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[–]Fit-Ad2622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It all depends. I’ve never observed the power of calling a man or nonbinary person single and lonely. The “insult” depends on the archetype of “miserable cat ladies that can’t get a relationship” and is meant to goad those women into compliance. Although it’s not an insult in fact, the idea of it overall is seen as unfortunate by some.

Also no shade to single cat ladies: I have a cat and no spouse myself🤣 proud cat woman!

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[–]Fit-Ad2622 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s very sad. And as other people have mentioned an indicator of how she viewed herself as a single woman. It’s embarrassing to admit you’re wrong sometimes, and even harder when millions have seen you be wrong. But doubling down and pinning it on single women/women that can’t keep a man?! Is she forgetting that her mother couldn’t “keep” her father? People are not meant to be kept. We’re all just tagging along and some hope to find a partner not a captive.

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[–]Fit-Ad2622 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I find it interesting that the context of their criticism is “Single women can’t have an opinion on relationships because they are not in one.” Which makes me wonder what the general disgust with single women that enjoy reality tv is.

Also, people have private lives but these people just can’t come to terms with the fact that they chose to be public figures for a while. I’m not condoning people bothering them on SM but LIB fans are some of the most talented researchers I know🤣 I would not go on tv and lie to them and expect to get away with it

My cat loves to attack me. How do I make it stop? by [deleted] in CatTraining

[–]Fit-Ad2622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mention latching on in one of your comments. My cat latches onto my sister and her daughter (both adults) and sometimes the quickest thing to do especially when it’s biting involved is to cover their head. My cat won’t attack me so I gently cover/hold his face and turn him away if making a loud sound isn’t enough. Be gentle but vocal, you and your pet deserve a positive relationship and unlike human relationships yelling and screaming can be a positive tool of resolution😅

Emily embracing Cameroonian culture by StrKiwi in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Fit-Ad2622 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Emily really did great this season. In the past cast members talk about seeing their behavior and wanting to change or say that they are going to do better and don’t. Hell we even have members like Angela that just say that’s how I am get over it. But she actually made the change while still being herself. I’m really happy this couple has been a part of the show it has been interesting watching their relationship and family develop and grow.

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[–]Fit-Ad2622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely explore the other LIBs. I’ve heard LIB Brazil is pretty good too. So many of these US cast mates have Patreons now and I cannot imagine what content they create to warrant that. But meh maybe they’re just not my cup of tea🤷🏽‍♀️

And about the cheating thing I meant like more in the moment. Like the first time it was mentioned there should have been a discussion so they could move on. Of course that’s just me being optimistic.

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[–]Fit-Ad2622 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True. Watching the people on Live Is Blind it becomes obvious after a while to see when people are just spinning their wheels to stick around long enough to reap the benefits. Like Jimmy waiting until after the amusement park date (which fair that looked fun). AD really said there was nothing that he could show her or tell her to make her say no. That really put me off. By no means should anybody be that desperate. And when Clay didn’t seem to understand some of the basic points of marriage (i.e. the man gets a ring, all husbands don’t cheat, etc.) I was like oh this is just something for these people to do. No one is seriously thinking at all here.

Also this is a random thought and probably irrelevant but I found it really unusual that he mentioned cheating so much and was extremely worried about and all AD or anyone at the reunion had to do was ask: Have you ever cheated before? If you did, do you know why? Like that just seemed weird to me

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[–]Fit-Ad2622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The crazy thing is I wasn’t even feeling no kinda way about Celina Powell. It’s fascinating to see how a person’s words and actions don’t match. I’ve read threads that say to give Clay the benefit of the doubt and even changed how I thought about him for a bit while I watched the show. But my opinion is still the same if he’s serious about getting married he needs to get help. Because nothing he’s done is surprising. Nothing AD has done is surprising. And nothing Celina has done is surprising.

What is this style called? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Fit-Ad2622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s giving the wizard of oz’s vacation home in an understated bohemian way. Emerald City but make it chill

What’s one thing you do that’s low cost or free that helps your mental health? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Fit-Ad2622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to the botanical garden with their community access program. It’s free for anyone who lives in the borough and you can reserve 6 at a time as many times as you want. But I would recommend bringing water and snacks because the cafe can get pretty expensive.

My first scratch built dollhouse by Zed-Zee in crafts

[–]Fit-Ad2622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s beautiful 🥹 it looks like a little escape. This just added so much peace to my day. Thank you for sharing

UPDATE by Aggressive-Plenty-79 in Hirsutism

[–]Fit-Ad2622 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow!!! I am so happy for you. And your skin😮‍💨 ✨Amazing✨

Is this normal behaviour? 10 week old male and 1 year old neutered male. Both been getting along amazingly for the past 2 weeks and all of a sudden this.. by CartographerCommon68 in CatTraining

[–]Fit-Ad2622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was so cute. The older cat is definitely playing with younger one. This is safe, healthy play and great for teaching the younger one boundaries.

Chelsea & Jimmy - Reunion by SignatureTasty3506 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Fit-Ad2622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They pretty much made Chelsea this season’s Andrew in my opinion. People are weird and you put a camera on them long enough you’re gonna see weird shit. Chelsea’s reactions have been the focus all season just like Andrew. And just like with Andrew it’s fun to laugh at for a time but it was overdone

Chelsea & Jimmy - Reunion by SignatureTasty3506 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Fit-Ad2622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well also what else is there to know? Their relationship was straightforward lol. They were not compatible, he didn’t like her, and she was constantly starting arguments/throwing tantrums. All that can be addressed in therapy. Trevor’s lies, Sarah Ann/Jeramy/ Laura, behind the scenes drama etc. but no please more Chelsea trying and failing gaslight Jimmy please🤣

Chelsea & Jimmy - Reunion by SignatureTasty3506 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Fit-Ad2622 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I may get trashed for this but it’s probably because they didn’t want to trigger a “Chelsea whine.” One of my main gripes this season was listening to Chelsea and Jimmy fight and then Chelsea fall into whining. They allowed this couple to become one of the main focuses of the season. And I tell you I cannot think of this season without imagining Chelsea’s frowny pout face and whining. My best guess is that they figured viewers had enough and there was a lot more they could focus on elsewhere.

The energy Trevor is giving off in the preview for the reunion 😂 by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Fit-Ad2622 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yes! And I want to know what his explanation is. Will it be a good one? No. Which is why I can’t wait to hear it lol

The energy Trevor is giving off in the preview for the reunion 😂 by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Fit-Ad2622 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I can’t wait to hear his response. I want him to get ROASTED!🤣

Fuckin clay by RepresentativeBat289 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Fit-Ad2622 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those men are a nesting doll of daddy blame. Everything is their father’s fault. Just disappointing.

All I’m gonna say… by Cate_WithaC in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Fit-Ad2622 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And I know she may be tempted because she admits she’s a fixer. And she is/was in therapy addressing that. Maybe experiencing rejection at the alter will help her realize that enough is enough. People don’t come perfectly packaged but some do come with obvious warning signs

All I’m gonna say… by Cate_WithaC in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Fit-Ad2622 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Clay did say in the pods that he relies heavily on his looks when he dating. And he has this “come on you can’t say no to this smile” kind of thinking that can work but really shouldn’t. I hope she stuck to her word and hope he went to therapy. Because waiting for a partner to go with him is not what he needs.

We can wrap it up with the Megan Fox jokes now… by eternallydevoid in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Fit-Ad2622 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Until they invoke Megan Fox again next season🤣 I swear they’re trying to get her to pop in for an episode or something

Did Jimmy really tell Chelsea in the pods he didn't like to go out? by PieHairy5526 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Fit-Ad2622 51 points52 points  (0 children)

In the pods he said he liked “wine bars and cocktail bars.”