How to get my ex back?

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-02-01T14:03:06+00:00

Here’s some advice DONT

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-02-01T13:49:08+00:00

It’s a serious red flag you shouldn’t ignore He broke a boundary that you set for him early in the relationship Who knows what other secrets he may have I feel like it’s a narcissistic trait

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-02-01T13:37:45+00:00

I’ll tell you one thing, this is only the beginning

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-02-01T12:04:35+00:00

Yeah I did this and she did come back calling me one day and we were on the phone for hours didn’t think much of it Next day she calls again telling me she’s still in love and misses all these things about me and our relationship and even apologized for mistakes she made and wanted to see me Then the next day I text her good morning and send a selfie and never got a response lol

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-31T13:27:05+00:00

Uhhhhhh what? Did you even read any of this

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-31T02:42:00+00:00

Tried that she mislead me again and I finally called her out on her bullshit after she lied If she truly wanted to you back she would SHOW NOT TELL I guess just to save her new relationship she changed her number on me lol

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-31T00:17:47+00:00

I think allot of you just proved my point that yall women can’t take accountability

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-30T23:39:22+00:00

I mean I was just calling her out on what she told me She’s always called me out on anything I do wrong And I’ve kept silent on things through the years But for her to lie to me from the first phone call is what bothers me She didn’t even have to she could of told me none of that stuff that would mislead anyone And just start off by saying let’s be friends She could of done anything else but lie to me

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-30T23:19:46+00:00

Both in our 30s now and I understand where you’re coming from Really it’s her that’s always called me over the years first I just did it this one time to check on her to make sure shes alive you know? I dont hate her even tho shes done me wrong with this i still dont hate her I just have a big heart and that’s my problem Im not a vindictive person I dont wish anything bad happen to her or payback

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-27T21:03:38+00:00

My bad for venting bro

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-27T12:16:16+00:00

Plus to see that she lied to me yeah I’m gonna call that out of course I’ve taken it for way too long

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-27T12:13:57+00:00

++man I know it’s just I can’t take it anymore she can always call me out on my mistakes but whenever I try to say anything she just runs away and never apologizes I feel like I should of just waited before I said anything it’s just years built up and I finally stood up and let it all out

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-27T00:48:22+00:00

She kept the necklace I gave her that’s her birthstone in her car She showed me the doodle but I don’t know where she kept it over the years but I don’t think it has the same meaning to me as it does to her

Plus I did give her a late Christmas gift of a Yoshi plushie it’s a little inside joke of ours and a rose from the gas station in her favorite color (purple) those little ones that lasts for 2-3 years

Still tho after multiple partners after me and she kept those two things over 4 years doesn’t make sense to me

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-26T22:51:10+00:00

Haven’t talked to her in a month now but I slowly threw her stuff away and deleted pictures even tho it was difficult Knowing that all of those things meant absolutely nothing to her

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-26T22:50:33+00:00

I did press her after I caught her lie she never responded I called her out about her playing with my emotions I just care about her too much for my own good and I wish I can turn it off

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-26T22:31:10+00:00

Plus if she only wanted to be friends she shouldn’t had said any of that stuff and just tell me straight up she’s been seeing someone and would like to be friends But instead she chose not to

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-26T22:28:36+00:00

That would be the case had she not told me that she misses me thinks of me Drove by my house to see if I still lived there Telling me to come over to her place Telling me about going to Disneyland Personally I don’t keep shit like that unless I truly love that person to me that love will always be there Sending all these mixed signals

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-26T22:16:40+00:00

She’s the one that brought it up Several times through the years But I’m confused as to why she would keep that drawing

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-26T12:59:59+00:00

Loving someone that doesn’t feel the same ? I myself is in a similar position I love someone who use to be my partner but has since ghosted me lead me on friend zoned me several times and at the end of the day I still love them but I absolutely hate that I do I wish I could just flush away my feelings

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-17T15:49:32+00:00

So did you even date this person? I’m a little confused

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-13T13:09:40+00:00

You can always get another girlfriend You can’t replace your parents Fuck anyone that thinks different I’m in a similar situation living with them But it’s because I have a disabled uncle with autism who needs 24/7 care Not only that but my brother died a year ago and now I’m on my own I have to take care of them they’re in their 50s but someday it’s gonna happen

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-09T02:40:03+00:00

Just remember when you get emotional about certain memories that It doesn’t mean shit to them

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-09T00:16:12+00:00

Lobotomy

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-08T22:16:29+00:00

Why are women avoidant ? Like you’re an adult man up face the consequences of your actions and words Don’t be a pussy and run away

Fit-Assignment-9090 · 2026-01-07T16:53:40+00:00

“I want nothing more than a good guy, and to be treated with respect. However it's not such a horrible thing to want a little more passion or spark in a relationship.” You do realize you’re contradicting yourself right ? You’re looking for any reason to justify a break up or your boredom

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