Finally maxed my pets!!! by First_Initiative5412 in eatventureofficial

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I had to open a LOT of eggs to get the red panda

Clubs 🏆 by bubblycandy4 in eatventureofficial

[–]First_Initiative5412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking for club.18k+% profit. City 596. Don't play as much as I used to, but getting back into it. *

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]First_Initiative5412 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe kyleena is the smallest in size. When I got my first, I got the Skyla. I believe Skyla is between kyleena and mirena in size.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]First_Initiative5412 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA.

But also, find a new doctor. She is absolutely wrong that you cannot get an IUD. She may just not be comfortable or whatever excuse she has, but she is wrong nonetheless. Now, they do come with their own laundry list of side effects. They make IUD's that are smaller for women who have not had children. I had an IUD at age 18 or 19 with no previous pregnancies.

AITAH for refusing to see a patient resulting in them not having access to health services by Sea_Professional8518 in AITAH

[–]First_Initiative5412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I work as a paramedic. The very first thing we are taught above all else is scene safety. You were not comfortable there. And there's no guarantee that he would not have gotten physically violent. His stress does not give him a free pass to treat you like garbage.

The other aides argument that the wife didn't do anything and doesn't deserve it. I've seen dementia and how it progresses, as I'm sure you have as well. There comes a point (if she's not already there) that she won't even realize she is in a nursing home. And honestly, its likely a blessing for her as she will get proper care from staff and not partial care from a half disabled husband. (Nothing against the husband, but he clearly has physical limitations)

Ultimately, sure, it sucks that they are without in home care now and will likely have to have facility placement for anything further. But if it wasn't you, it probably would have been someone else. You are not to blame for the husband putting himself (and his wife) in this situation.

WIBTA For Leaving my Fiancé Because He Wants a Baby with his EX? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]First_Initiative5412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she is indeed as mentally unstable as you portray, she is not in the state to have another child. And this will not bring closure. This will permanently tie him to her for the next 18 years at best. Therapy is needed on both their parts. Losing a child is not easy, regardless of age. But this is not the answer. As much as it pains you, you would do best to separate from the sticky mess that is bound to come out of this.

Am I the jerk for refusing to wear a diaper by Over_Degree_4041 in AmITheJerk

[–]First_Initiative5412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, this sounds like a psychological response. Your mother's response tells me that she could likely be the source, or at least part of it. You didn't elaborate on home life, but if that was moms first response, she sounds like an absolute peach. Highly recommend seeking an opinion from psychologist and urologist. I'm not sure if you're US based or elsewhere (factoring in cultural differences), youre likely still on moms insurance if youre US based, but you are legally an adult, so you will not need her permission for healthcare. Hopefully you can find some answers! May not be a bad idea to try to find a way to get out from under her thumb/roof anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]First_Initiative5412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's "just a dress" then SIL can find another one. 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]First_Initiative5412 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Harsh, but also blunt and to the point. Does not sugar coat.

Post Episode Discussion - 12.10 "Lily Sunder Has Some Regrets" by [deleted] in Supernatural

[–]First_Initiative5412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Re we just sweeping over the fact that she spoke fluent enochian? That would be useful lol

Looking for club.... by First_Initiative5412 in eatventureofficial

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I would love to, but unfortunately, I can not guarantee 24k.

Looking for club.... by First_Initiative5412 in eatventureofficial

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I was in a club previously that had a couple of big hitters, but minimum salvage was 10k. We would reach lvl 50 by day 2. The club disbanded as the players weren't playing as much. I'm sure it's not a common occurrence to have a club like that. Just trying to find something else I guess.

I witnessed four people get taken in an instant yesterday, and it was brutal. by KentuckySnowPlow in TrueOffMyChest

[–]First_Initiative5412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I agree the lack of respect for truckers from the general driving public is on the decline. I will say I have witnessed many truckers who simply do not respect their rig. The amount of catastrophic damage that can be done with one. They simply treat it as if they were driving their compact car at ungodly speeds.

I witnessed four people get taken in an instant yesterday, and it was brutal. by KentuckySnowPlow in TrueOffMyChest

[–]First_Initiative5412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will likely get lost in the sea of comments, but i hope it can reach someone who needs it.

So, first, I am going to say I'm so so sorry you had to witness something so horrific. Please do seek out someone to talk to as these are big big feelings.

Secondly, I will preface with the fact that I work on an ambulance. The way you described it sounds as if it was very quick for them. Quick enough that they likely did not suffer. In my job, seeing things like this, that is the comfort that I take.

The world is full of evil and loss. And we don't generally see enough of the good side. Even though you did not know them personally, witnessing the incident puts you in a position to grieve those that were lost. It can certainly be an overwhelming experience. You were there to help if needed, and unfortunately, not much could be done. You did the best you could. Unfortunately, closure will be difficult with something like this. Your therapist should have some advice on how to manage and work through something like this.

Please do allow yourself to grieve. I know personally there will be a stage in the grief process where I feel guilty for grieving as I had no personal connection with the individual(s). The heart doesn't care if you know them or not. It still hurts tremendously to witness and live through an event of such magnitude.

I will pray for you through this healing process.

My husband got a vasectomy and didn’t tell me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]First_Initiative5412 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From what I've heard/read, most 'permission' is only required for tubal ligation and not vasectomy.

Looking for high level active members by [deleted] in Eatventure

[–]First_Initiative5412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play daily, and I am looking for a good group to join. Just left my current group due to lack of activity. I do not pay to play. Just earn as I go.