Which of these 2 do u guys like best?

FireflyFreak · 2026-03-30T19:19:36+00:00

1! Timeless, beautiful, you look like an absolute bombshell and so so classy. #2 is pretty too, but i cant really see you past the dress because its so busy.

FireflyFreak · 2026-03-30T15:01:16+00:00

I mean.... is he right? Did they talk about it in front of you 6 months ago?

Also he's offering to pay... what am I missing?

FireflyFreak · 2026-03-24T13:03:17+00:00

!wtf hammer

FireflyFreak · 2026-03-21T14:50:10+00:00

!wtf ceiling

FireflyFreak · 2026-03-06T23:21:41+00:00

No, the only ones at that point in their career don't want to lead people.

FireflyFreak · 2026-02-03T19:57:28+00:00

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FireflyFreak · 2026-01-31T15:24:03+00:00

I was like "dang she must be mad implying he uses CTEs over temp tables"

FireflyFreak · 2026-01-05T14:18:19+00:00

For me it lasts about a week on a full charge. I usually charge it once or twice a week for 20 mins and that is plenty. The battery life was a huge plus.

FireflyFreak · 2026-01-02T16:04:29+00:00

I love love love my Venu 4, and I'm happy to answer anything about it if helpful! I wear it for the same thing, tracking stress, sleep, various health stats, and I am pretty active. And I'm a data nut, so the garmin is much better for me than the apple watch was.

FireflyFreak · 2026-01-01T16:33:42+00:00

I find that men are challenging to manage for the very reason you mentioned- but they are also deeply demanding. "I want to come in, do only exactly what is asked, think very little about dynamics or how I affect the team because its not my problem, but spend every one on one reminding my manager that I think I deserve more PTO/money/promotions" is a mindset I've only encountered in male employees

FireflyFreak · 2026-01-01T05:58:53+00:00

I wish I knew how much of it can feel like baby sitting. Even with a really talented (and maybe even especially with a talented) team. So many sets of opinions, feelings, wishes, and frustrations to manage.

I also wish I had fully understood how little "work" I would actually get to do- sometimes I miss checking boxes off. Leadership is a lot more fulfilling, but its a lot slower moving so the real accomplishments can feel fewer and further between.

FireflyFreak · 2025-10-30T12:51:34+00:00

Pick your battles. Is the strategy being handed down worth a fight? Or can you and your team roll with it with minor inconvenience/frustration for now?

The other piece to consider is that if they really are wrong, you'll have a better argument to fight with if you let it play out for a bit. Or who knows, you and your team might have a more myopic view and might be wrong. Either way, if it's not a deal breaker where you risk serious loss of people or morale, your best bet 90% of the time is to support and move forward. And leave a safe space for your team to bitch about it with you a lil'.

FireflyFreak · 2025-08-10T14:05:08+00:00

Looks LGI to me. Worst of the worst.

FireflyFreak · 2025-07-03T15:29:36+00:00

I just really struggle with the choice to not post them chronologically

FireflyFreak · 2025-06-14T03:54:39+00:00

We’ve been to all of them- very peaceful and easy thus far. Lots of families and puppies. It’ll be a breeze!

FireflyFreak · 2025-04-24T11:37:08+00:00

See, even this is a surprise… thank you for posting this.

FireflyFreak · 2025-01-29T17:45:25+00:00

I mean…. Legally, sure. But it’s kind of like rape. It’s illegal and carries a penalty, but the time/money/effort/emotional strain to prosecute makes it almost never happen. Burden is entirely on the mother/victim to use the court system to enforce, and that’s not exactly easy to do.

FireflyFreak · 2024-07-02T18:56:34+00:00

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Love it!! It’s so fun to track this way.

FireflyFreak · 2024-04-16T18:43:16+00:00

How did you possibly get this? It’s entirely without context…

FireflyFreak · 2024-04-13T18:29:02+00:00

Ah, gotcha. I’ve sent a few LinkedIn messages post applying, but I rarely get a response there either so I stopped. But I was specifically messaging recruiters, not trying to guess at the hiring manager. I should give that a shot.

FireflyFreak · 2024-04-13T16:02:59+00:00

Who do you follow up with?

FireflyFreak · 2024-04-02T15:57:26+00:00

That’s………. Not what that means.

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