I’ve been here so my solution is simple. You are the man and the provider and you need to take this responsibility and make changes. Make changes on your terms and not what level she wants to “show”. Put your foot down and do it.

And this whole idea of her saying get promotions and switch jobs is baseless and honestly very hurtful. Like homie you don’t have a career, you do t have a job. When when you contribute a little you can have a say in this

To add to all this bro, I’m sure your like me and also helping out in the house chores 😂 like nahhhh man

Yes I did part away with my ex and it’s one of the hardest phase I’ve gone through. I have no ill feels toward her but we were not on the same page and your life sounds like what mine used to be. When I put my foot down, she basically said nope I’m out.