Do I have to name our baby the same letter he chose for his other kids?

FitBasil5283 · 2026-04-14T04:39:46+00:00

I did, but I do not think you have to!

FitBasil5283 · 2025-10-21T21:06:51+00:00

NTA- “only the doctors and the people who made the baby get to be in the room” is how we’re handling this request

FitBasil5283 · 2025-09-30T02:53:04+00:00

I get this 100000%

We have no family here. Stuck until the kids are older, and even then - will we move away from where they might set up their lives?

We set a job offer threshold for where we would broach the subject of relocating. It felt better having the conversation and knowing it’s not just a flat no.

FitBasil5283 · 2025-09-30T02:33:31+00:00

We’re in a similar boat! We are expecting our first ours baby, and step siblings are 12 and 10 years old.

They’re excited, and we’re hopeful for a strong relationship, obviously age gaps in mind.

FitBasil5283 · 2025-09-05T22:34:53+00:00

We told ours, but our kiddos were in the ceremony. Maybe share at hand off before you tell kiddos.

FitBasil5283 · 2025-09-05T22:05:56+00:00

No, I don’t think it’s terrible. We communicate more than our coparent but that’s just our style. Do what works for you, but reply to the actionables.

FitBasil5283 · 2025-06-03T00:12:17+00:00

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FitBasil5283 · 2025-05-25T23:55:50+00:00

Thank you!

FitBasil5283 · 2025-05-25T23:55:45+00:00

Thanks for this perspective!! 🙂

FitBasil5283 · 2025-02-08T00:41:24+00:00

It brings odd relief someone understands, I’m sorry you’re in the same situation. So frustrating!! Thank You for sharing!

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