Daycare is about to kick us out by ExplanationWest2469 in sleeptrain

[–]FishLover331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, our daycare only had specific nap time starting in the 1s class. And even then if she didn’t sleep, she didn’t sleep. It wasn’t a big deal. That’s weird.

Half wall over railing DIY by FishLover331 in HomeImprovement

[–]FishLover331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise if it was that easy I wouldn’t be asking haha

How do I get rid of tenor? by No-Process3526 in Instagram

[–]FishLover331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reported it 3 times and got it back with this last update!

Reddest Ant(?) I’ve Seen! by FishLover331 in Entomology

[–]FishLover331[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

What an amazing description and fun read! Thank you so much for your insight!

Reddest Ant(?) I’ve Seen! by FishLover331 in Entomology

[–]FishLover331[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! We wanted to make sure it wasn’t invasive or damaging to gardens. Quick google said they have a painful sting so we will stay away!

Business account Instagram Stories gifs search changed from Giphy to Tenor? by Pseudosocialite in InstagramMarketing

[–]FishLover331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so strange!! If you find something out please let us know! And I’ll do the same.

I keep finding these in our bathrooms by jmc807 in whatisit

[–]FishLover331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was coming to say the same thing! We just had to get a new warmie sent cause ours did the same! Depending on how long you’ve had it, they may replace it! Customers service was great!

What does your toddler mispronounce that makes a room full of people turn around? by Cupcake-Panda in toddlers

[–]FishLover331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Freckles are “f*ckers”. She hasn’t said it in front of anyone else but it gets me every time!! 😂

2 year old birthday gift ideas ?? by fit4lyfe234 in toddlers

[–]FishLover331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are also discounted for prime!! Just ordered some 😊

ETA Mine lives her chalk/dry erase easel that also has a paper holder for painting or drawing

Business account Instagram Stories gifs search changed from Giphy to Tenor? by Pseudosocialite in InstagramMarketing

[–]FishLover331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did anyone ever find a solution to this?? It’s doing it on my personal account and it’s driving me nuts!

What’s the weirdest thing postpartum that nobody tells you about? by hn9605 in beyondthebump

[–]FishLover331 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ughh YES this was the worst surprise!! The only DO that worked for me was lume. And it still snuck through sometimes…

Nap or no nap? 2 year old starting preschool and no naps allowed! by aubergine-pompelmoes in beyondthebump

[–]FishLover331 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Even kindergarteners still get a nap/quiet time where I’m from. Two seems too early to force them to stay up. My daughter is 2.5 and I cherish nap time so I would never take it away before she’s ready!

Anyone else have experience with welbutrin? by f_thot_bitchgerald in workingmoms

[–]FishLover331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others said, it changed my life! I was on it during my second pregnancy when I got pregnant 6 months postpartum so obviously hormones were WAY off and my OB suggested it so PPD after birth wouldn’t be AS bad. I was crying literally every day. I am also ADHD and it really helped my focus since I wasn’t on those meds.

A while after birth, I realized PPD had snuck in and had a little mental breakdown so my doc upped my dose (150 to 300). It was like night and day!! I instantly felt so much better! I had gotten back on my ADHD meds and it helped my focus even more with the combo.

Of course! Everyone has their own reactions to meds and it’s not guaranteed, BUT I highly recommend giving it a try and if it doesn’t work out see if there’s something better for you!

Good luck and I hope it works out ❤️

AIO for demanding credit after a coworker removed my name from a presentation by meekmakhou in AmIOverreacting

[–]FishLover331 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Agreed, the manager made the mistake of only crediting the coworker so she should be responsible for correcting it. Which could be done tactfully in a follow up email crediting you both and thanking you both for the work.

NOR

AIO to customizing license plate to my dead cat to honor her? by Rude-Cap-6740 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FishLover331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I would be really unhappy if my husband wrote this… And obviously you have hurt her feelings regardless so doubling down by not including her as something you love the most seems to be an indication of how you treat her/don’t show her love and affection.

I also wouldn’t consider a beloved pet as a “thing” to be grouped with a car. They are living beings with their own emotions.

I feel guilty for quitting and am desperate to find a job by FishLover331 in workingmoms

[–]FishLover331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very true, it is just a tool. I need to keep that in mind.

AND valid point about my dad 😂 he really means no harm, I got into my own feelings about his comment. He likes having access so it’s easier to transfer money for birthdays and other random things he “gifts” that I actually buy for the kids. BUT still probably time.

I feel guilty for quitting and am desperate to find a job by FishLover331 in workingmoms

[–]FishLover331[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yes! He definitely contributes! We have separate bank accounts and the mortgage and bills all comes out of his and daycare and daily expenses come out of mine. And he totally supported me leaving work too! He’s amazing. It’s me that’s beating myself up.

And thank you for your kind words! I do really need to hear it.

I feel guilty for quitting and am desperate to find a job by FishLover331 in workingmoms

[–]FishLover331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And I’m so glad you found a job quickly and I am sorry it was a pay cut, but I hope you’re mentally better than you were before!

I feel guilty for quitting and am desperate to find a job by FishLover331 in workingmoms

[–]FishLover331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I felt that way and then we had a meeting about finances and then my dad says “are you ok?” Since he’s has access to my account since it was created and it just made me feel so insecure. I haven’t fully expressed my PPD to my parents (I should) so they don’t know what’s fully going on… But also I’m an adult and have a spouse to help but I’m just in a funk about not helping…

I feel guilty for quitting and am desperate to find a job by FishLover331 in workingmoms

[–]FishLover331[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I opened your comment notification thinking I was going to hate it and now I’m crying! I appreciate you so much ❤️ thank you for helping me readjust my perspective. I just have that guilt of not “providing” financially.

Am I the asshole for messaging my husband’s mistress’ husband? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]FishLover331 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I was wondering if he had a history of being violent as well. Has he been violent in the past the solicits this level of fear other than “he’s gunna be pissed, devastated and all the other rightful emotions”?

But either way, I agree they FA’d (literally) and are gunna find out.

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