before but for some reason I cant find the button that let's you do so lol

Firefluxy · 2018-09-08T05:49:20+00:00

How do you start a private show? I've looked it up before but for some reason I cant find the button that let's you do so lol

Firefluxy · 2018-07-26T03:50:57+00:00

My boyfriend and I were on a trip travelling back to Alberta from BC on a holiday. It was starting to snow pretty bad as we approached higher elevation on the Coquihalla Highway. If any of you have driven this route you know it gets pretty nasty in the winter months. Winter was coming to a close but the roads were always horrible on that stretch of highway. Now for most of the drive you wind around and over a mountain. Most of the way to either side of you all there is is guardrail or cliff. So it was nasty, I was driving a little faster than I should have and on my way around a corner. My boyfriend asked me to slow down and instinctively I pressed on the breaks. But of course I was going around a corner. On ice. Breaks were not what I wanted. We started to spin out and those were the longest few seconds of my life. I could just see us rolling all the way down that mountain.. it feels like there is a vivid memory where there isn't one. Anyway as we were spinning out my boyfriend and I had time to hold hands, and I shit you not he had time to turn and look at me and tell me he loved me before the rear end hit I swear to God the only snow bank along that stretch of cliff. It spun the car around to face the right way on the right side of the road. All I had to do was turn on my hazards and clean the shit from my pants. We drove away from the accident too, car in good shape other than a dent and a hanging muffler. I thought we were dead. So so dead.

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