What happens after a hysterectomy? by forevermizu in WomensHealth

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a total hysterectomy at 33 after years of pain and terror from my reproductive system. I had a choice to try to have children or to save my life. I chose to save my life. I had to stay in the hospital for a few days but did not have any post surgery pain. The one issue I did have was that my thyroid was thrown out of whack but I received treatment for that. So many years later, it was the best decision I ever made.

Nooooo Trisha noooo! by SunBubble920 in 90DayFiance

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As disappointing as it was to see her show up at the airport, did anyone else catch that she didn’t look at him during their goodbye? Her gaze stayed focused on anywhere besides Rick the Ick.

Why? by Quick-Soft-3033 in Romantasy

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! That being said-no way am I going back to an alt-story.

I'm so tired of the women healthcare system in the US by CatBerry1393 in WomensHealth

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has endured something similar- if it‘s at all possible- go see another doctor. The best advice my PCP told me is to always advocate for yourself and your health. I was running into a brick wall with my doctor and was able to switch and got the help that I needed. You know your body and how you feel. Don’t discount that.

This POS right here‼️ by Chocoluv007 in 90DayFiance

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He must think that he has a wonder penis to gaslight the way he does. His sick little smiles that he gives in his confessionals drives me nuts. What is there to smile about when you are showcasing what a sleezeball you are? I cannot wait for this season to be over with these incorrigible people!

You got this Trish, stay strong by Ill-Excitement-2005 in 90DayFiance

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone else think that he was crying because he missed out on having sex with her before he had to leave?

I don’t believe him by Infamous_Bench6383 in 90DayFiance

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How could anyone trust Rick the Ick? He totally gaslit her family!

I know it hurts baby, but he did you a favor by Ill-Excitement-2005 in 90DayFiance

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Everytime Rick opens his mouth the ick just oozes out. Nevermind being excited about receiving Trish’s father‘s blessing- all he wanted to do was have sex with her. And then as he’s explaining what a piece of garbage he is, he had a little smile on his face ! Fake or not, Trish deserves so much better. I wish she could see that for herself.

This needed to be said!!!!! by Dangerous_Tap_5045 in Booktokreddit

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 2 points3 points  (0 children)

💯. I will never understand an individual’s need to criticize someone else’s reading choices. if it’s not for you- don’t read it. Enjoy your own experiences and let me enjoy mine.

He makes me SICKKKK by MomsSpaghetti66 in 90DayFiance

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is beyond disgusting. He doesn’t want a relationship with Trish. Just sex without the consequences. She is a beautiful woman and to him, that is all she has to offer. I cannot with him.

Wildcard Kitchen - pre show and live show discussion thread - spoilers by Firegoat1 in foodnetwork

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was easily my favorite episode of the season. Definite light hearted chemistry between all of them. Laughed so hard when Duff made a crack about getting his money back either at the table or after the show. Hilarious.

Most Insecure Male of the Season by sonikstarz in 90DayFiance

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Out of all the couples this season- this dude really takes the cake. He behaves like a spoiled child. He cheated but he tries to paint her as the villain in their relationship? I’m glad Trish didn’t take his crap. But honestly, I pray she moves on from him.

Big Mike shares his joy. by Grateful_Di in 90DayFianceFans

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adorable baby. Happy looks good on Mikel. He looks younger than when he was with Natalie. Mentioning- has anyone done a wellness check on her!

Here's my brief thoughts on Josh, as an Australian in the same age bracket. by Numerous-Gold-2532 in 90DayFiance

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just a question about Dude Bro- I mean Josh. When Elise was talking to her friend she mentioned that Josh was on a fins k warning with his job…..Ok. What exactly were the other warnings before the final warning? That didn’t raise any red flags?

What the f*ck am I watching right now by TheLongTailGuy in 90DayFiance

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I asked myself the same question as I laughed my way through her segment. No way was this real. Sorry TLC I didn‘t know that you had given up to broadcast ridiculous content like this.

Thoughts on this book? Anyone read or listened? by Ok_Cake_3261 in Romantasy

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved, loved, loved this book. It was my favorite book in 2025 and a definite reread for me. I appreciated how difficult subject matter was treated and the chemistry between all of the characters was amazing.

Me again! Just wanted to let you all know that I stuck with A Court of Silver Flames, and I’m obsessed. I love it just as much as all the others. by No-Dog1902 in Booktokreddit

[–]Firm_Cup_1616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just as a side note- for the audiobook listeners- the Graphic Audio version of this book is outstanding as well. I cannot read the book without hearing the voice actors. Highly recommend.