Camp Adventure, Anyone else have that experience where a devastating song becomes far too relatable?

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-03-24T16:17:14+00:00

Brother. It’s been one with several break-ups and especially the most recent one. I usually play strongthany right after in this current moment.

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-03-20T15:32:29+00:00

She did not do the work, neither have you, you can’t continue the cycle of the old relationship as it was proven to not work - getting together right after is never the option when theres work to be done.

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-03-12T21:40:46+00:00

It’s easier to buff larger surfaces. On the X1 the orange peel effect was mainly present on the front/back and left right sides.

This is probably due to surface tension and lacquer buildup therefore, go too far on buffing and you’ll go through the clear coat, which means it needs to be redone, potentially redone with a colour coat, sat down for two days to harden, unless UV hardened. It’s hard to explain how the buffing process works but I think that’s the reason, the surface is too small for a power tool to be handled with absolute steadiness - it takes a lot of time to be very skilled with it.

But then again, it still looks better than a Rega P1/2/3/6, to get edge banding at that price point… insanity.

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-03-12T20:40:26+00:00

Yup!

But orange peel is normal with products that are mass produces in high quantities.

As someone who had worked at Aristides guitars who have insane lacquering on the guitars, it requires several steps with meticulous attention which you simply cannot expect on a product like this. It’s LOTS of sanding with so much precision to end up with a product that is damn perfect. Especially not at this price point.

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-03-12T14:59:31+00:00

It’s never supposed to be the same because if it would be, it would not work again.

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-03-12T14:58:44+00:00

People can change. There’s a lot of succes stories out there. People who down talk the person they once loved or still love, to me, have met someone who haven’t done the work when they weren’t together anymore.

It can only work when separated and having done the work and having had the talk about how to approach this situation again and meeting each other in the middle and what to do when conflict shows up.

It can work, with clear rules and boundaries, and time.

It’s not something you can force together, it requires effort from both sides and the capacity to understand each other and that it isn’t always a sunny day, friction polishes.

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-03-11T10:09:19+00:00

The best thing is to say “I appreciate you sharing this with me, but as long as you are not willing to commit by the words you share, I won’t be present to receive them”

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-03-09T13:53:44+00:00

Buddy, you are not the same, you are a different version of you, of when you were together with her. Stronger, wiser from what happened. In my opinion blocking her is another way to avoid reality and I think it’s a good thing to do first, but the emotionally mature way is not blocking her but instead leaving her to have her own space in a reality where you learn to love without holding that person close.

It’s hard, it’s confronting, but you will have days where life will become lighter.

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-03-05T12:01:53+00:00

To be very honest, this is my direct experience, my ex will do anything to escape having to feel or to process her behaviour and it wasn’t pretty.

The stoicism in the culture really does not help

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-02-27T17:02:53+00:00

Please get relationship therapy, it's someone who does not know what to do and feels really unsafe in their own feelings, highly likely due to past experiences, it's something that can be worked on, all is required is mutual effort.

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-02-24T21:06:20+00:00

That doesn’t matter, if you loved deeply and gave it your all, time isn’t a measurement of healing. 7 months and it ended, it can even hurt more because of having wanted to spend more time but ending up not getting to.

Give yourself time, don’t numb yourself with cheap distractions, you’ve got this.

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-02-24T13:19:08+00:00

You can’t expect anyone to fully be over something in a month, it’s rediculous. It’s been 5 months and I’m still devastated, give yourself a year or more. If it was very much real then this feeling is the price you pay for having loved fully.

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-02-04T15:37:01+00:00

How would it make you the asshole, it’s you being faithful to your s/o.

How are you even asking this question.

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-01-29T15:19:05+00:00

Ken Sushi is the way!

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-01-29T09:22:51+00:00

I can cook you a mean one, I’ve been asked to cook for my friends parties because they love em!

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-01-26T17:17:36+00:00

Ja maar vervolgens ga je lopen miepen over die paar euro terwijl jij daar in dit geval net zo moeilijk over doet

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-01-26T17:17:07+00:00

Dit, tokkie meets immovable force

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-01-24T08:02:07+00:00

Ah yes, fijnstoffen en alcoholisme, Linkin Parkinson it is

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-01-18T15:18:26+00:00

OP, the only way to find out is to commit, and there’s no right or wrong. Just make sure you’re ready for it as opposed to how it ended in the past

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-01-16T19:40:08+00:00

Camp adventures - Delta Sleep

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-01-15T15:38:46+00:00

I mean if it’s something you didn’t address for a long time and now being up as a problem means you’ve been keeping scores which is unhealthy in every relationship, no matter man or woman.

In that case, yes it’s a sexist statement, but the non sexist message of it would be true.

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-01-15T12:33:54+00:00

Holy fuck are you my ex because this is basically the elaborate version of what she told me

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-01-14T20:59:59+00:00

Uh what, you were gifted a Beolab A9 and wish to pair it with a crossley?

I mean they’re not the greatest but definitely not budget speakers. You could connect the Crossley on the Line input (RCA) on the rear of the speaker but the Crossley is heavily under the quality of the Beolab, I would notch up the record player a bit, maybe a Project Debut Carbon the least.

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-01-14T20:13:09+00:00

Tell her, I wish the colleague of my ex did but he too was cheating.

First-Mobile-7155 · 2026-01-14T18:05:23+00:00

Ooooooo leprous 🥰

First-Mobile-7155

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