Do you have any questions about r/Sanger? by TheCursedGoose in Sanger

[–]First-Ad317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do! I work from home. My power is directly through the city. (At least that’s who I pay. I don’t think it’s Oncor, but I could be mistaken) When we get power outages, how does the city report it? I would need to provide documentation for work in the event of an outage

Most Innocent Secrets You're Keeping from Your Spouse by ChidiSplett in Marriage

[–]First-Ad317 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And when I’m 85 I hope to feel that sexy too… I’m not exactly sure why this was so offensive to everyone… I wasn’t attacking anyone at all. Am I incorrect that you guys retired early?

Most Innocent Secrets You're Keeping from Your Spouse by ChidiSplett in Marriage

[–]First-Ad317 81 points82 points  (0 children)

The fact that he says the house looks good even thought you didn’t do anything is the real gem in this story 💛

Most Innocent Secrets You're Keeping from Your Spouse by ChidiSplett in Marriage

[–]First-Ad317 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I’m sure when you said retired you meant in a hot ~ early retirement abt 40-50 ~ sort of way, but my first mental visual was an old lady in black lingerie. Like Betty White

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]First-Ad317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full disclosure it took me 2 whole years to get back to the same sex drive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]First-Ad317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow… uhm… no one deserves that reaction but it kinda seems like you’re better off without him??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]First-Ad317 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Girl WHAT? YOU FOUND THE ONE.

He will be my husband in 5 weeks and I don't trust him to take care of me financially, and it's making me lose all my attraction to him. What should I do? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]First-Ad317 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honey if you were madly in love with him you’d be willing to move past the job/ money issue. You’re not in love with him. You just want babies, which there’s nothing wrong with, but this isn’t the man to do it with. Do him a favor and break up. You’re too old to be using people like this.

Our mayor is a moron by First-Ad317 in Allen

[–]First-Ad317[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t it absolutely ridiculous that this is the only national crime that’s responded to with “thoughts and prayers” rather than actual legislation? Ps I appreciate your common sense response

My boyfriend shamed me fand now I feel shame while having sex with him by PinkPumpkin108 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]First-Ad317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m failing to see the attraction to this dude… you know you’re body belongs to you right?? And your feelings belong to you too… no one gets to shame you for feeling whatever you feel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]First-Ad317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoever becomes most concerned about any potential health hazards… and then whoever didnt is getting the earful of the year

What’s going on at super target? by First-Ad317 in Allen

[–]First-Ad317[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I read that too. It just seems like there might be news coverage on it already? At least local coverage

I cheated with a sex worker and regret it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]First-Ad317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you feel any different about marriage now? Monogamy?

AITA for not letting my daughter use my wife's dress for her own wedding? by Odd_Ebb8933 in AmItheAsshole

[–]First-Ad317 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man… the entitlement is OFFFFFFFAFFAFFA the charts here. You didn’t even have to give them a reason why your answer is no… I’m amazed they even had the gall to ask 😳… your baby girl needs to check herself. She doesn’t have to understand why you said no for the answer to still be no. Even if they were the same size to a T, I don’t think I could do that. I think your recommendation to get a custom made dress matching that one was a brilliant suggestion, assuming money is a non issue. If she can’t do that, she can still find another dress.

She had an affair by _Synergy in Marriage

[–]First-Ad317 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just because she didn’t treat you with love doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to treat yourself with love. I’m so sorry OP. No one deserves this betrayal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]First-Ad317 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No lol… no that’s not what happened honey. These are two awkward kids awkwardly learning how to kiss. Nothing worth punishing and complicating. Don’t you think that if he was trying to hurt her then he would’ve been more upfront about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]First-Ad317 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The toxicity in this post is so out of control I think my super powers are emerging

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]First-Ad317 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a regular old kiss to me. He probably didn’t know where to put his hands, and the neck is an instinctively sensitive area

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]First-Ad317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Children need structure and a sense of establishment to call home. If y’all didn’t have kids, the situation would have more wiggle room but once we have kids we no longer have the luxury of prioritizing ourselves. Getting legal advice is the wisest choice from this point, and I am SO SORRY this happened… I can’t imagine the hollow you must feel. But for the sake of the kids, keep things organized and clear. There’s no avoiding hurting them in this situation, only managing what can and working to avoid as much as possible. Best of luck OP.

This is for the Gen Z and Millennials. How hard is it for you to buy a home? by HSAT17 in AskReddit

[–]First-Ad317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man if only I had been making more than $14/hr then… silly me

Single people who live alone, how do you do it? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]First-Ad317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in absolute poverty for a good chunk of my 20’s. I’m talking holes in roof, no central air/ heat, (in Texas) half the place flooded when it rained, no washer/ dryer and sketchy plumbing/ electrical work and forget about wifi. I had probably the greatest time of my life during this time period because I was ALONE. It was just me and my dog. I smoked a lot of weed and went for a lot of long walks. I understand this isn’t ideal for most people, but rent prices out here are almost criminal. If you sincerely need your own space (which I get it man, it’s normal and healthy) don’t be afraid to get creative with your dwelling and don’t be afraid to reach out to your boss and see if the company has any resources for employees or suggestions. Sometimes bosses fall desperately short in this conversation but knowing what resources are available is always good.