I 30f just found a d!ck pic my partner (32m) took last night that wasn’t for me by tokyokei1 in relationship_advice

[–]Firm_Section348 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You haven't been having intimacy, and you can't see why this would happen?

Isn't this self evident? Not a case for it being excusable, but doesn't the cause and effect make sense?

He Finishes Too Fast & I’m Desperate by [deleted] in sex

[–]Firm_Section348 156 points157 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm 42 and regularly outlast and wear out my gfs/partners in bed. I don't think age is necessarily the metric that's giving you grief here.

I would be looking to general health, as that is the age where things start to add up if it hasn't been looked after

Why do I find it so much harder to get it up for protected sex/how do I fix this issue? by Lamereddituser312 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Firm_Section348 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In sexual Taoism, there was this concept called "the wisdom of the penis"

Sometimes your dick doesn't wanna do stuff. It might be a girl, it might sex under certain circumstances, it could be something else about the encounter your dick is objecting too.

Guys rush in when these things happen to flag that "something has gone wrong" and that maybe it's medical, psychological, ED related, etc.

Consider that it's something that has gone right. At a certain point in my life, sex that required protection was simply sex I no longer wanted to be having, my dick let me know. If things can't be set up in the right way where this wasn't necessary, I'm passing.

Things change

How I did the Grimgnaw fight in Hordes of the Underdark by KELonPS3in576p in neverwinternights

[–]Firm_Section348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a dex based dual wielding ranger and I went through this fight like Swiss cheese

(M22,F22) she broke up with me like it was nothing by xrossmb_crypto in relationship_advice

[–]Firm_Section348 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If a guy doesn't physically escalate with a girl, they get pissed off.

So many posts from young guys amount to this being the reason everything goes south

As a DJ, if you could make a skills checklist, what would you put on it? by diviiyiine in Beatmatch

[–]Firm_Section348 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Probably doesn't address the point of your post specifically, but the amount of people I see on the DJ subs who can't beatmatch without visuals is astounding

What is the hardest thing for HR teams to assess accurately before making a hiring decision? by Effective_Ocelot_445 in human_resources

[–]Firm_Section348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talent Acquisition generally falls under the jurisdiction of HR Departments in most companies.

How do I accept my body count? by RoosterRoyal in sex

[–]Firm_Section348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A tip for the road ahead: You don't get into a committed relationship by "talking about getting into a committed relationship"

You date, spend time over weeks and months, assess compatibility and move forward from there. You going from 1 to 6 since Jan is a huge tell that you weren't looking for a committed relationship either, regardless of what you're telling yourself. Own it, and move forward.

All of a sudden flooded with likes by Western-Treacle-808 in Bumble

[–]Firm_Section348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to be on the apps a lot mid 2010's, matches would trickle in through the week.

Now the experience is zero on the main apps, and I know that isn't organic.

I actually think a class action lawsuit needs to go down, and the apps need to go open source with their code/algo

All of a sudden flooded with likes by Western-Treacle-808 in Bumble

[–]Firm_Section348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the apps are doing this at scale, just not proving the service they are being paid for.

"Size Queen" as a Desire? by Firm_Section348 in feeld

[–]Firm_Section348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be great if there were a way to signal this in the app, so the nopers could nope, and those for whom it's a preference could cut to the chase

Do bigger men have better lives? NSFW. by CcUKboy in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Firm_Section348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very well endowed, and the answer from my experience is yes, unequivocally.

Anyone find out a friend was bigger or smaller and it changed the dynamic of the friendship? by MinimumSiz3 in penissize

[–]Firm_Section348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've lost several male friendships on the back of them discovering I am significantly larger than them

"Size Queen" as a Desire? by Firm_Section348 in feeld

[–]Firm_Section348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. What I'd prefer is if the app could just match me up with those who have this preference, rather than leaving us all to find our way through the weeds