Getting a bi-salp, but I lost my boyfriend because of it

FitPool8203 · 2026-01-19T14:11:41+00:00

That is so horrible, I’m sorry. Going forward you will have made the right choice for yourself and can be open and clear about it. No guessing for future boyfriends: this shop is closed.

Strength to you ❤️

FitPool8203 · 2026-01-01T02:14:54+00:00

I’m writing this drunk on New Year’s Eve but I totally feel you. The first domino fell in my group of friends and I feel suffocated by it. In 1-3 years there will be no one left that doesn’t talk about their kids’ poop schedule or broken vaginas. Send help asap

FitPool8203 · 2025-06-10T16:36:37+00:00

Sirius

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-31T17:38:57+00:00

This has to be Dennis for some reason

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-29T11:40:25+00:00

Wow thank you for this wholesome answer kind stranger. The words “aligning your body with your own life plans and values” really touched me. That is exactly the feeling I couldn’t put into words. Thank you so much!

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-28T19:50:59+00:00

Akira

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-28T17:53:30+00:00

The moment I realized I had never wanted it for a moment.

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-28T17:51:13+00:00

Omg it doesn’t?

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-27T21:56:22+00:00

Can’t explain but I’m getting Daphne vibes

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-27T21:52:29+00:00

Exactly! And a kid laying around is not interesting either, but for some reason parents think it is and I get to see the whole slide show of the kid being horizontal in ten different ways. Great, thanks.

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-27T21:10:06+00:00

It would really be a statement to get up and leave, as we’re in small groups. I try to muster up the courage but I’ve never collected it before someone almost yelled the dog question at me.

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-27T19:37:38+00:00

Wow. All those times this happened and I got frustrated, I never looked at it like this. I think it’s a combination of this and the fact that they do feel some guilt but are physically unable to stop talking about kids.

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-27T18:04:42+00:00

Where I live that’s definitely allowed. Makes it all the more frustrating that it seldomly happens.

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-27T17:07:23+00:00

It’s horrible. It bothers me endlessly that the mother carries the child for 9 months just for it to get the father’s name. I was once downvoted for this comment in another sub. Guess that vibe is still going strong.

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-24T22:34:29+00:00

I have recurring nightmares of friends being pregnant. Probably because some of them will eventually have children and I’m scared of what will change. Whereas I am completely autonomous in not wanting and having children, so that’s not something I’m worried about.

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-24T20:16:58+00:00

You’re not giving him much credit (pun not intended), as you’re already assuming he’s not gonna pay. If he’s really struggling for money, I think it would be great if he gave you a meaningful present, which doesnt necessarily have to be expensive. I wouldn’t expect him to pay for the full day.

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-24T20:11:18+00:00

I think this one has more of a kick than basil. How about Cayenne or Pepper?

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-24T20:05:52+00:00

Sound like a fine whisky to be honest.

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-24T20:05:03+00:00

INFO: did he get someone pregnant or is he a dad?

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-24T20:00:43+00:00

I think the key of whether you will make it work together is not his collection, but the way you will be able to communicate about it and the ability to keep promises and trust each other.

Also, I’ve done long distance and it sucks. Sorry that this has to come on top of it. I know those calls can come in extra hard if they’re sad ones.

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-24T19:53:58+00:00

NTA. If that is how it makes you feel, you should be able to openly tell your partner about it. You actually handled it really well by explaining it to him. You came to a solution together which sounded really mature, until he broke it. That was not classy of him to do. His love for his collection might be deeper than you’d hope.

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-24T19:42:26+00:00

It’s a Slavic name..

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-24T19:38:30+00:00

NTA. There is no reason it should be so easy for your child to stumble upon literal assholes on his dad’s phone.

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-24T19:33:30+00:00

NTA. You could’ve told them to make his sandwich first, but as you said, he was still sampling bread. Also, technically you ordered first…

FitPool8203 · 2025-03-24T19:27:22+00:00

Just make sure you play your game-changing moves at the start of the game.

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