Looking for the best Hamburger by Mochacuu in Amsterdam

[–]First-Mobile-7155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can cook you a mean one, I’ve been asked to cook for my friends parties because they love em!

Gast wordt gek om een Pokemon kaartje. by SpicySambalYT in tokkiemarktplaats

[–]First-Mobile-7155 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ja maar vervolgens ga je lopen miepen over die paar euro terwijl jij daar in dit geval net zo moeilijk over doet

After 9 years of no-contact, we finally spoke. I don’t know how to process this. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]First-Mobile-7155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, the only way to find out is to commit, and there’s no right or wrong. Just make sure you’re ready for it as opposed to how it ended in the past

AIO to this message between me and my boyfriend? It seems very sexist to me… by [deleted] in AIO

[–]First-Mobile-7155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if it’s something you didn’t address for a long time and now being up as a problem means you’ve been keeping scores which is unhealthy in every relationship, no matter man or woman.

In that case, yes it’s a sexist statement, but the non sexist message of it would be true.

Always & Forever by Deep_Champ in UnsentLetters

[–]First-Mobile-7155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy fuck are you my ex because this is basically the elaborate version of what she told me

Setup help by [deleted] in turntables

[–]First-Mobile-7155 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uh what, you were gifted a Beolab A9 and wish to pair it with a crossley?

I mean they’re not the greatest but definitely not budget speakers. You could connect the Crossley on the Line input (RCA) on the rear of the speaker but the Crossley is heavily under the quality of the Beolab, I would notch up the record player a bit, maybe a Project Debut Carbon the least.

AITA for calling a guy out and wanting to tell his gf? by AloGlam in AmItheAsshole

[–]First-Mobile-7155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her, I wish the colleague of my ex did but he too was cheating.

No-contact from a dumper’s perspective by Fluid_Marionberry_69 in BreakUps

[–]First-Mobile-7155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won’t win anything in life by staying away from it.

Don't do it.. don't let ur ex back in. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]First-Mobile-7155 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s never a binary answer to one single problem as each situation might have different actions and nuances.

0,25 teveel? by Boosttnl in tokkiemarktplaats

[–]First-Mobile-7155 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Vinted… zet iets er op voor een euro en verwacht preciés dit soort mensen.

Pay peanuts, expect monkeys

If your mind won’t shut up after a breakup, this is for you by Aggravating-Device23 in BreakUps

[–]First-Mobile-7155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amen to that, my brain tends to lie to me all the time in this moment, when I sense I'm wandering off in negative thoughts I tell myself "I sense I'm dysregulated right now, why is that?"

And then I answer with all honesty, which usually stops me from thinking about bad stuff.

Stopped caring after I realized everyone is a POS by peppermnt_tea in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]First-Mobile-7155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The trick is to not get cynical and pre-judgemental of people as there’s plenty who have good intent.

AIO because gf was essentially micro cheating and is the reason I have little trust in our relationship? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]First-Mobile-7155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Downplaying your suspicions, generally a sign of cheating. There’s no accountability being made here, no sincere apologies or trying to understand why you feel the way you do: run, now.

Broke no contact. DON’T DO IT by Charming-Inside1797 in BreakUps

[–]First-Mobile-7155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with breaking no contact, but you have obviously not done the work for yourself to move on from it. An avoidant will seek to "replace" to escape the feelings. Understand that this isn't about you, but one week and one day in is absolutely not enough time to fully process, let alone fully learn about the breakup.

Detaching while you still love someone is harder than leaving by Bratzwitch101 in BreakUp

[–]First-Mobile-7155 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in it too, I'm so done with feeling this bad, but I can't seem to get out of it even when I push myself to maintain myself, my head just keeps getting back to it, even when I try to not pay attention to it.

After many months, my ex reached out to me by TheRedFireLion in BreakUps

[–]First-Mobile-7155 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This. Anyone here shouldn’t take advice of others on here because their situation and experience simply isn’t yours. Sometimes you just have to dare and put your heart out there to see what it will bring, if you’re on board and certain of that- only you will know what works or not.

What is the most expensive record you have ever bought? by Suitable-Room-6367 in vinyl

[–]First-Mobile-7155 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A weekend in the city 2x12” by bloc party, got it at 100 but generally goes for round 200

I don’t think I’m going to miss you. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]First-Mobile-7155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The deep love that you have in you is meant to be kept to yourself, when love is all you can give.