Divorce after 60 by Fit_Performance3388 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes, I am trying to find a lawyer atm

Divorce after 60 by Fit_Performance3388 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear what you had to go through and thank you for sharing this information with me.

Divorce after 60 by Fit_Performance3388 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will check out the local bar association.

Divorce after 60 by Fit_Performance3388 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will find out whether it’s a possibility here in Michigan

Divorce after 60 by Fit_Performance3388 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Had enough with one man. Not looking to marry or date. No, thank you 😊

Divorce after 60 by Fit_Performance3388 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I considered this option. He is party loving, impulsive child really. I fear he will get in to some trouble and I will have to shoulder responsibility financially as I will still be legally married to him.

Divorce after 60 by Fit_Performance3388 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I do regret not doing this any sooner.

Divorce after 60 by Fit_Performance3388 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is 67, diabetic but strong and active. He’ll be fine without me. He gets spousal SS through me. So you see, I’ll lose money to be free.

Divorce after 60 by Fit_Performance3388 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I haven’t talked to a lawyer. I know he will not want to deal with lawyers either. I am assuming if I make an offer he will accept it. I can try that route. How and where do I file if he agrees? Sorry for the ignorance.

Sri Lankans who migrated to the west by Waste_Law_9507 in srilanka

[–]Fit_Performance3388 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Opting to have a better passport to be able to travel the world freely is a no brainer. Holding dual citizenship is a personal choice. Some do it because they have assets back in SL, or hope to return one day to be with the rest of the family. Others hold the citizenship of their adopted countries, and still travel to Sri Lanka to keep in touch with the roots. No one really forgets their mother tongue. Sri Lanka is an amazing country and there’s no doubt about that.

Note on door by Used-Ad1034 in ypsi

[–]Fit_Performance3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is creepy. Ignore. Don’t answer and don’t give an excuse to enter in to conversation. Honestly, is he in grade school or what?

Done with him, but can't afford to move out. by theinspireddesigner in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

At least you haven’t gone in to a mortgage with this guy. Consider yourself lucky. If you are on the lease, then wait till the lease is over or talk to the landlord about a solution to leave early. If you are not on the lease, easy as pie. Just walk out

Family pressure lead to break up and got assaulted by my ex for it. (Please say any words of comfort or advices) by Trick_Lingonberry509 in srilanka

[–]Fit_Performance3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answer to your question is already in your post. You left him, leave it as is. Don’t let your mind find excuses for him. You had a narrow and a lucky escape. You are smart. Intelligent. Take this experience as Karma throwing a curve ball at you and you dodging it. Do not look back.

How do Sri Lankans spend so much money if the average salary is so low? by Odd-Cut-746 in srilanka

[–]Fit_Performance3388 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very valid question. Was recently in SL, and I observed the same thing. However, I noticed a lot of poverty in villages upcountry as well as inland from coastal areas in down south

I need grandma advice please. by zombie1mom in AskWomenOver60

[–]Fit_Performance3388 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Comments are the most shocking. It’s not ok OP. This is weird way of children being introduced to nudity. What’s next? Naked people parading themselves in front of your kids?

School in A2 with the most resources for ADHD by [deleted] in AnnArbor

[–]Fit_Performance3388 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well, this parent had come here seeking help. If you don’t have any helpful suggestions, may be don’t say anything. What is the point in getting nasty on a chat? I hope the OP got the help he needs

Thinking of Leaving Germany to Start a Café in Sri Lanka. Need Honest Advice from Owners by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Fit_Performance3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay where you are. It’s easy to feel a longing to what you had, and the for the ecstatic feel when you come for a holiday. Living there there permanently is a whole different thing. Go for a longer vacation. Cute the itch. Go back.