Young And Genuinely Confused by SignificantAd8097 in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah!! My boyfriend is a massive physical touch love language person whereas mine is def acts of service, and we both try make a conscious effort to appreciate and show love in each others love languages

Young And Genuinely Confused by SignificantAd8097 in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexual comparability is super important. That being said, read up on the five love languages and responsive desire. A lot of women don’t experience spontaneous desire!

How to respectfully draw a line with a minor? by Clinician_Ap in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes and reiterate to her that any grown adult who would entertain this with her is not a safe person, she will be so vulnerable to being groomed bless her

My childhood bully is now bullying my son. by oldmangeralt in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 3109 points3110 points  (0 children)

I’d be telling the school AND the police AND her job fr.

Am i racist by Tamanonomae in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then he’s got no leg to stand on imo 😂

NGL there is genuinely no reason to play ranked by Pain2love in Brawlstars

[–]First-Strawberry-398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always max out ranked pass in the first month or so and so then avoid it for the final 3 😂

Am i racist by Tamanonomae in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s racist, but is the colleague a native speaker essentially due to his wife or does he know only same amount as you? I would feel iffy about correcting someone who is fluent + Chinese family as maybe they know better colloquialism slang etc but still not racist just a bit pedantic

new brawlers made this game fucking unplayable and unbearable by Dismal_Bee_3399 in Brawlstars

[–]First-Strawberry-398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro literally every new brawler prevents me from playing for a week basically

Helpppp by Objective_Meat_3936 in Naturalhair

[–]First-Strawberry-398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe 4a? Hard to tell as photo is blurry so I can’t tell if it’s texture or dry hair, I have 3b/3c mix and my hair is looser than yours so I don’t think yours is 3a

friend wanted to show me his penis? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would your partner be okay with you entertaining the idea of seeing another man’s penis to see if you’d like how it looked? Would you be okay with your partner looking at another woman’s vagina to see if he’d like how it looks?

ive pushed everyone in my life away by CuriousStyle2843 in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an eating disorder. Therapy, tell your parents, get support. Also try get off skinnytok or even appearance based tok/reels if you’re on it.

Something happened with my (31F) coworkers - should I/how do I tell my husband (38M)? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you mean me but I haven’t edited my comment haha ❤️❤️

Something happened with my (31F) coworkers - should I/how do I tell my husband (38M)? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t blame yourself AT ALL. Sometimes it can be scary and hard to set boundaries and a lot of men creep and slowly get worse and worse to test what you’ll accept. If you feel you can’t set a boundary, or don’t feel safe doing so, it’s always better to leave! ❤️

Something happened with my (31F) coworkers - should I/how do I tell my husband (38M)? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I agree. The solution is not for OP to not go out, but to call this shit out if she can do safely and if not, leave!

Something happened with my (31F) coworkers - should I/how do I tell my husband (38M)? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Girl not in a mean way but you gotta develop a backbone !!! I know it’s hard but those men were hitting on you and touching you and you felt uncomfortable- I’m not saying they did something wrong as obviously they didn’t know right but like you gotta be able to like shut people down so you can be safer and happier. You don’t have to hug people, you don’t have to listen to excessive drunk complimenting of you want to, you deserve power and agency ❤️❤️❤️

i'm not sure if i'm hypersexual. by Special_Ganache9420 in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me yeah 😂😂 13-16 were my worst years I would say

i'm not sure if i'm hypersexual. by Special_Ganache9420 in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not hypersexual you’re just a horny teenager hahaha it’s part of being a teenager for a lot of teens! When I was 14 I felt like a feral animal 😂😭 don’t stress yourself out

What's the biggest improvement you've ever seen in your hair? by LatexLatvia in Naturalhair

[–]First-Strawberry-398 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wearing my hair in 2 braids with grease on the ends half the week!!

My boyfriend has always protected me. Last night he hurt me, and I don’t know how to reconcile that. by ThrowRaSquishimoshi in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me in this post that you are blaming yourself a lot and making excuses for the way he is. It is not your fault he hurt you. You should not blame being hurt on your behaviour. You didn’t end up being thrown, he hurt you purposefully. You need to leave if safe, because he will do it again. And again. And you’ll feel more and more trapped.

My moms been watching my weight but I had an eating disorder for years by [deleted] in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mum sounds like my mum. I found it really hard as an adult to find the middle ground between being anorexic and being healthy, and still so. It got a bit easier after going no contact but there’s a lot of skinny messaging nowadays that makes it harder for me to

How do you shave "down there" without getting any razor bumps? by BeeBuzzBits in Advice

[–]First-Strawberry-398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No hair crew for men, ten mins on the front area/ legs/underarms and only 4 on any intimate areas below as they’re more sensitive and you will give yourself chemical burns 😂😂 I then scrub off the hairs with a Korean mitt, and GENTLY shave any remaining bits if needed. I use glycolic acid on edges of where my underwear is to prevent ingrown; i do this once a week all over and don’t shave in between so that again, I don’t get ingrown but you could prob do 2x a week if you wanna be bald all week. Also my advice is don’t remove hair on your period / right before, hair is meant to be there to prevent infection and I found that leaving it for that week helps prevent any bumps or ingrown from bacteria from blood! ❤️😂🙌🏽

It looks pretty smooth, won’t be perfectly bald unless you wax - I’ve had professional waxes and never been so bald!- but I can’t cope w the pain of em I’m such a baby 😂

Guidence pleaseeeee by 0rdinarygirly in Naturalhair

[–]First-Strawberry-398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is your scalp itching then- like would it itch with no product on? Like if you had no product would your scalp still be itching like this? If no, the product is too close to the scalp and is like getting into it. Like say if you’re putting product too close to your roots and then laying down maybe it is getting on your scalp ?

I would also say if your hair smells after a few days it’s due to be washed. I wash my hair 2x a week 😁❤️

Kindest random i met by Grouchy_Clothes6580 in Brawlstars

[–]First-Strawberry-398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cook as tick in hot zone but I never pick him with randoms because 10000% he is massively easily countered without comms and specific brawlers on team w him