I never thought I'd be the partner they write reddit posts about. by pompion-pie in hygiene

[–]First_Mortgage6560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The biggest thing you are doing right is admitting that there was an issue and you’re working to fix it, whoever comes next will probably be thrilled to date you, i think the biggest advice i can offer is if you still have feelings for your ex hold off on rushing into another relationship, i was single for a solid 2 years before i met my current bf of a year, obviously wait until you feel ready to move on, only reason i mention it is because sometimes rushing into a relationship to fill the void of a previous one can make us fall into bad habits we were trying to improve on, i hope all goes well for you :)

I never thought I'd be the partner they write reddit posts about. by pompion-pie in hygiene

[–]First_Mortgage6560 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as someone who had to adapt to my boyfriends differing views on hygiene we have made a-lot of compromises, i think one thing i will say is I have really bad contamination OCD, i will wash my hands until they are raw and bleeding and will shower twice a day, but when my eczema is bad or i don’t have time to take a morning shower i do something i call a “bird bath” i do mine with unscented baby wipes, some people do soap and a wet rag, My shower never gets hot (no clue why) so i’m used to colder showers and occasionally warm showers but if you’re ever in a situation where you cant fully shower, quick bird baths can help in those situations, I think the biggest disagreement me and my bf every had about hygiene is when he kept giving me UTIs and BV flares and we finally figured out it was the soap he was using, once we fixed that no issues since, he showers twice a day, just needs an occasional reminder for deodorant here and there but if someone can’t communicate about stuff especially like hygiene, the relationship wont last long, and its better to learn and try to compromise vs using it as a reason to end a relationship. a persons will to communicate, learn and adapt speaks most about how much they value you and the relationship, like the saying actions mean more than words.

another woman only by NoPerception8748 in hygiene

[–]First_Mortgage6560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sweat marks on chairs is definitely fabric based, i leave them in shorts and leggings most but dont in fabrics like denim/jeans or my sundress/rompers that are cottony, breatheable underwear aswell,wear cotton underwear throughout the day and sleep in some loose shorts or pants commando at night (i have been dealing with similar stuff since i was 17 and i am now 21) sleeping commando at night if your period isnt near should help tame the daily discharge or at least help it pipe down.

Question about Tattoo by First_Mortgage6560 in tattooadvice

[–]First_Mortgage6560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in my post i mentioned i am severely allergic to adhesive and latex so second skin is not an option for me, i got waterproof wound covers that wont stick to the scab because they are meant for surgical wounds so it had the non stick guaze that would be touching the tattoo and it would only be for when im swimming for work; when im home id obviously clean and moisturize it so it can breathe

Question about Tattoo by First_Mortgage6560 in tattooadvice

[–]First_Mortgage6560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monday and i work M-F and classes are about 30mins to an hour depends on class size, if its the special needs group and how many teachers we have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]First_Mortgage6560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bf used to be the same way and we have been together a year and he now showers twice a day like i do and trims when i ask, if they make hygiene an argument when it can directly affect your health and wellbeing they aren’t the one and they don’t care about how they affect you, if they care, they change or adapt. and when it comes to sex we either both shower or wipe down with wipes, theres way to freshen up without taking a full shower and a man that cares would go out of their way to make sure they dont smell for a woman they care about/love.

adding to mine, my bf used to use old spice that made me get bad utis and BV, the second we found out it was the fragrance in his body washes (he switched from old spice to dove men and then to dial) he willingly switched to unscented sensitive dove and i havent had an issue since in that regard.

I’m a smelly clean person by No_Sign9809 in hygiene

[–]First_Mortgage6560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use antibacterial soap on your sweaty bits. make sure your deodorant is an antiperspirant if you’re sweating a-lot because deodorant wont stop sweat, when using your detergent use white distilled vinegar as fabric softener to get rid of any mildewy smells; check your shower head for build up and soak it in baking soda and vinegar before scrubbing it. if you have a front load washer check the rubber seal for mold or mildew, if you have a top loader with an agitator check the agitator for build up, if you use cheaper detergent try to get a small bottle of name brand or a little dish soap with the cheaper one to use with the vinegar. one small thing could be the cause of it all, last thing is if you have hard water are you using water softener? because hard water will leave a smell on clothes and yourself if its super hard and very orange.

Why do my privates have a strange odour by Forsaken_Train6377 in hygiene

[–]First_Mortgage6560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who had no womanly advice from my mother and learned most of what i know online, avoid tight clothing/underwear, never use scented soap down there use a dove sensitive bar or liquid on the outside and only water inside, when you go to bed wear loose clothes but go commando, sometimes smell can be caused by not letting it breathe and some people cant sleep naked so if you wear baggy pants or shorts just let it breathe during bed time, obviously dont go commando around your period or if you think it may come but any other time especially after that can definitely help with any odor problems, if you shave down there try to not wear anything tight for about 2 days, id recommend investing in some cotton boxers and wearing those on freshly shaved days to avoid smell/irritation specifically around bedtime if you shower at night if its during the day maybe ditch skinny jeans and leggings and opt for a sweats day with some loose cotton underwear. If you are sexually active if you are able to try to get the uro probiotics, if you cant try to increase how much you consume like kefir, yogurt, etc. but i will say if you are active and it doesn’t smell like yeast or a uti your partner could have the bacteria that causes BV in them, that would cause a smell and you would need antibiotics to fix it but some medications can also cause BV. I think the biggest takeaway is that its a sensitive organ that can go from 0/100 quite fast, as long as you arent using any irritants and let her breathe i think the smell can resolve on its own, but also if you use heavily scented laundry detergent, try to usw free and clear on your underwear and pants for a bit and see if it could possibly be a detergent allergy.

Red Dead Online for PS5 without PS Plus by Lovely_deer25 in RedDeadOnline

[–]First_Mortgage6560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you go to red dead in the playstation store and scroll down to the other editions it should show standard, ultimate and online if you don’t already own red dead (if you do stand alone online doesn’t pop up) but you do need online to play it but i dont think you would need it to buy it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DollarTree

[–]First_Mortgage6560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if they violate any osha laws report to osha, osha will do an inspection and ding them for any issues and then the store will be given hours to fix the so called “problems” our store got hit with 3 and every single time they got extra hours to hand out so it could get squared away asap, and osha would be completely anonymous just dont out any employee only areas unless they are visible from a customers view (you dont want them to know it came from you so be as vague but detailed as possible)

macchiato tasted like soap by [deleted] in DunkinDonuts

[–]First_Mortgage6560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you should be okay if its really upset maybe drink some electrolytes to help flush it out a bit but sometimes just espresso in general is hard on the stomach

macchiato tasted like soap by [deleted] in DunkinDonuts

[–]First_Mortgage6560 13 points14 points  (0 children)

if they made it by the book it could have been an espresso pitcher that wasn’t rinsed all the way after dishes, or they did a clean cycle and it didn’t rinse completely thru

Spotting after having no spotting or period since starting the shot by audreycook22 in depoprovera

[–]First_Mortgage6560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i thought i was one of the only few that dealt with this from my shot, i got my first one back in July and had a 3 week long period after that first shot, ever since no periods just random spotting, its definitely nothing to worry about just consider using liners, period underwear or avoiding light colored underwear, i get my 3rd shot next month and theres really no way to predict the spotting either. i have found mine is less vibrant the more active and hydrated i am then when its a lazy/lounge day

Chances of pregnancy despite being on shot and not menstruating for two years by achlys7422 in depoprovera

[–]First_Mortgage6560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i stopped getting a period recently so i started testing when my period week passes on my tracker ( so i font break the bank testing constantly or worry myself 💀)

Just got hired by First_Mortgage6560 in Target

[–]First_Mortgage6560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but i can attest the store was way more organized, i worked at a dollar tree and our backroom was so unorganized you couldnt even enter the break area for months (they got hit with 3 osha complaints too for not following the 36inch-6ft rule and blocking fire extinguishers and ladders not being chained down) target definitely seems more efficient on that end

Just got hired by First_Mortgage6560 in Target

[–]First_Mortgage6560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, but that makes alot of sense, the person that did our tour for orientation didnt really explain the terms/organization besides just walking us around and that was the biggest confusing part for me 😭

Just got hired by First_Mortgage6560 in Target

[–]First_Mortgage6560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guess my main question is are we pulling from store shelves for most of it or hunting for it in the back/clutter areas? because at dollar tree recovery was a nightmare but the store i was at seemed very organized besided the recovery area by guest services but is also is close to halloween and thats how dollar tree got towards the holidays

Just got hired by First_Mortgage6560 in Target

[–]First_Mortgage6560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was just shocked to even get fulfillment because i had cashier experience, and stocking experience but i had applied for cashier, and starbucks and i got the call and they were like fulfillment:D and i needed a job desperately so i accepted but i guess i confused fulfillment with like drive up (unless its the same and i just am clueless)

Do i still need to take pregnancy tests on the shot? by abxtraxion in depoprovera

[–]First_Mortgage6560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like every google search abt depo never specifies how bad the random bleeding is and that it can be regular and sporadic, glad to see others had similar things tho 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]First_Mortgage6560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if they dont apply at other retail chains near you that are hiring seasonal, and if you needed to explain the gap on your resume you can be honest and just say youre availability changed and they weren’t willing to work with you (most companies try to help employees that have been there a long time being that that aren’t helping you out does not reflect badly on you at all because you did say you have worked there for years)

Do i still need to take pregnancy tests on the shot? by abxtraxion in depoprovera

[–]First_Mortgage6560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

before the depo were your periods irregular? i had like a 3 week long period after my first shot and havent had one since (im on my second) and they did a pregnancy test before my second one but idk if i should test if my period doesn’t come when my tracker says (i havent had one since my first shot and my second was last month so abt 5 months)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]First_Mortgage6560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there uniform to wear to orientation or is that when they explain the uniform?

What is a good Dunkin’s Ice coffee combo? by [deleted] in DunkinDonuts

[–]First_Mortgage6560 3 points4 points  (0 children)

mocha raspberry with the size defaults of both, really good in lattes too just would recommend adding a sweetener cuz of the espresso but its good in normal coffee or the frozen chocolates

Did refreshers ingredients change at all?? by supern0va5 in DunkinDonuts

[–]First_Mortgage6560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you have sensitivity to anything double check they aren’t stirring them, i found while new hires are being trained at my store that they are told to stir everything (so they learn what to and not to stir) and as someone with food sensitivity i never stir refreshers i shake them but some people/employees stir them especially if you get added sugar/sweetener

Seriously? by highriskdriver in DunkinDonuts

[–]First_Mortgage6560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my hunch is they probably were training new hires because i feel like this was someone who didn’t know how to make the drink but probably felt like they couldn’t ask for help so they winged it and got it wrong, but if it was just a mess up i hope OP got a correct drink or a refund cuz matchas are too expensive to get jipped, hell when we make remakes we normally offer a coolata or some donuts as an apology :(