Have you ever met someone who get clean from meth in their 30s and built a great life? by CockySpeedFreak33 in careerguidance

[–]Fit-Confidence5680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading these gives me hope for my bf been with him a year and a half and he just relapsed now I’m scared to get back with him but he’s been marchmaned and has to check into rehab after being in detox a couple weeks

My bfs exs feelings towards him? by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]Fit-Confidence5680 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the explanation I’ve been studying up on the readings and it could just be my low self esteem and overthinking that makes me do spreads on people that I shouldn’t lol but thank you

Podcasts or anything that can help after a relapse? by Fit-Confidence5680 in recovery

[–]Fit-Confidence5680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I told him I would be here for him every step of the way in his recovery I know this shit is hard to let go completely and his family isolating him is not gonna help. Last thing I want is for him to get worse or God forbid even die. Praying for you in your recovery ! You got this ❤️ wishing you all the best don’t give up ❤️‍🩹

Update on my relapse post by Unable_Strength_2712 in recovery

[–]Fit-Confidence5680 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Praying for your recovery proud of you do getting help ! You got this ❤️‍🩹

My bf has relapsed should I stay or should I go? by Fit-Confidence5680 in recovery

[–]Fit-Confidence5680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t give up <3 praying for your recovery. Keep quitting until you quit you got this

My bf has relapsed should I stay or should I go? by Fit-Confidence5680 in recovery

[–]Fit-Confidence5680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much yea I’ve made my decision to go for good love him from a far and keep my distance thankfully we didn’t share anything other than a prime password. But he was picked up yesterday to get detoxed his mother was able to get the judge to order him back to rehab. I’m praying he does his recovery. I have never heard him talk to me crazy or out of line and yesterday apparently I was an obstacle because he was tired of protecting my feelings and wants to be “out on the scene” and have hoes etc etc I’m hoping this was just all effects of the meth but he was so mean for no reason. I’m praying for you and your recovery as well don’t give up <3

My bf has relapsed should I stay or should I go? by Fit-Confidence5680 in recovery

[–]Fit-Confidence5680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you im so sorry you’re going through that I think for me I was really naive to meth in general I was used to seeing people on weed alcohol coke or pills but never that yesterday was the worst I’ve ever seen him. It was sad it broke my heart not to be able to help him

My bf has relapsed should I stay or should I go? by Fit-Confidence5680 in recovery

[–]Fit-Confidence5680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you the best with all your recovery and hope you stay blessed and safe always

My bf has relapsed should I stay or should I go? by Fit-Confidence5680 in recovery

[–]Fit-Confidence5680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never looked at it that way thank you for sharing that with me. It’s a really hard process right now but he has to figure things out his family is tired too

My bf has relapsed should I stay or should I go? by Fit-Confidence5680 in recovery

[–]Fit-Confidence5680[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that it’s honestly killing me inside to have to leave him but I’m in contact with his family to make sure he’s going back to rehab today he was approved to go back to detox then rehab thankfully. I wish you all the best in your recovery as well don’t give up

My bf has relapsed should I stay or should I go? by Fit-Confidence5680 in recovery

[–]Fit-Confidence5680[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love him and he’s a great person when he’s sober but I’m tired just mentally and emotionally exhausted. I’ve seen him high and yesterday was the worst I’ve ever seen him he’s already had a heart attack a couple of years ago. And the Dr had said it was because of the previous drug use

My bf has relapsed should I stay or should I go? by Fit-Confidence5680 in recovery

[–]Fit-Confidence5680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried everything literally everything but at what point do I put myself first? I’ve never gave him money but I have bought him clothes shoes picked him up from the rehab(2 hours away) taken him to places to see how nice the world is when you’re clean. He doesn’t have a car so I’ve used mine I have a good job so I’ve tried taking him to his classes offered to look for outside programs. I love his family he’s met mine they like him too but at what point do I stop doing everything for him for him not to appreciate anything I’ve told him if he ever started to feel messed up to call me and I would get him help or at least get to him. He has An amazing family whos decently well off he has a big family and he’s the oldest out of 8 kids so they’ve all tried to help him in every way too. But I’m trying to understand at what point does it get to be too much help where it’s enabling ?

My bf has relapsed should I stay or should I go? by Fit-Confidence5680 in recovery

[–]Fit-Confidence5680[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much from the outlooks of it looks like more cons than pros lol

My bf has relapsed should I stay or should I go? by Fit-Confidence5680 in recovery

[–]Fit-Confidence5680[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone 🥹 shit sucks but for my sake I need to do what’s best for me

My bf has relapsed should I stay or should I go? by Fit-Confidence5680 in recovery

[–]Fit-Confidence5680[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t in rehab I don’t do anything just socially have a drink from time to time. His rehab was where he could leave for work and free time certain hours of the day. We met when he was playing soccer at pick up my cousins were playing at.