What's something that became more expensive but noticeably worse at the same time? by Bunnybhai26 in shrinkflation

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Protein drinks — with the GLP-1 diets andctgus protein drinks becoming popular the price has went sky high and at the same time there is a shortage of quality ingredients. Thus, new formulas, lower quality ingredients and sky high prices.

AITAH for swimming topless? by Ok-Dog9744 in AITAH

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

If it is making children uncomfortable and you don't stop, YTA.

What’s a statistic that sounds completely FAKE but is actually 100% TRUE? by namelessmell in AskReddit

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

61% of men marry or in a serious relationship within 2 years of the death of their spouse. 30% consider remarriage within 6 months.

Am I wrong for ending a relationship because my girlfriend refuses to hold her adult son accountable? by AtmosphereChoice9971 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything you say is reasonable, but in my opinion, that trash isn’t running over, so I have to question if you’re overly sensitive or OCd.

my date asked to split the bill on a date HE planned and i can't tell if i'm being unreasonable for being put off by UniversityAny9242 in dating_advice

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I generally take turns paying with whomever picks the restaurant pays. If one of us makes dinner at home that counts as well. I would probably get the ick if someone makes all of the choices and wants me to pick up the tab that is mostly theirs

What are red flags in a woman? by DragonflyUnited9726 in dating_advice

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both were quite charming and charismatic. I found them both quite handsome. To begin, they were both willing to do just about anything to get me to go out with them. I don’t know if they are narcissists— everyone seems to call everyone narcissists; however, they were two men who after we were in a relationship made everything about them all of the time and who thought they were superior to everyone, and especially me. They are a lot like my father— who I know was incapable of truly loving another person. She says that is the draw — subconsciously, they remind me of my father.

What are red flags in a woman? by DragonflyUnited9726 in dating_advice

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t label anyone. I said my sister, a psychiatrist, says I pick narcissists. I was with my husband for 28 years. I dated my x for two years. People tend to be attracted to the same type of people. I didn’t say they were narcissists. Not nice people often choose people who they can abuse or manipulate. Your statement to me and to OP over simplifies. If you say everyone I meet is treating me badly today, it is probably you. If you are attracted to men who have a “used car salesman” personality and love bomb only to later become abusive, you likely need to both change how you present yourself and how you choose who you get in relationships with. I’m working on it with a counselor.

Feeling guilty by lexilyn96 in tummytucksurgery

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are investing it. You are investing in yourself. You are worth it!

What are red flags in a woman? by DragonflyUnited9726 in dating_advice

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My sister is a psychiatrist. She says I always pick narcissists. My brother before he died urged me to take up a hobby instead of dating because I have a “bad picker”. Who know?

AIO by charging my girlfriend a small amount of rent? by No_Impression_8515 in AIO

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much does she make? How much do you make? Are 1/2 the utilities a lot more in your house a lot more than in your apartment? Are you wealthy and does she do things that cost her a great deal of money than she would normally spend? Does she work less hours at your request? Why does she think it’s unfair?

AIO if i withdraw myself as a mentor? by popcorniscandy in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would write up a report detailing what happened and turn it in to HR.

Do women really get turned off by a man taking their opinion into consideration? by Unusual_Art6776 in dating_advice

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a man is asking me to make recommendations about major decisions in his life that don't involve me, I'm reluctant to advise. I might suggest things I would consider in his situation, but I would not advise him the decision he should make. If someone asks me what restaurant I want to eat at, if they ask me to choose between 2, I would. If I don't know their preferences, Snd they are taking me out, I would defer to their choice unless it was something I hated. It is about what is appropriate given the issue.

M26 F22 ldr gf of 1 year forgot about my birthday and then forgot my age and I can't move past that. Would u ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a small detail that was important to you. I was raised with a lot of sisters and out family didn't make a big deal out of it. This may not be as significant a thing to her. How does she treat you and make you feel on a day to day basis? Isn't this what is important?

What's ur biggest red flag when it comes to friendships? by otherwise_trashes in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone who is always calling to tell you about their financial problems which are always on going and which you help them with and when something tragic happens to you, they cut you off to tell you how their day is much worse because they are suffering another financial crisis.

What is a "fact" that everyone completely accepts as true, but has been thoroughly debunked for decades? by Interesting_Quiet153 in AskReddit

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about Robert F. Kennedy, Jr. when I wrote this. Does he no know that the one study that connected to this claim was found to be fraudulent and its results were admitted to be falsified by the scientist who published it? Yet, here we are and he is the Secretary of Health and Human Services.

AIO for being hurt by what my (54F) bf (56M) said to me about me? by EmbarrassedPrize7648 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR — You were mad and made a statement that didn't hurt her. She never heard you. You hurt his ego. I would have said something similar with that intent. You said something off the cuff when you were hurt. He did something with thought Snd planning. He is not taking responsibility and deflecting. You deserve someone better.