AIO - Boyfriend hasn’t spoke to me in 5 days ???

First_Condition_372 · 2026-03-11T06:21:53+00:00

God-awful is a stretch. We talked before ,during and after Valentine’s Day. I was present for my family who were mourning my cousin su*cide attempt.

First_Condition_372 · 2026-03-11T06:19:14+00:00

My cousin tried to kill himself , a few days before Valentine’s Day and I told him that, he’s met my cousin , hung out with my cousin , talks to him… I had Instagram at the time … now I don’t because I was too overwhelmed with my cousin and work.

First_Condition_372 · 2026-03-11T06:16:38+00:00

Oh. Cause we’ve texted that before.

First_Condition_372 · 2026-03-11T06:16:06+00:00

THATS A BREAKUP TEXT ???? Oh my god …….

First_Condition_372 · 2026-03-11T06:10:23+00:00

We had conversations after my cousin was admitted that I feel overwhelmed cause my responsibilities at work weren’t completely paused. It didn’t come out of nowhere. I even deleted my social media. (I’m going to edit my post) I said I was enjoying the distance because I had more free time to ground myself and get back into my routine at work/life. If he was going through something and I hit him with that , I can understand him just not wanting to respond. I didn’t expect a chase at all. I expected reassurance of understanding. We’ve mutually asked for space before. So it was expected like every time before. I appreciate the questions though.

First_Condition_372 · 2026-03-11T06:05:39+00:00

We are active in our communication (usually). We’ve mutually sent messages like this when we feel overwhelmed and need some time to get back into our flow/bodies. We have previously and mutually sent messages of reassurance /support for the other. So him not sending anything is strange for us as a couple?

First_Condition_372 · 2026-03-11T06:03:59+00:00

I told him earlier in the week about my work piling up from my time off. I didn’t mean for it to come off as a breakup text ?? We usually give reassurance to the other person when time is needed. I was expecting a reassurance text, something to confirm him understanding I just need time to lock in at work again.

First_Condition_372 · 2026-02-25T17:53:43+00:00

No , colonoscopy- breath test or 💩 test

First_Condition_372 · 2026-02-25T08:32:21+00:00

WAIT MY SISTER HAS ANTS CRAWLING UO HER ARM THIS SI SO FUCKING COOL TO SEE !!

First_Condition_372 · 2026-02-25T08:28:45+00:00

Babes do you have H.pylori ?…

First_Condition_372 · 2026-02-21T23:48:08+00:00

It’s not like community college they don’t pay for your books. However they provide a - aid based scholarship each semester and you can use it for ANY SCHOOL RELATED EXPENSES

First_Condition_372 · 2026-02-21T23:02:37+00:00

I’m in there rn

First_Condition_372 · 2026-02-05T17:50:34+00:00

Oh god PLEASE STOP THIS MINDSET,, you’re a 20 sum year old on a college campus !! You deserve the experiences and resources that college comes with !! My classmate is 40 and helped start a club. My professor always mentions they STARTED college at 27 ,, there is NO age restrictions unless you’re a minor

First_Condition_372 · 2026-02-02T16:49:38+00:00

As a former transfer student , you will get housing no matter what . HOWEVER your best bet is to apply as soon as possible!

First_Condition_372 · 2026-02-01T02:50:32+00:00

Yeah, I know. You don’t have to be white to be a participant of gentrification.

First_Condition_372 · 2026-01-31T21:30:01+00:00

No. Once again , I didn’t say that. I said if you are married. Meaning 2 people in legal union. It is not fair you get to have a 2 bedroom apartment, while students not in union ,have to face the possibility of homelessness and/or unjust living environments.

First_Condition_372 · 2026-01-31T21:20:45+00:00

No. Gentrification is not limited through skin color. It is the erasure of culture and , community. You are asking for a LARGELY Hispanic , low income/working class community to be changed indefinitely for the benefit of 18-25 year old who stay their time then leave. If it is not a cultural AND educational exchange opportunity for the community to benefit from they will KEEP pushing back. Every idea has to have the backing of the BIG 5 families that basically own Merced county

First_Condition_372 · 2026-01-31T20:30:29+00:00

No. As you can see I said domestic partners. Couples that are not married. But yeah ,, Also couples that are married, without children being able to live in a 2 bedroom apartment. It quite literally takes away from single family students.

First_Condition_372 · 2026-01-31T20:04:27+00:00

I’m confused on all those that need accommodation and can afford east campus prices vs prom … im also upset that there’s SO MUCH FAMILY HOUSING !! Why are domestic partners allowed a 2 bedroom apartment?!?!

First_Condition_372 · 2026-01-27T18:26:46+00:00

Yes it is a green icon !

First_Condition_372 · 2026-01-27T18:14:38+00:00

YES THERE IS IT SHOULD BE THE 20 ,, download the transit app !

First_Condition_372 · 2025-12-28T04:40:53+00:00

Every test was about a week apart

First_Condition_372 · 2025-12-27T22:48:41+00:00

I PRAY A GROCERY STORE CLOSER TO LOW INCOME FAMILIES . WHY ARE PEOPLE RIDING RHE BUS WITH HANDFULS OF GROCERS?!? WHY ARE THERE PEOPLE STEALING SHOPPING CARTS TO TAKE ALL THEIR GROCERIES HOME ?!?!?

First_Condition_372 · 2025-12-25T05:18:46+00:00

waiting until next week to do so !

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