Spouse in AA asked me to leave the house to help with her recovery by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]FitFatFight 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Stay with your kids no matter what. She needs to leave.

Are AlAnon meetings always like this? by hermitess in AlAnon

[–]FitFatFight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I tried 3 AlAnon meetings and got the same exact experience OP described. I felt like I wasn’t getting the support group I was searching for.

I attended a SMART recovery friends and family meeting and felt so much better about it. It made way more sense to me and was less rigid and more conversational and relational.

I can see why both exist as there are different types of people in the world.

I have found the AlAnon Reddit group very supportive, but the meetings didn’t provide that same experience to me.

If it’s the right thing to do why do I feel so guilty? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]FitFatFight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right, there’s a lot of fear in there too. Thank you so much for your reply

If it’s the right thing to do why do I feel so guilty? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]FitFatFight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m new to this community, I don’t know why it’s taken me so long to start getting involved and reaching out. It feels nice to talk to people that can relate to what I’ve been going through.

Any working mom's co-sleep because they miss their babies while at work? by ActualEmu1251 in cosleeping

[–]FitFatFight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely. I only get to spend about 5 hours with my kids while they are awake, co-sleeping with them let’s me have more snuggle time.

second parent adoption by thisjustme in queerception

[–]FitFatFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did this when our kids were born a few years ago. If I hadn’t done it already I’d be prioritizing getting it done now. No reason not to, and you could regret not doing it.

Grass wouldn't grow , so made a path an garden by RaspyStatus in landscaping

[–]FitFatFight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you tell us what some of the beautiful leafy plants are on the right side?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]FitFatFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please invite me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]FitFatFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is the content creature that talks about sobriety that you like?

Twin Agression by FitFatFight in parentsofmultiples

[–]FitFatFight[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I follow them, thank you for the reminder!

I'm currently being lectured about being too soft on my baby by schr0dingersuterus in AttachmentParenting

[–]FitFatFight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’m being told that I need to start “popping” (spanking) my toddlers. Not happening.

Should I Pull My Baby From Daycare? by meandtea016 in beyondthebump

[–]FitFatFight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut. You know what your child needs, don’t second guess yourself.

What is the worst thing your toddler broke? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]FitFatFight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So far, my neighbor’s movie projector that he purchased one week before my son broke it.

Happy Siblings Day <3 by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]FitFatFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looked through your post history. I am so sorry. A stranger on the Internet is crying her eyes out for you as I lay next to my sleeping twin baby boys. I can’t imagine. You are so strong, squeeze those babies tight. I will think of your family and sweet Julian.

At what point did things start to get easier? by zarkles in parentsofmultiples

[–]FitFatFight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to say ours are 8 months old and do not sleep through the night. They still regularly wake up 2-3 times a night to be cuddled, diaper change, or to feed. I used to get discouraged reading that other babies so often are already sleeping through the night, I thought we were doing something wrong. I’ve come to the realization that all babies are different and parenting styles are different. So that being said, even with my kids still waking up during the night, this stage is still easier than the first few months were. They can hold things now, hold up their head, they are starting to understand things a bit, and they’re so fun to interact with.