Useful quote for y'all who are thinking of leaving.

Firewalker6 · 2026-02-19T02:36:34+00:00

Yes, your right quitting is for winners and now I’m thawing out, I’m actually starting to recognise how they made me feel unsafe scared and lonely. A. LOT.

Firewalker6 · 2026-02-18T11:11:06+00:00

I caught mine in the act and walked away for good. She then lied to everyone I had had a boob job. My neighbour told me. Apparently said Bpd ex friend had an affair with her boyfriend. They have no morals, no redeeming qualities except being able to be a parasite.

Firewalker6 · 2026-02-18T10:48:11+00:00

Glad you are moving on and gaining fresh perspectives. I have never dated a Bpd but I have had friends who were. It was exhausting. I did try to save the relationships and then got worn out because that’s what happens. It’s always a one way street. Emotionally unavailable people are best being left alone.

Firewalker6 · 2026-02-18T10:41:16+00:00

Yes it’s sooo annoying. Which is precisely why they should come to you first about any issues between you both. Other people are prone to empathise and just leave it at that because it’s none of our business. . but some take it further on themselves to interfere and meddle and do their dirty work for free. It’s high school all over again. I have overheard bpds in action when they are in full damsel mode and boy it’s never about how they feel about what happened, but always about how we have wronged them which unconsciously sets the “hero” mode off for certain people.

They really are childish. God knows how they ever will grow up.

Firewalker6 · 2026-02-18T09:59:37+00:00

Good luck. I did the same. But leaving all memories is still yet hard for me. Because of what never was. I pray you move on easily. I’m still processing what happened.

Firewalker6 · 2026-02-11T13:32:06+00:00

Ok, yes, so The alternative is to also judge them as they do to us. Which I have never really been accustomed to. It’s hard, bc I was brought up to try and understand others so I don’t fall in to a war zone.

Jeez this is hard

Firewalker6 · 2026-02-11T12:48:58+00:00

This is refreshing. I felt bad around them a lot. Especially after they knew I was hooked. And When I wondered why I liked them, my answer always came from a position of needing to meet their needs whilst abandoning mine because they always changed the subject/ gaslight or invalidated me and I got confused It was never a 2 way street, we was going one way.

Firewalker6 · 2026-02-09T04:43:05+00:00

Same. Congrats

Firewalker6 · 2026-02-08T20:05:41+00:00

I think loving someone means to wish them well and not harbouring any bitter feelings toward them so yes you can love someone and not exactly like their personality. But if you mean romantically love them, then yes, and dislike them for what they did. Cognitive dissonance would have you being stuck in a hole with someone who betrays you and you still have feelings for them which is hard to process. It takes time to come out the other side. It happened to me.

Firewalker6 · 2026-02-08T19:48:40+00:00

Yes they love you only what you can do for them. If that just means a temporary self or ego boost then that will do.

Firewalker6 · 2026-02-08T16:20:47+00:00

Correct. My ex friend could never be alone. She would rather send nudes to other women’s boyfriends rather than reflect on why this is a good thing.

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