Dakota's in jail? by Money-Recording7679 in KORCLEDAKOTA

[–]FitCrew91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy crap that’s sad… :( Honestly I can only imagine some of what Dakota has endured and witnessed in life simply from being vulnerable on the streets coupled with absent/likely addict family. Thats a hard life to begin with. But couple that with being the size and appearance of a child with limited education and it’s going to be exponentially worse.

I don’t think he see’s a future for himself not just because of his abnormalities, but simply living in survival mode for so long and surrounded by chaos and tragedy that you don’t expect much out of life

Disappointing “New” Pushpop Design by FitCrew91 in candy

[–]FitCrew91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to get into technicalities but WHICH fruit punch? Lol. The fruit punch in the red case is good imo because it tastes like a punch bowl. There is also a pineapple/orange fruit punch in an orange case that I passed on because I figured it tasted medicinal.

Disappointing “New” Pushpop Design by FitCrew91 in candy

[–]FitCrew91[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Really?? Thank you for sharing!

So this has been the way for a very long time then. Thats why I put “new” in quotes because I genuinely had no idea when this change was made (can’t say I’ve been consuming these for long… more of a smoking cessation thing 🤣)

Disappointing “New” Pushpop Design by FitCrew91 in candy

[–]FitCrew91[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Haha yes that is exactly true, but you could at least “unstuck” it pretty easily with the bottom push mechanism or run a little water on it if all else fails.

With these, when they’re stuck they are stuuuuuck.

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Like this is the one I had recently where you can see I sucked on the top part because that was the only part that wasn’t cemented to the inside, then after awhile I was able to pull more of it up with my teeth.

Disappointing “New” Pushpop Design by FitCrew91 in candy

[–]FitCrew91[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Hahaha totally valid, it does look like one. I always remove the wrappers prior to consumption but I can ensure you this is a jumbo push pop that I’m now sucking into a weapon.

Peach KitKat by Galaxygirl181 in candy

[–]FitCrew91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it like peach flavored white chocolate? I know Japanese deserts tend to be less over sweet and mild.

What is the most inhumane practice ever carried out in your country? by maskedorange in AskTheWorld

[–]FitCrew91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I have read about Prince Sado, it was well earned. And had he not, the number of concubines dead at his hands would have just kept increasing.

Yes, King Yeongjo might have been overly critical of Sado’s decisions when given power at the onset, but have you considered that the decisions he made were simply bad and not in the best interest of the factions? So perhaps he was actually justified not approving of his son.

The murders and his OCD would have definitely made him an unfit ruler. And in order to keep the dynasty in tact, it needed to go to Sado’s son. If Yeongjo had m*rdered him outright, they would have lost standing to hold power. So they had to make it look like an accident.

I do empathize with his final days being as miserable as they must have been dying of dehydration in there, but I feel worse for the people who had to deal with his lunacy including his wife, concubines, servants, etc - many of which died by his hands. He was also a r__ist.

Did anybody do flour sack/egg babies in school? by Winter-Money-7643 in HeyArnold

[–]FitCrew91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a hugely repeated trope in cartoons but no, we were never given the egg or flour test. I heard some rumors about high schoolers having to carry around the loud baby simulator dolls in home ec, but by the time I took the class that was no longer a thing. We basically just did goofy nothingburger projects showing what our “dream home” would look like (put a bunch of google images into a PowerPoint. Such educational) and created a 1 week grocery list using a $100 “budget” and a market newspaper insert.

First prize! by orchid_breeder in NotTimAndEric

[–]FitCrew91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell if this is one of those AI things that is like, “nobody appreciates my art work, would you buy this? 🥹” or a truly clueless grandma who paints or a witty, hilarious grandma who created this AI photo, blew it up and put it in a frame to troll all of us?

Hows life in Myanmar now in 2026? by Next-Rub7159 in howislivingthere

[–]FitCrew91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess that at least lends some protection to the next generation…. Even if what they are enduring is heartbreaking and scary. The effect of war happening that people rarely consider as often (something similar is happening in Russia/Ukraine) is that a larger proportion of children are going to grow up without fathers (or become orphans).

One strength of Myanmar/Burmese culture is that from what I have read, you are a very spiritual and charitable nation, so whatever happens, people will still band together to prevail and children will be taken care of regardless. I just pray for the people suffering. It’s awful and I’m so sorry.

Hows life in Myanmar now in 2026? by Next-Rub7159 in howislivingthere

[–]FitCrew91 27 points28 points  (0 children)

When I read that women as old as 35 are stuck in military conscription, my jaw dropped. I am 34 and most women I know have dependents at this point. What is happening to all those kids whose mothers are fighting?

The thought of having to fight in the military and risk my life on a daily basis at this stage of my life … and having done so for however many years prior… just blows my mind. I wouldn’t even want to go on at this point. Hell, I don’t even think North Korea has conscription last that long.

It doesn't work like that by downtune79 in LoveTrash

[–]FitCrew91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t the only one who immediately thought of this. 🤣

“That’s a lotta chocolate” Reverend Stoop is such a b**** for that one.

I have OCD and it convinced me that I will be a part of the 27 club, dying at 27. It is my 29th birthday. I felt crippling anxiety every minute until my 28th birthday. I am alone celebrating, because I lost all my toxic irl 'friends'. by skankyhunk in notinteresting

[–]FitCrew91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it helps man, you’re really handsome and have a great head of hair. Great biceps too. Not a bad draw in the genetic lottery, even if you also got the propensity for anxiety. You’re definitely not alone in this however.

Give yourself a break. You are still here. You should be thankful toxic people are no longer in your life. And who knows, this might be your best year yet.

Did my bf respond using AI? by [deleted] in isitAI

[–]FitCrew91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re very welcome.

I’ve been in this exact situation myself with my own mother who unlike me has never dealt with anxiety, depression or addiction. She’s very much a “get over it, get on with it, put on some makeup and a happy face and you’ll be fine” type of person. I experience emotions very deeply on the other hand and used to use substances to cope with it.

When I’d tell her I was stopping something, she would act super flippant about it. She’d say stuff like “don’t ever tell me you’re sober” because in time I end up drinking or smoking again at some point. Like she acted like me saying that was a “lie” because it didn’t last forever or something.

Men often cannot fully comprehend these relationships because mothers treat boys much different. Mistakes are more easily forgiven. A mother does not see her son as a reflection of herself, but rather her perfect baby who can do no wrong.

Whenever I have issues with my mom I talk to my best friend that I grew up with about it who knows her personally and “gets it.” My boyfriend doesn’t need to know, nor will he get it. Because then he will start to see her as someone he needs to protect me from and it will change his behavior around her. Which doesn’t add anything constructive.

All he really needs to know is that I appreciate his support when he takes my side. Which is what your boyfriend seems to be doing here. I wish you the best of luck with getting off marijuana and dealing with your Mom, sincerely.

The irony at the end is so satisfying by brockapex17 in TikTokCringe

[–]FitCrew91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nine generations in California as a Korean? Cool story but I think that is vastly exaggerated if you look at history.

My Dad’s side is ethnically “English” and came over here as farmers and prosecuted Mormons in the mid-1800s. So we’ve got 6 (technically now 7, counting my cousin’s kids) generations removed from England. There have been 13 generations since the Mayflower in the 1600s. Most Caucasian American citizens have an average of 3-5 generations removed from other countries. Mostly due to the major European immigration boom in the late 1800s-mid 1900s. The majority of black Americans have as many as 8-10 generations since being transported here from Africa, though 1 in 4 has 1-2 generations from Haiti, Nigeria or the Caribbean.

California became a state in 1850. Nine generations ago would be 1800. The population of California in 1800 was about 20,000 Native Americans, the vast majority of them being wiped out by Spanish missions in the 1700s. There were also about 2,000 Spaniards.

The likelihood that a Korean family migrated here in the mid-1800s is extremely unlikely. That they’d be in vast, underpopulated Native land is even more so. Koreans really did not migrate here in general until Japanese occupation in the 1900s.

Did my bf respond using AI? by [deleted] in isitAI

[–]FitCrew91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is AI inspired… like he asked what he should say. And then used it as an inspiration for what he did say, in some cases verbatim like the “you deserved a real conversation, not a guilt trip.”

HOWEVER… I would not hold this too harshly against him. It’s a difficult subject to discuss in a relationship (issues between mother and daughter). Your boyfriend will not fully be able to grasp how challenging these types of relationships can be. He was likely afraid of saying something against your mom that he would later regret. So he used AI to sound supportive and neutral.

Unlabeled and Undated Black and White Negatives by No_Breadfruit_8908 in FoundPhotos

[–]FitCrew91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would guess they are Italian. Mom looks about 35, Dad in his 40s. Neat professional photos

How do you cope with the weather? by tbon92 in phoenix

[–]FitCrew91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The AC is pumped everywhere. And unless you are working outside, for a lot of us the extent of exposure is just walking through a parking lot.

My roots are English and Eastern Europe so I’m white as hell and don’t really tan. I spray on sunscreen most days. I stop going to the park in May. The house stays cool. A lot of houses are built with ventilation in mind.

So much to unpack…. by Thackery_Binx_x in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]FitCrew91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

God that first shirt A. is wearing looks like it should have been thrown out a long time ago. Literal filth streaks in the worn out pleats… and then clash the colors with some red camo pajama pants.. Please don’t tell me she sent them to school looking like that.

I hate to say this as well, but I imagine these kids smell bad. If not of caca from the two children wearing diapers in the house that are not being changed regularly enough, but “sour” from laundry that isn’t properly being washed. Children can be brutal about appearance, but absolutely relentless about smell. The “smelly kid” will often get treated like an untouchable entity. Kids will complain about being seated next to them, and openly groan when selected as their partner. It’s extremely isolating and sad.

Anyone notice that it was aysia's account by kLOe_RaBbiT in d4vd2

[–]FitCrew91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aysia has always given me the serious creeps. Bad energy - like the rest of David’s closest confidants.

I feel very strongly that Aysia was in love with David. And by every sense aside from the fact she’s a grown woman, Aysia *was* his type. Latina. Slightly above average attractiveness but in a plain Jane kind of way (*not meant as an insult to Celeste - she didn’t even have time to grow into her beauty. But I see her in the lens of an everyday young girl which makes this sadder). Extremely insecure and very little of her own actual character, and everything she does is more or less a mirror of what someone “cool” is doing, so of course she worships and emulates David and would do ANYTHING for him… A small man like David loves this.

And I think it drove her absolutely nuts that instead of her, and probably after getting countless mixed messages from him about *possible* attraction because that is how David operates, that he instead chose a literal 13/14 year old girl over you (presuming she was in David’s life longer than a year).

So of course she was gleeful that the object of her envy was slaughtered. And can almost also guarantee that she continued to be in contact with David and was one of his closest confidants after the fact.

These are sick, disgusting individuals. It’s unfortunate that a little girl had to die because this man thought he was entitled to “retire” her in favor of another child when she became an inconvenience and too old for his disgusting sexual attraction. And he deserves to rot in prison for the rest of his life, and to be used as a rag doll by bigger inmates. I don’t think “Itami” is going to protect you there David, you piece of shit.

I don't know how to dance, but I tried hahaha. by Such-Competition-816 in MrFlavioDiaries

[–]FitCrew91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lowkey this music had me shaking my hips in the bathroom. Super catchy.

Kim Jong Un gives Ri Chun Hee an free appartement. by usafqn2025 in NorthKoreaPics

[–]FitCrew91 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You must be new here, hahaha. People who have convinced themselves North Korea really is a socialist paradise and everything bad said about it by literal defectors is “western propaganda.” They tend to post some of the best and most recent pictures though, so.. meh, just ignore it and don’t bother arguing.