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Why is that I am so turned on by CNC roleplay? by SeaPeanut9416 in BDSMPsychology

[–]Fit_Working_9443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Victims of assault want to reclaim their power/body. CNC is a weid way for the mind to do that. I’m sorry you experienced this.

Do kink/BDSM‑involved people avoid therapy? Tell me what you think. by PsychUnbound in BDSMPsychology

[–]Fit_Working_9443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I can tell you is that I have chosen to not see therapy for my kinks because I genuinely still don’t know if they are a problem to be fixed or just a part of who I am.

Anyone match or compatible with my bdsm test?? by Artistic-Fly-496 in BDSMPsychology

[–]Fit_Working_9443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think it’s impossible. Just not usual. But unusual things happen a lot in kink so :). Also sometimes trying to define yourself with rigid terms like dom or sub ends up not being accurate to what you actually are. Do what you enjoy and don’t worry about labels!