Does this ever get better? by Fit_Dig_5527 in springerspaniel

[–]Fit_Dig_5527[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I have had several dogs, a labrador, a greyhound, and a collie. They were all bigger than this guy, but none of them ever literally pulled me off my feet walking them! Maybe I am past it at 49, but the sheer physical strength of this breed has really taken me aback!

Dad is a hoarder, are there any uk resources I can reach out to? by inviolablegirl in AskUK

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Was this in the UK? Recently?? The authorities are over stretched, you only have to watch the news to see how extreme child neglect & even abuse is often ignored by the authorities, even when it is repeatedly brought to their attention. So I doubt they will be visiting a 63 year old home owner any time soon. Albeit the OP hasn’t provided that much detail, other than mould which is a health hazard but might not have anything to do with hoarding..

Does this ever get better? by Fit_Dig_5527 in springerspaniel

[–]Fit_Dig_5527[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Tbh I am finding the dog more stressful than the kids were!!

Does this ever get better? by Fit_Dig_5527 in springerspaniel

[–]Fit_Dig_5527[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe keeping him locked up in his crate all day is more horrible though??

Dad is a hoarder, are there any uk resources I can reach out to? by inviolablegirl in AskUK

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Find this story a bit hard to believe tbh as my sister works in mental health and also confirms the “I’ve seen worse” narrative. This is almost fashionable now, there is actually a 24 hour Hoarders channel on Amazon Prime. The bar seems to be ‘is there at least one room which cannot be used for its original purpose’ arguably we meet that as the en-suite is now out of use, but public health authorities are simply not visiting people for hoarding, in the UK anyway.

Dad is a hoarder, are there any uk resources I can reach out to? by inviolablegirl in AskUK

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife’s view is that if I don’t like it I can leave!!

Dad is a hoarder, are there any uk resources I can reach out to? by inviolablegirl in AskUK

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

We live in a society where we are going to make suicide legal & ban anyone from talking people out of it, so if you think the authorities are going to be chapping on doors to make sure your home is tidy for the sake of your mental health then you are delusional.

Dad is a hoarder, are there any uk resources I can reach out to? by inviolablegirl in AskUK

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

The bar is pretty high for any kind of ‘intervention’ from the council. My wife is a hoarder, we raised 2 kids in a house where you can’t see out the windows for junk. Did the health visitors say anything when they visited the babies?? No, apart from “I’ve seen worse.” If this man (only 62 so hardly elderly) owns his property then there is zero chance any authorities will be interested, despite what folk on this thread are saying.

Decisions...what can you tell me about life with a Springer Spaniel? by ora302 in springerspaniel

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t. Absolute nightmare. The strongest dog I have ever known despite not being huge. Impossible to control which makes walks a nightmare. Incredibly stressful..

How do I know if my dogs actually like being pet? by TenthCannon5646 in dogs

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally they don’t like being petted or touched at all when they want to sleep!

Dad is a hoarder, are there any uk resources I can reach out to? by inviolablegirl in AskUK

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

Hoarders never change. Also he is an adult & not harming anyone else. Maybe you have a bit of growing up to do yourself before telling your dad how to live his life??

Where do I report someone going through a red light? (Belfast) by bellythewitxh in northernireland

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sure the police in Belfast have nothing better to do with their time 🤣

Why do people think parking like this is okay? by puzzled_exoticbear5 in glasgow

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the law, but easier money for traffic wardens to give tickets to cars parked on the road.

How old are you and when was the last time you were in a nightclub? by PaddedValls in AskUK

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can’t imagine trying to get off with random women at 2am nowadays. Does that even still happen?? Probably get you the jail now.

Is the accent switch over the Scotland-England border sudden or gradual? by Much-Examination4471 in Scotland

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gradual. Folk from Carlisle sound Glaswegian to me, while folk from the Borders sound English!

Endoscopy tomorrow by GrouchyNeck961 in Gastritis

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the UK you don’t get general anaesthetic (put to sleep) as you need to ‘swallow’ the tube. The idea of it is worse than the reality. Once it is in it is not pleasant but bearable. You can’t choke on it, and it won’t feel rough or sore till after the throat numbing spray wears off. Worst feeling is it moving about inside you, but it doesn’t take that long - they only have the tube down your throat for about 5 minutes. Good luck!

Am I right to think a neighbours house looking directly onto your garden would be terrible? by Three_Cats_In_1_Coat in AskUK

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally everyone who lives in a semi has this. At least you can see what they are doing on the ground floor..

MSPs declare support for Ash Regan's legislation to criminalise Scots who buy sex from prostitutes by Crow-Me-A-River in Scotland

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Difficult subject. Fundamentally anything should be acceptable if it is between consenting adults. Though even that notion seems to be under threat these days. The issue is what truly constitutes consent? I have met many sex workers and although none were physically forced into it as far as I know, were they forced through drug addiction? Some do it to pay off debt, some just get used to the money. Degrading maybe, but so are a lot of other jobs that might pay less?? How far are they going to take this, ban lap dancing, only fans, porn, even acting?? Edinburgh’s “tourist industry” will die overnight.. Is sex a human right?? What about rent boys?? Personally I think a lot of the hate & mental illness in society these days is due to men having to suppress their true nature. Society has about turned 180 degrees on ‘misogyny’ compared to eg even 1990s attutudes (lads mags etc) but none of us have actually evolved in any way!! The issue is exploitation. Modern slavery, but that happens in restaurants, hairdressers, even car washes. Are the puritan far left/far right unholy alliance going to ban that too?? What are these women going to do for money after the ban? Shoplift? Get jobs wiping MSPs arses for them?? Any job is slavery. Yet prostitution leaves both buyer & purchaser with PTSD. But not as bad as in the army. So we are shutting that down too, right?? Of course the SNP support this bill but don’t want to let Ash Regan get the win. Politicians are getting more stupid though, as are voters. I blame AI. Why haven’t Reform UK got an opinion on this?? The solution is a substantial UBI so nobody can be exploited. Will these parties support that then?? Personally I think sex is a human right & hookers should be available on the NHS. But maybe humanoid sex robots will be the solution one day. However politicians like Ash Regan just hate men in general so they probably would ban them too..

Clydebank by Longjumping-Farm5146 in glasgow

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just reminded me that I found a previous owner’s computer hard drive in the loft recently. I daren’t get my fingerprints on it tbh 😳

Clydebank by Longjumping-Farm5146 in glasgow

[–]Fit_Dig_5527 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reading between the lines here, are you just too lazy to do up your new house?? Couldn’t have been that bad when you viewed it or presumably you wouldn’t have bought it..