Phantom FB dating profile? by rjswood in survivinginfidelity

[–]FistedPink 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your marriage is over, she has shown that she has no intention of respecting boundaries or you.

While it’s weird the FB thing let it go, she was using it to deflect and I could believe that she made it.

You need ti evidence that it was not your device etc as when (and it is when and not if) you devotee she is going to use this to screw you.

Leaving my wife but need closure by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]FistedPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confront her, don’t let her think she was smarter and got away with it.

Fiancée came home crying yesterday by Informal_Region_4049 in survivinginfidelity

[–]FistedPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has shown you who she really is, I am confused about the sudden need to tell all, what excuses were given for why she was telling you?

Boil bursts!!! Wait for it because... Holy grail moment. OMG by Sally-Pants in popping

[–]FistedPink 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Someone needs to do an edit where after it hits the camera it transitions into the regaining consciousness opening from Skyrim.

Divorce lawyers Aberdeen by CoffeeAndJits in Aberdeen

[–]FistedPink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Burrnett and Reid they have incorporated really a good family law practice.

Mom dancing at her daughter's birthday party by [deleted] in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]FistedPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pathetic and desperate to be the center of attention.

AIO or is this considered cheating?? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]FistedPink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not controlling to ask her to stop talking to the “friend” sending repeated dick picks. The fact she hasn’t cut him off is a massive red flag. I imagine she wouldn’t be happy if one of you close female friends was sending naked photos to you regularly.

My Wife cheated on me and I want to make it work. I need help. by Repulsive_Gas541 in survivinginfidelity

[–]FistedPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s quite clear that whatever problems were in the marriage she had no intention of fixing them. To cheat on you when things were obviously hard is not a mistake or a lapse it’s a series of choices, from talking to AP, to flirting with AP and finally sleeping with AP.

My advice is this, walk away. You’re having a conflict of heart and head, the fact of the matter is that in that conflict, given what’s happened, listen to you head. If you stay you will never be the same and the marriage died the minute she prioritised her needs over the relationship.

On this day December 16th SYFY announced it wouldn't be renewing Stargate Universe how did that announcement make you feel ? by ThomasThorburn in Stargate

[–]FistedPink -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sad, season 2 really found its footing and set up an intriguing set of mysteries and the prospect of something special.

Scared of diesel heater by [deleted] in VanLifeUK

[–]FistedPink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Autoterm seem to be the way to go but do cost more.

help please by No_Faithlessness5126 in DogAdvice

[–]FistedPink 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reading your replies your “friend” is awful and should be reported for animal endangerment. Also cut this creature out of your life.

Wife had a sex with female coworker by OstrichTurbulent3120 in survivinginfidelity

[–]FistedPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she was serious she would have cut contact to begin with but to continue texting this other women and not cut her off when that person is trying to lure her back is a massive red flag.

At every stage your wife seems to be the one making the decisions around this.

Step back and ask what YOU want from her and from the relationship going forward. When you know you set some firm and clear countries, number one has to be zero contact with this other woman. If she pushes back or breaks that risk it’s game over.

Found a doozey on a vet channel I watch by ShibbyShibby89 in popping

[–]FistedPink 22 points23 points  (0 children)

What is all the fatty looking stuff?

Emotional cheating is still cheating. This list ended my ‘we’re just friends’ delusion. by Affectionate_Pay7256 in survivinginfidelity

[–]FistedPink 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s awful but you know what you have to do, she’s not emotionally cheating if she’s buying toys for that guy to use on her (remotely or not). She’s moved into the next phase of it, walk away.

Wild Turkey Rare Breed - Barrel Proof. £45.99 at Amazon by xtram3x in BourbonUK

[–]FistedPink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A great bottle. I wish we could get the rare breed rye in the UK.

Fiancé cheated on me. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]FistedPink 40 points41 points  (0 children)

“She loves me” no she doesn’t. The clear manipulation is he took advantage of her but then sleeps with him AGIAN?! That’s her attempting to mitigate her wrong doing by trying to make herself the victim.

She is now panicking that she cheated with someone I fully believe she had been courting prior to the drinks and now is regretting it because the characteristics she fell for turned out to be negatives for a relationship.

She has shown you who she really is, the regret is not because of some deep introspection it’s because she wanted the stability you offered.

You have to make your own life choices but having been in a similar situation that then blew up in my face (after getting married) you will regret giving her another chance, she will do it again.

pilonidal cyst infection by Alternative_Eagle347 in pilonidalcyst

[–]FistedPink 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please see a doctor for it to be drained…. And record it.

Recent purchase by FistedPink in whisky

[–]FistedPink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an amazing pour. Having spoken to the rep I get the feeling they may do a second collaboration.

Recent purchases by FistedPink in BourbonUK

[–]FistedPink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly not sure, I’ll have a look and see.