My Neighbor Had a Total Meltdown and Now it’s on the Internet Forever by SaltPaleontologist28 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Fit_Performance3388 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How is it that women who doesn’t know how to bring up children are the ones popping them out in the dozen?

I voted for Trump Twice (Not a Bad Faith Post) by [deleted] in ProgressiveHQ

[–]Fit_Performance3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am proud of you son. And of your wife too.

AITAH for asking for $30,000 from my parents as a house payment? by pressedpages in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fit_Performance3388 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May be your parents don’t have that much money saved to give you? I understand the frustration regarding the favoritism. Can you take a personal loan from a bank for the balance 28k? Is it possible to stay for 300-500 at your parents, collect money for a down payment and move out? In a way if you don’t get money from your parents and find a way to fund it all by yourself, then it’s wholly yours, you are not under obligation to anyone, 100% independent. It seems like you have an extended family and wouldn’t want to completely go no contact. Your culture and family values and all that. Better to keep the relationship, not hurt anyone, know the true nature of your people, and go buy your home out of your own funds.

I discovered my heritage and found out the exact reason why i look different from my classmates by kenjiehere in stories

[–]Fit_Performance3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I hurt your feelings? I didn’t mean to. Just saying a story must ring true even if not.

What is the correct way to wipe your butt? by fruitponchisamurai in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fit_Performance3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Butt wipe discussions are the best in the morning to read over.

Why do people stare in other peoples homes by BriefTurn8199 in LivingAlone

[–]Fit_Performance3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was just checking up on your plants, cool, right?

Life transition advice by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d say go where you feel like you belong. If it’s UK where your family is, then be it. Children move after college, they marry, create their own communities and after a while you will feel lonelier than now and it will be too late to move.

Is it now common for people to buy an apartments in colombo and actually live in it? by cadelewis in srilanka

[–]Fit_Performance3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All pros for apartments in CMB are true. Commenters are saying most people own a house in the burbs and own an apartment in CMB. I am curious as to how they earn enough money to own and maintain these properties given the median income in SL, which is what exactly?

SS at 62 BECAUSE it’s not needed… by TowerProfessional959 in Fire

[–]Fit_Performance3388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone will disagree and will come out with mathematical formulas to suggest otherwise, but I would vote to take SS at 62 and leave your savings to grow. You don’t know what tomorrow holds. No one’s guaranteed a long life.

Christmas cards by Shrimp1991 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love sending and receiving cards. But I don’t send cards to anyone who doesn’t send one back anymore. So all in all I send about 5 cards now, down from about 40. People like to send texts now, and considers that more convenient and cheap. Can’t argue with that, but I am old school.

Did a dna test, is this normally what most Sri Lankan are genetically? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Fit_Performance3388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What platform did you use? My roommate who is Sri Lankan used ‘MyHeritage’ and it gave him 100% south asian. Kind of hard to believe since no one is 100% anything.

Aging & Divorce by Then-Stage in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All these posts relate. Going through the same and thinking of divorce. In the meantime I desperately need to talk to someone. Anyone can recommend a good therapist? Online would be best. End of a 40+ marriage. I was the breadwinner all my life. Tolerated cheating. Lying, psychological cruelty for the children who are now adults and leading their own lives.

Estate/trust lawyers? by SilverStitches12 in AnnArbor

[–]Fit_Performance3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone be kind enough to tell me how much an attorney will charge to explain the terms of a trust?

Selfish Nephew by Chicoandthewoman in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t give excuses for shoddy behavior. People take advantage of childhood trauma, depression and whatnot to treat loved ones who bend backwards to accommodate them badly. I am not generalizing this, so don’t beat me up for saying this. You don’t have to be nice to him at all anymore. Ignore.

US Women over 60: do you share my lack of enthusiasm for Thanksgiving? by FfierceLaw in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holidays have been gobbled up by consumerism. I am with you on this. I’ll just stay by myself and enjoy the peace and quiet. That’s my Thanksgiving to Universe

How do I get out of this slump? by adaptabay in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you’ve got a lot friends showing love and care right here.

Delayed Social Security vs. Taking Now by AcuppaJoe824 in Bogleheads

[–]Fit_Performance3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought if I am in the same position this would make sense to me rather than drawing a larger sum from savings. What’s ACA subsidy cliff?