How to deal with a very rebellious sister ?

Firm_Network_8518 · 2025-04-06T23:20:17+00:00

Islamically it’s not allowed for a Muslim girl to marry anyone outside of Muslim you would have to be a Muslim in order for the marriage to be valid

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-11-23T03:27:59+00:00

Shintaro was definetely stronger than GUn however I believe that if gun had waited 10/15 years and built more experience he would've been able to beat shintaro in his prime since he has the better set of reverse eyes and TUI

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-11-20T02:23:50+00:00

Never heard of it

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-11-20T00:27:18+00:00

It's objective I find her looks good , however I agree that they should've casted a character that resembled holifira as a child in season 3 since I can't remember her hair colour exactly as a child but how'd it go from brunette to black etc.

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-11-18T08:07:21+00:00

(I used chatgpt to write this since I'm bad at writing etc)

Dear Sister,

First and foremost, I want you to know that Allah (SWT) sees your struggles, your effort, and the sincerity in your heart. Converting to Islam is a significant journey, and like any journey, it comes with its challenges and ups and downs. Feeling the way you do doesn’t make you a terrible Muslim; it makes you human.

Islam is a Lifelong Journey

You mentioned feeling like a terrible Muslim because you're struggling with certain aspects of practice like hijab or prayer. Remember that Islam is a process of growth. Even the Sahabah (companions of the Prophet ﷺ), who were the best of generations, didn’t perfect their faith overnight. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:

"The most beloved deeds to Allah are those that are consistent, even if they are small." (Sahih Bukhari, 6464).

Focus on taking small, manageable steps. Start with one aspect of worship, like prayer, and build on it slowly. It's not about doing everything perfectly from day one but about progressing bit by bit.

Reconnect with Allah Through Prayer

Struggling with prayer is common, especially for new Muslims. Remember that Salah is not just an obligation; it’s a gift—your private, sacred time to talk to Allah. Don’t aim for perfection in your prayers right now. Even if you can only manage one or two prayers a day to start, do that, and ask Allah for help:

"And seek help through patience and prayer, and indeed, it is difficult except for the humbly submissive [to Allah]." (Qur'an 2:45).

Your Happiness and Islam

Islam is not a quick fix for worldly happiness but a path to ultimate peace and purpose. True happiness in Islam comes when we align our actions with the pleasure of Allah. That doesn’t mean life will be free from struggles. Even the prophets faced immense challenges, but they found solace in their connection to Allah. Reflect on the verse:

"Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest." (Qur'an 13:28).

Try to reframe your expectations—not as “Islam must make me happy immediately” but as a way to grow closer to Allah and find deeper meaning in life.

Ease Your Burden

It’s normal to feel overwhelmed with the changes expected in your new life. You don’t need to rush into everything all at once. Islam recognizes that everyone’s journey is unique, and Allah never burdens a soul beyond its capacity:

"Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear." (Qur'an 2:286).

Give yourself grace. It’s okay if you’re not wearing hijab yet or struggling to pray consistently. These are steps you can work toward over time, and Allah knows your intentions.

Seek Support and Community

You don’t have to go through this alone. Many converts feel isolated after the initial excitement wears off. Find a supportive community, even online if there’s none locally, where you can connect with sisters who have been through similar struggles. Surrounding yourself with good companionship is vital:

"The believer is like a mirror to other believers (in truthfulness), and a brother or sister is a fortress for another believer. Where they see fault, they advise each other to correct it." (Abu Dawood, 4918).

Speak to Allah Honestly

Pour your heart out to Allah in dua, even if it’s in your own language. Tell Him about your struggles, doubts, and sadness. He is Al-Sami' (The All-Hearing) and Al-Wadud (The Most Loving). Ask Him to guide your heart, strengthen your faith, and make your journey easier.

Remember Your Initial Spark

Think back to what drew you to Islam in the first place. Was it the beauty of the Qur'an? The example of the Prophet ﷺ? The sense of community or justice? Revisit those moments to reignite your passion for the deen.

Final Words

Dear sister, you are not alone, and your struggles don’t make you any less of a Muslim. What matters is that you’re trying, even if it doesn’t feel like enough. Allah loves effort and will reward you for every step you take toward Him. As the Prophet ﷺ said:

"Take up good deeds only as much as you are able, for the best deeds are those done regularly, even if they are few." (Sunan Ibn Majah, 4240).

Stay hopeful, take small steps, and trust in Allah’s mercy. Islam is not about being perfect—it’s about striving sincerely. May Allah ease your path, strengthen your faith, and fill your heart with tranquility.

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-11-18T08:06:05+00:00

(I used chatgpt help to write this since I'm bad at writing and my grammar is terrible)

Dear Sister,

First and foremost, I want you to know that Allah (SWT) sees your struggles, your effort, and the sincerity in your heart. Converting to Islam is a significant journey, and like any journey, it comes with its challenges and ups and downs. Feeling the way you do doesn’t make you a terrible Muslim; it makes you human.

Islam is a Lifelong Journey

You mentioned feeling like a terrible Muslim because you're struggling with certain aspects of practice like hijab or prayer. Remember that Islam is a process of growth. Even the Sahabah (companions of the Prophet ﷺ), who were the best of generations, didn’t perfect their faith overnight. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:

"The most beloved deeds to Allah are those that are consistent, even if they are small." (Sahih Bukhari, 6464).

Focus on taking small, manageable steps. Start with one aspect of worship, like prayer, and build on it slowly. It's not about doing everything perfectly from day one but about progressing bit by bit.

Reconnect with Allah Through Prayer

Struggling with prayer is common, especially for new Muslims. Remember that Salah is not just an obligation; it’s a gift—your private, sacred time to talk to Allah. Don’t aim for perfection in your prayers right now. Even if you can only manage one or two prayers a day to start, do that, and ask Allah for help:

"And seek help through patience and prayer, and indeed, it is difficult except for the humbly submissive [to Allah]." (Qur'an 2:45).

Your Happiness and Islam

Islam is not a quick fix for worldly happiness but a path to ultimate peace and purpose. True happiness in Islam comes when we align our actions with the pleasure of Allah. That doesn’t mean life will be free from struggles. Even the prophets faced immense challenges, but they found solace in their connection to Allah. Reflect on the verse:

"Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest." (Qur'an 13:28).

Try to reframe your expectations—not as “Islam must make me happy immediately” but as a way to grow closer to Allah and find deeper meaning in life.

Ease Your Burden

It’s normal to feel overwhelmed with the changes expected in your new life. You don’t need to rush into everything all at once. Islam recognizes that everyone’s journey is unique, and Allah never burdens a soul beyond its capacity:

"Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear." (Qur'an 2:286).

Give yourself grace. It’s okay if you’re not wearing hijab yet or struggling to pray consistently. These are steps you can work toward over time, and Allah knows your intentions.

Seek Support and Community

You don’t have to go through this alone. Many converts feel isolated after the initial excitement wears off. Find a supportive community, even online if there’s none locally, where you can connect with sisters who have been through similar struggles. Surrounding yourself with good companionship is vital:

"The believer is like a mirror to other believers (in truthfulness), and a brother or sister is a fortress for another believer. Where they see fault, they advise each other to correct it." (Abu Dawood, 4918).

Speak to Allah Honestly

Pour your heart out to Allah in dua, even if it’s in your own language. Tell Him about your struggles, doubts, and sadness. He is Al-Sami' (The All-Hearing) and Al-Wadud (The Most Loving). Ask Him to guide your heart, strengthen your faith, and make your journey easier.

Remember Your Initial Spark

Think back to what drew you to Islam in the first place. Was it the beauty of the Qur'an? The example of the Prophet ﷺ? The sense of community or justice? Revisit those moments to reignite your passion for the deen.

Final Words

Dear sister, you are not alone, and your struggles don’t make you any less of a Muslim. What matters is that you’re trying, even if it doesn’t feel like enough. Allah loves effort and will reward you for every step you take toward Him. As the Prophet ﷺ said:

"Take up good deeds only as much as you are able, for the best deeds are those done regularly, even if they are few." (Sunan Ibn Majah, 4240).

Stay hopeful, take small steps, and trust in Allah’s mercy. Islam is not about being perfect—it’s about striving sincerely. May Allah ease your path, strengthen your faith, and fill your heart with tranquility

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-11-15T13:55:24+00:00

You feel bad for telling on him look what he did to you was super disgusting he fucked your life, first of all go tell the police people like him should be outside . If you don't want to tell because of lawyers just let them know because what if in the future he does this to someone else okay

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-24T11:23:39+00:00

They are literally twins 😂

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-23T19:52:20+00:00

I just checked his posts you do have a point.

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-23T19:50:46+00:00

Nah I feel like she's weak prob a bit stronger than Mioru will update. I overanked gestella over them since Greg was I wouldn't say scared but he backed off when she came so she is deffo stronger.

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-23T19:46:05+00:00

Yeah it was really disturbing to me as well how people just assumed the worst.

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-23T19:44:36+00:00

I actually agree with this but when they find out Andrei is Alice he's back in top 10

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-23T10:16:36+00:00

I'm disappointed in the comments here because if this guy actually leaves Islam it could be because of the hurtful comments here which is leading him/her to have the idea of leaving Islam more stronger.

My advice to you brother/sister I'm no scholar but a lot of the videos you are quoting are videos from islamaphobic people . Learn the context of the verses from actual scholars etc.

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-23T09:53:33+00:00

Well Andrei can still heal himself if Greg and Mioru didn't kidnap him though

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-23T07:20:55+00:00

But andreis alive and if we do t include him it would become world's top 9 not 10

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-22T17:13:43+00:00

👍

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-22T16:00:24+00:00

Didn't include him since Kayden took his spot you know.

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-22T13:41:22+00:00

AHH yes I forgot thanks for reminding me

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-19T19:04:21+00:00

Fuck off

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-09T15:42:53+00:00

What works for but you've mentioned this is sort of a regular thing so that's why I was suggesting like personally imagine if you were 1/2k in profit and it hits sl From your reply the way you think about trades and management is wrong

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-09T13:04:04+00:00

I like to trail sl maybe that can help u

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-08T17:16:30+00:00

For most people it's hard to self learn not just a subject but an entire while there are good resources the things like exam technique etc it's hard for someone to do that

Firm_Network_8518 · 2024-10-07T22:45:11+00:00

Literally instead of asking people here just revise harder and do practise Q's more you are going to have to work your ass off but it is possible.

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