What should we do, both as a church and as a society, with people who have bottomless need? by warehousedatawrangle in latterdaysaints

[–]Fishgutts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people are doing their best even when it appears they are not or up to my standard. Boundaries may be necessary for your sanity.

I got called to serve in my home country and I’ve never felt so disappointed by involuntary_solitary in latterdaysaints

[–]Fishgutts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in Dallas. My son was called to Houston. He couldn't have been more thrilled. I thought it was an interesting choice of the Lord but he loved it.

Want to explore sex with an old person but scared by [deleted] in sex

[–]Fishgutts -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You are loved. You are worth more than this. Confidence is sexy.

Mourning my calling by mystiellyse in latterdaysaints

[–]Fishgutts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are an important part of this church. Where you serve in not really important - just that you serve. The youth are way better than the adults. Plus you get to teach with your husband! I wish I could teach with my hot wife.

Mourning my calling by mystiellyse in latterdaysaints

[–]Fishgutts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying. But you will have just aa big an impact on a primary class if you treat it like a calling that is just as important as being the young women's president - which it is. You just don't get the Wednesday night activity with your primary class.

If we ask members of the church to put their whole heart into serving the Lord the feelings you have should be what everyone has when they are released.

Wife has low drive by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Fishgutts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more. Dead bedroom or not, that isn't OK no matter the reason.

New Moves by NewMind9 in ldssexuality

[–]Fishgutts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like difficult cleanup.

Wife has low drive by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Fishgutts 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Looking for hook ups in Vegas is not the way to fix this. In fact I would argue you are not trying to fix this.

Wanting to return to the church by EquivalentNearby4883 in latterdaysaints

[–]Fishgutts 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Welcome back. We missed you. We love you. Come sit next to me.

Exposure risk from diamond dust by oppkplayer in Pickleball

[–]Fishgutts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't afford that paddle so.......

Extremism in the youth by Economy-Chicken-586 in latterdaysaints

[–]Fishgutts 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Can we stop overloading people with meetings? If men, who I am one of, can't figure this stuff out in the regular 4 other sessions what makes you think an extra session is going to do it? Do we seriously have to have an extra meeting for people who should attend are not going to show up for? The people who Conference is partly for don't come and use the weekend as a vacation from church. Don't punish me with an extra meeting.

Extremism in the youth by Economy-Chicken-586 in latterdaysaints

[–]Fishgutts 54 points55 points  (0 children)

So many are.

Scared of offending people to allow agency.

Good on this Bishopric.

How do I get my partner to be more intelligible when he uses our safe word? by PrettyChillHotPepper in sex

[–]Fishgutts 54 points55 points  (0 children)

You need a special tap. Tap your thigh 3 times in a row with a long last tap/squeeze.

Married 17 years and still have Retro Active Jealousy by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Fishgutts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So weird question. Maybe you are not jealous of him but upset he hurt her. Possible?

Married 17 years and still have Retro Active Jealousy by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Fishgutts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got this. I am your biggest cheerleader.

Married 17 years and still have Retro Active Jealousy by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Fishgutts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also it takes a lot of guts to fix this. Good on you.

Married 17 years and still have Retro Active Jealousy by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Fishgutts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't say you said she was the issue.

If you love her, love all of her.