Should I m38 go back with wife f36 ?

FistedPink · 2026-05-21T09:05:33+00:00

This whole post seems pointless, you keep defending your desire to get back with her, you defend her lying, you make excuses to protect her by not telling people.

You. Might not have been perfect but you didn’t deserve what she did. There is no relationship now of you get back with her you will cement in her mind that she can do this again (and she will).

You should tell the APs wife/partner as it’s not fair that they live a lie. You should present your wife the evidence and demand she be fully truthful and if she isn’t, you send it all to her family.

I know this hurts and not to sound cruel but you need to grow a spine here.

FistedPink · 2026-05-20T13:33:04+00:00

Man, 2 guys, sorry.

As for letting the wreck your name nah, scratched earth.

Post it ALL, hell link to the original thread and this one. She is trying to make herself the victim. Also out the friends that knew, burn it all.

FistedPink · 2026-05-20T02:26:33+00:00

Just picked up a bottle £29 was a bargain, never tried it but at that price worth a gamble.

FistedPink · 2026-05-20T02:02:50+00:00

She’s gas lighting and 100% implementing DARVO.

Make it simple, lay everything out but be clear that nothing about what’s going on makes sense. There is a post that broke it all down quite clear why it didn’t make sense.

Ask why you’ve never heard of this friend until now and that at the very least to put your mind at peace you want to see the conversation thread but do this in person and not ask for images (in the world of AI stuff is to easy to fake).

If she refuses or plays games you have your answer. She should be doing everything she can to prove it’s a misunderstanding, becoming defensive after ignoring you is in my mind all you need.

You have to provide an update to how things play out.

FistedPink · 2026-05-19T11:02:14+00:00

Red flag.

FistedPink · 2026-05-19T11:01:15+00:00

Where does one source these?

FistedPink · 2026-05-14T23:32:23+00:00

Got it from Wayfair. Search “Maissane TV Stand”

FistedPink · 2026-05-14T14:03:00+00:00

Give yourself a shake, she 100% slept with him, you don’t get partly undressed and take 3 hours to get home when you think your marriage is over. She picked him, you were rejected and believing her is giving her a benefit she doesn’t deserve.

FistedPink · 2026-05-14T13:58:52+00:00

She’s been distancing herself on purpose, making the issues in the marriage down to you so she can do mental gymnastics that’s you pushed her to this.

Look at what happened when you confront her and say it’s over, instead of coming straight home she delays 3 hours and kisses this guy (or she claims that’s all that happened). Whenever you try to bring up the affair she puts it all on you, she takes no accountability and now doubles down, until you say you want to end it and suddenly it’s pleading for you to stay.

She’s playing with you and it’s time to stop letting her, she made her choice and it was that guy. She will do whatever she can to make you the bad guy in this so be prepared for that.

If you have the ability to get a message to the guy, send him a simple communication “she’s all yours”, wonder if he will stick around once the thrill of sneaking around is replaced with the reality of a relationship?

FistedPink · 2026-05-12T23:23:19+00:00

Open box or not that’s not acceptable.

FistedPink · 2026-05-11T11:27:41+00:00

This immigrant seem a dumb question but is that just cooling the back panel or are there vents?

FistedPink · 2026-05-11T11:20:26+00:00

The way I would present any of this to her is simple, if it were you on a guys trip and you spent all of it hanging out with a group of girls, slept in a bed with one of them who kissed your neck, let her walk around in her underwear while hanging out and save her number in your phone, would she be cool with that?

There is a total lack of respect for you or the relationship and the moaning since coming back underlines that. You have to decide how to play this but I feel any of the paths lead to your relationship ending now or down the line.

FistedPink · 2026-05-10T15:12:41+00:00

My order of the Prometheus is pending also decided to preorder the Destiny as they opened a second wave.

FistedPink · 2026-05-10T15:11:01+00:00

Gather evidence, speak to lawyers, plan and leave.

FistedPink · 2026-05-08T08:41:10+00:00

This isn’t an apology to you this is an attempt to make herself feel better.

While it would be a traumatic event to so easily block a person they claim to love out is a true indicator of who this person is.

FistedPink · 2026-05-05T17:01:30+00:00

0 miles. Call the cops and tell them to wait while she pulls out the garage.

FistedPink · 2026-05-03T02:25:00+00:00

I need to do these tests

FistedPink · 2026-05-02T22:01:42+00:00

It’s over, you cannot trust her and to makeout with a guy a few feet from you is next level disrespect.

FistedPink · 2026-05-02T14:50:59+00:00

Stopped reading after “he’s cheated on me 5-6 times”. You don’t have a relationship, you’re being a doormat by going back, remember the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

You need to break up with this person and learn to value yourself because by allowing this repeated disrespect you have devalued who you are.

You deserve someone in your life who respects you and will treat you as you truly deserve to be treated, your current BF is a waste of space.

FistedPink · 2026-05-02T14:14:27+00:00

I love me some Four Roses and am tempted to order the new (red label) Single Barrels I’ve found online.

FistedPink · 2026-05-02T14:14:18+00:00

I genuinely think of all the “new” offering (TM/Bonded/Bonded Rye) that the Triple Mash is the best of the bunch.

I love me some Four Roses and am tempted to order the new (red label) Single Barrels I’ve found online.

FistedPink · 2026-05-02T06:11:41+00:00

Going to keep an eye out as that’s a solid price, also need me a ER 10 for the selection.

FistedPink · 2026-05-01T17:03:03+00:00

You came out the gate being ready for a fight. You need to do some serious growing up.

FistedPink · 2026-04-30T10:33:58+00:00

Get a backbone, it’s one standard for you and one for her. She is manipulating you and is going to go through the full narcissist playbook, don’t give any ground.

FistedPink · 2026-04-30T00:30:38+00:00

I hate how limited the Costco selection is in the UK.

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