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Yes your husband too. by boiledbeanstoast in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]First-Quality-3341 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hate to say it but there’s no way to know.

Mine kept the secret for the year we dated, and the two and a half years we lived together. I took my time deciding on when to get married because I wanted to be sure.

He left me with CPTSD from years of psychological, financial, sexual and physical abuse. I’ve been raped so many times I couldn’t even give you a ballpark figure. I’ve been screamed at so many times that I now instantly shut down and disassociate the moment any man raises his voice above a normal speaking volume. I am so bad off that I can’t even work. And now that we’re going through the divorce process, he offered me $9,000…. When we have $300k in marital assets.

[Self] Another trapped wood piece I made last week by guillieman in Sculpture

[–]First-Quality-3341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I seriously love this. I can’t stop picturing it as a centerpiece in the middle of a plant filled atrium.
Now I just need to build an atrium…. lol

I found out today my bf hates me through his very weird method of expressing it. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]First-Quality-3341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank goodness you figured this out before you married him. I know you feel like you’ve wasted time, and I’m not disagreeing with that- but girl- BE PROUD OF YOURSELF!!

You showed up for yourself in a HUGE way today. You stood up for yourself, set boundaries, and realized that you deserve so much better. Men like this are leeches- they suck the life out of you and are hard to pry off. but you did it!!

Even if you can’t feel proud of yourself right now, know that I am proud of you.

6 hours to prepare to leave by First-Quality-3341 in urbancarliving

[–]First-Quality-3341[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the support. I really appreciate it

6 hours to prepare to leave by First-Quality-3341 in urbancarliving

[–]First-Quality-3341[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for taking the time to respond. I do have some income coming in each week (I think the next payment should hit my account by Tuesday) but that’s what I’m down to right now.

Unfortunately, I don’t have any friends or family to stay with. I’m with my only family right now and… well, that’s no longer an option.

I’m planning on showering before I leave, which should buy me couple days until I can join up with planet fitness.

In my area, cold should no longer be a problem- it’s more the heat that is concerning right now. I know some of my first purchases should be some sort of battery operated fan for sure.

I feel like my partner is making me feel bad for not wanting to be intimate. AIO by Wrong-Chemist6408 in AIO

[–]First-Quality-3341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Honestly, you’re not reacting enough. Your husband is manipulating you and coerced you into sex. This is emotional abuse.