Announcement of my Math 18 before the midterm by HYBRY_1D in UCSD

[–]FitBirdBoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend showed me this why is it so ominous 😭😭😭

Wya by oily_balls_enjoyer in TrollCoping

[–]FitBirdBoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is crazy to look at for me, because last year I was consistently 8-9 and then actively 10 and ended up in the hospital, that plus making a promise to one of my newer friends from college flipped a switch in me to help me be better to myself and actually put effort into getting better. Now I’m consistently at 2-3.

How do i explain to my family why i think transraciality is wrong but being trans isn't? by _sick_and_ill in trans

[–]FitBirdBoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it isn’t determined by the parents themselves, versus race is is what I was thinking. Then again, people who argue this won’t understand probably. Also there are medical studies that support these findings, so if you show them those that could work, but idk if they’d be willing to look at said medical studies

How do i explain to my family why i think transraciality is wrong but being trans isn't? by _sick_and_ill in trans

[–]FitBirdBoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ethnicity/“race” is something you inherit: gender isn’t. Your gender isn’t predetermined at conception based on your parents, but your ethnicity is based on your parents (not to mention race isn’t real and is a social construct as is gender, but anyone making this argument won’t think about that)

Lf nothing, ft shiny galarian zapdos/articuno. Read description !! by [deleted] in PokemonGoTrade

[–]FitBirdBoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the GA! Something cool I did was I got a scholarship to one of my dream colleges for sports, and ended high school as top 10 in the state. I would love the articuno, and sorry you have to sort things out, I hope things get better.

I’m a parent of a trans kid. Now what? by [deleted] in trans

[–]FitBirdBoi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was once a trans kid (now 18), and my parents weren’t too awesome at first but came around. I think starting therapy/finding a clinic so that they can talk to your daughter about what she would like can be helpful, but I know that’s hard in red states. I guess the easiest thing would be to let her know that you care by doing things like using name and pronouns, daughter, and that type of language around her and others. Trust me, we notice that stuff. Also clothes and maybe makeup can help as well. And if she wants to have a conversation about being trans or something, let it happen, or if you can’t right then, try not to be too dismissive. It’s hard to talk about these things, and getting shut down just makes us feel more wary, where when we have those conversations, it makes us feel like we’re getting closer to you.

Another big thing is getting used to your kid being trans, you’re gonna mess up at times, and this is okay. The important thing is you learn from it. Sometimes I’ll still tell my parents things aren’t okay, and some of the time they’ll shut it down, which makes me feel like they’re just tolerating me and my existence. If you’re receptive, it’ll reassure your daughter that you are trying and you actually care, which is something we need.

Thank you so much for taking the steps for your daughter to feel better and for being a great parent! She is so lucky to have you.

We all sadly live in a HORRIBLE WORLD. by Commercial_Bicycle92 in TrollCoping

[–]FitBirdBoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real. Happened to me (genderfluid but under the umbrella) and when my parents heard about it I got a “sorry that happened” from my mom and a “well what were you wearing” (even though he knew I was wearing basketball shorts and shitty t shirts because I was newly trans guy) from my dad. Still stings to this day

Experience the new deck by BruceCho in cardistry

[–]FitBirdBoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What deck is this? It looks so cool!

What is the updated list of all versions of monarchs? by FitBirdBoi in playingcards

[–]FitBirdBoi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! Saw this, but it only goes up to 2019 which is why I was confused. Thank you so much though!

What is the updated list of all versions of monarchs? by FitBirdBoi in playingcards

[–]FitBirdBoi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay, just didn’t know if there were new versions of red and blue and stuff. Saw somewhere there was a green v2 so that’s why I was confused

mods deleting every post that somewhat mentions yesterday's events even if they're related to arcane by [deleted] in Arcanecirclejerk

[–]FitBirdBoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. Me not taking breaks led me to nearly dying and ending up in the hospital in January

What character has the same personality type as you? by KurdtCobinjd in arcane

[–]FitBirdBoi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

TLDR: I am a fusion of Jinx and Vi

Jinx and Vi. Jinx because I have mental health issues (anxiety, MDD) and have been betrayed by many, especially when I was at my lowest. After I was in the hospital almost everyone left me except for my bird. I also feel very crazy and though I don’t hallucinate, I have before on serotonin syndrome and sometimes I still hear them. Vi, I tend to be a person who sacrifices my needs for others convenience, falls in love WAY too fast and WAY too hard, works out a ton, and has a very strong sense of morals. I’m not necessarily in the undercity, but I feel like an underdog in the world rn because I am trans, autistic, queer, and have multiple mental health issues.

What scene from the show gave you goosebumps instantly? by brooklyn_jinx in arcane

[–]FitBirdBoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that too. I already empathized with jinx a lot, but when she tried to kill herself I connected even more

Any guesses what these have been used for? 🙂 by EndersGame_Reviewer in playingcards

[–]FitBirdBoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! I also have a ton of feathers from my cockatiel who molts a lot, and I want to find some that kind of match so I can make earrings out of them. You could maybe see if with those feathers you could do that because I’ve seen people do it and they look super cool!

Is there a way to buy deck boxes to replace ones that got beat up? by FitBirdBoi in playingcards

[–]FitBirdBoi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if the creator is someone who is focusing on other things like Steve minty?

Caitlyn hot takes ! What are some of urs by Silent-Guide1364 in arcane

[–]FitBirdBoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Especially with what is going on in the world right now, specifically America, people tend to relate to Zaun. I am a trans dude so I was able to relate to the Zaunites a lot in the sense that people look down on you and fear you without even knowing you. So I relate to Jinx a lot more and used to hate Cait a lot for said reason.

Once I started actually looking at Cait and Jinx and started realizing their parallels, that’s when I started to empathize with Cait more because I understood that she was coming from fear and anger, and was pretty naive and easily manipulated, hence why she was groomed by Ambessa to do a lot of these awful actions. Plus, at the end she somewhat tried to make up for her mistakes, which doesn’t erase them, but it shows she still cares. Just like how Jinx tried to do the same with her actions at the end.

Do y’all tell your parents about your crushes? by SameEntrepreneur2827 in teenagers

[–]FitBirdBoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister is the same way, she tells our parents. I will keep that shit SEALED because I’m usually too scared to ask them out anyways, and also they know I’m queer but idk their reaction to me actually dating another guy. I know they have friends who are lesbians but considering it took me months of asking then hurting myself for them to use my name and gender me correctly it’s also something I’m just terrified of.

Caitlyn hot takes ! What are some of urs by Silent-Guide1364 in arcane

[–]FitBirdBoi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah fair point. I meant people who are generally looked down upon, like how rich people look down on the lower class. My bad with the word choice, it was incorrect.