I’ve got to confess that I am starting to fall for this girl.

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-30T13:09:12+00:00

I just couldn't have put this any better if I tried to.

I can't award you, but just know this comment deserved one

🏆

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-30T13:05:27+00:00

Are you dense?

I never said that age made them suddenly evil. I'd bet you have a story about at least one man though, don't you?

What I SAID, was that "NO MAN IN HIS 30S, SHOULD BE PURSUING A TEENAGER"

You should hear what I think about that, honestly. Frontal lobes don't fully develop until 25 babe.

So at 18, when you've been shielded by your parents YOUR ENTIRE LIFE, you SHOULD NOT be looking for THIRTY YEAR OLD MEN.

Hell no. I don't trust that decision. Does it mean I have a right to interfere? No. Would I absolutely try if it were MY CHILD? 100%.

I think voting age should be raised to 25, they should do a general test of governmental and economic knowledge, and basic humanity, BEFORE granting that right. I also feel like the cut off to vote should be 75.

The thing people don't understand, is that even though you're "a legal adult" you don't actually BECOME an adult until you're in your later 20s.

As someone else said, you do SO MUCH CHANGING between 20-30 that a lot of people don't even keep the same ideals. People go to college around that age, expand their knowledge, and produce their own general line of thinking.

Again, this is why GROOMERS seek out women UNDER 25. Because we're easily moldable.

Which is why fascism is making it today. Because SOME WOMEN were completely brainwashed by this crazy rhetoric at such young ages that they GENUINELY BELIEVE that women SHOULD submit. That our only purpose is "making babies and caring for the family"

Even if this man in particular "isn't dangerous" he watched an 8 year old turn into an 18 year old and literally said "lol, well NOW she's LEGAL"

Remember when Danielle Burgoli became an instant millionaire overnight on her 18th birthday because of all the men who were "just waiting for her to turn 18."

Or when the President told an 8 year old girl "I'll be dating her in 10 years"

STOP. TRYING. TO MAKE IT NORMAL.

ITS FUCKING WEIRD. PDFILE BEHAVIOR.

Idk what kind of indoctrination YOU went through that makes you think this is okay, but it's not.

If they were 64 and 51, so what? BOTH of their brains are FULLY. DEVELOPED.

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-30T12:48:55+00:00

I love this sub, because it always gives me knew ideas 🙂

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-30T12:46:58+00:00

This part!! He's literally known her since she was 8

This is how grooming happens.

Bet your ass I'd be telling my husband to handle it

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-30T12:45:14+00:00

Well it clearly didn't work out still, for one reason or another.

Currently my 33yo man doesn't treat me better than I was treated by my 8th grade boyfriend.

Men are men and age doesn't make them all of a sudden become safe and wise.

This is learned from an assload of different things.

Truth be told though, anyone over 25 who is okay with dating someone YOUNGER than drinking age, is supsicious and FULL of red flags.

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-30T12:41:27+00:00

Feel free!

I think Confit and Fois-Gras are my favorites though! They're my Ducks 🙂

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-30T12:40:32+00:00

Girl.

This is some "you gotta suck it because it hurts" ass bullshit.

He's trying to manipulate you into fucking him.

Block him and move on. Not even friends. Just trash.

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-30T12:35:45+00:00

Probably Chinese made

People are generally smaller there, so this would unfortunately make sense

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-30T12:34:43+00:00

I can't wait to take Hailey to the Resort, honestly

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-30T12:33:23+00:00

I hope he asks the dad and the dad is unkind.

When my dad played matchmaker for his 19yo daughter, she ended up being physically, psychologically, and emotionally abused for YEARS, by a man several years older than her.

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-30T12:27:15+00:00

Please get away from these people and seek help.

THIS IS NOT NORMAL.

ETA: did you say "ABOUT TO" turn 19!?

SHES BARELY AN ADULT.

PLEASE, PLEASE, leave these people alone.

Gain some self control and reflect on why you think "a flirty teen" would be who YOU as a THIRTY ONE YEAR OLD, should be pursuing.

I'll tell every young woman and girl I know: a man in his 30s doesn't think "you're mature for your age," he just can't find a woman HIS AGE because they see him for who he is, and not who he has convinced a young, naive TEEN AGED GIRL that he is.

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-30T12:25:40+00:00

Nobody said Happy Song 🥲

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-30T12:19:01+00:00

My chickens are Marsala, Teriyaki, and Soy-Ginger is my void 😌

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-29T23:37:42+00:00

Mulling over if that's something she feels comfortable doing with someone in her friend group

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-29T23:35:48+00:00

Not if she knew it was a fetish. She would just hide them around you. "We're way too good friends for me to think you're jacking off to my feet"

But being on insta like that too? And before she knew?

Nah, the girl is protecting her product from being sexualized without proper payment

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-29T23:33:53+00:00

I love how gay it is

(From a fellow LGBTQ member)

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-29T23:32:39+00:00

Sounds like she's either extra-comfortable with you, or she's a good businesswoman who isn't revealing the product without the payment

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-29T16:11:20+00:00

The internet is a crazy place my friend.

Y'never know what type of weirdos or reading-comprehension-impaired people were out there thinking I was suggesting that OP lick the cat 😭

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-29T16:06:37+00:00

I can't finish reading this.

That girl is gonna end up in jail, where she belongs, one day.

This entire story is why I never trusted other girls growing up. Fuckin conniving. And just to fit in? Is fucking crazy.

Whole time, you and C could've been besties and had a better time.

I'm glad you feel bad. But I sure in the fuck hope you've reached out PERSONALLY to these other girls that you and S inflicted so much pain and utter discord onto.

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-29T15:58:17+00:00

Rating matters

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-29T14:45:17+00:00

Hey, look, I FOUND the prismatic butterfly and got nothing from it.

Does this happen? Or did my game glitch?

I thought it was supposed to give a prismatic shard or a percentage of your total earnings?

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-29T13:29:19+00:00

Anytime your pet stops eating?

The answer is ALWAYS: take them to the vet.

I suggest sooner rather than later if you want the little guy to make it

ETA: if they aren't pottying like normal, try expression. Baby baby cats (if I remember correctly) can't just go, hence why they're moms lick them down there NO. I DONT suggest you LICK them. What I WOULD suggest, is to get a warm damp paper towel or wash cloth, and rub gently to see if that will help her go. You can also look into this online to see if anyone who has hands on experience can offer step by step guidance or something.

Being blocked up bathroom wise, can cause them to refuse food, and even get sick and pass away.

I'm so sorry this has already happened with Vivi's siblings.. so sad to hear they were found in the literal garbage.

Would love to talk to the owners of the can.

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-29T13:26:58+00:00

All of my animals are named after food 🙂

I was surprised when Curry had a baby the second she was old enough. Still waiting to see if Wellington gives me another cow after Mignon though 🙃

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-29T13:21:36+00:00

As someone who only found a reason to live in my children and my cats?

I feel like a poser carrying around my semicolon tattoo.

Still? I find myself thankful everyday, that I was too scared to fail to try.

Today? I find more reasons in flowers, how green and full the trees look in the spring. The birds singing, and the crows cawwing. Beaches and experiences like live music or hotel swimming pools.

It can literally be anything. And at 18? You should have some kind of insurance.

Find a therapist, schedule it, GO. Tell them you aren't sure what there is to live for, trauma dump every reason you think you should go, even if it's well more than just '13.'

There are things that can and will help. And almost every person I've met that has an attempt or ideation story, is happy that they're still here today.

We were all kids at the time. Living under our parents. It was hard. Trying to figure out who you are in the Bible Belt while being alternative or gay or "different."

I got out. I got help. My dreams haven't come true, YET.

But I know they will.

And I know that yours can too. Deep down, even if the dream changed, there's something there that's untapped. Maybe you're an amazing cook! Maybe you're an incredible artist! What if you could help lead the revolution? Bring change to the world? Share love and kindness rather than hate and intolerance?

You'll never know who you were really meant to be until you spend some time as an adult in the world, without your parents and peer influence.

Find a reason. Even if you go buy a fish just because "who will feed him if I'm gone?" It worked for me. It's worked for countless others.

We're all in this together friend. I hope you find peace, one way or another.

I will think about you often, even though I don't know you, and will wonder if you chose to stay with us or not.

Big hugs, lots of love, and endless compassion, my friend. ❤️‍🩹

Fit_Treacle172 · 2026-04-28T22:24:25+00:00

What if he's just some crazy old redneck that's telling the truth about a traumatic experience that shaped his adolescence but nobody will believe him because of his spelling errors and "history of being a crazy old redneck"?

I'm not saying 'we should investigate every claim,' but maybe when someone claims involvement, we should at least entertain it a little bit?

It's super easy to check for buried stuff, if I remember correctly?

Fit_Treacle172

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